I thought you were a troll based on the Shawn Mendes thread. How can you be so blind when it comes to him? I admit we all have blind spots in our gaydar (
reminds me of American Dad where every family member has one persona of Roger they don't recognize as him) but to me you sound like his shill. Because Shawn says he's straight right?
See, to me, the trolls there are the ones who lust after him so much that they need need
need him be gay. Say for a moment he was, how is it not trolling someone to demand they come out of the closet before their time? Or better yet, to demand that they are a sexuality that they’re not? Like, I dunno, gay instead of bisexual?
In that case you said you lied about being bisexual too.
No, I
thought I was. I didn’t understand that I could have sexual feelings for people of the opposite sex as well and not be bisexual. That that was a thing. And how that being so (unless I’m missing something) shouldn’t threaten the idea of bisexuality so much as inform the concept of general human sexuality.
I think our concepts of sexuality, maybe because we’re only now free as a society to form them freely, are unrefined and inaccurate. Freud was a revolution, yet now most of his ideas have been superseded by better ones, for the better of everyone. We respect him and the work, but we progress as well.
It's ironic that here you are now trying to understand bisexuality. Did you not research anything before claiming it during your coming out process?
You mean as a closeted 13-year old in a world where information wasn’t as readily available as it is now? I paid attention, but mostly I was trying to figure out my own feelings.
I wonder what that 1% straight is still on your bio lol
It’s a tip of the hat to human beings being able to find the whole spectrum of human genders attractive. That’s the natural state, not the boxes we put ourselves in and then beat ourselves up for not quite fitting instead of taking another look at the boxes themselves. I can find a woman hot yet not enough to be fully satisfied by her.
Dylan won't be the first or last to fake he's attracted to both the penis and vagina. ‘Experts' give varying diagnosis to every murderer who claims insanity once they're caught. Just as the ineffective lie detector we don't have any device to physically prove someone's genuine sexuality. Put Dylan naked in a room and see if he gets a boner when shown female nudes?
Most people will get a boner when naked and shown nudes, regardless if they’re the sex they’re looking for. That’s another bit of human psychology you won’t necessarily be taught at school or hear at the brunch circle.
Perhaps like her, I confess I haven't met anyone yet - bisexual or any other - who have convinced me they're attracted to both the male and female form - male pecs and female breasts / male and female butts / male and female facial features and body proportions.
What do you mean ‘convinced’ you? I’ve known many bisexual people in my life who’ve remained bisexual.
I don’t find it too difficult to believe given how wildly varied sexualities, psychologies, and basic appearances of people can be. That there are spectrums of all of them.
'Romantic feelings' is even more vague because what exactly do we define as love?
Right. Maybe we need different words for different kinds of love like the Greeks had/have. When Mario Adrian goes on about how he’s in love with a Travis Bryant but not sexually, I’m not sure what he’s talking about. He’s said that he’s not physically attracted to men like he is women, but that his ‘romantic’ feelings are confusing him. ...Is he trying to make the fan ‘shipping real? Can’t he just love Travis as a friend? Can’t he just admire him physically, hell, even have sex if they want to take it there. But they’re not going to be sufficient for one another long-term.
They could try to be, and live lives of quiet desperation. Plenty of gay men and women have with their spouses in ages past, and some still today. But it’s unnecessary.
Good luck getting honesty out of Dylan. However, I will try to stop commenting here -
Dylan geick - I feel like I'm personally targeted. I can be a good hater. Although having said all that Dylan is one of the 'public figures' I want to see succeed - really.
I don’t get people here who hate on him for being unattractive, a failure, etc. Why are you here then?
I’m annoyed with his bisexuality comments, but, beyond that, yeah, he’s hot. He has been going through something lately. The detour into the military fucked him up, but I’m curious to see where he goes next. What his journey will be.
One can identify as anything and the rest have to play along. #piesexual
We’re not fruitsexual or piesexual, we’re just sexual.
btw stupid gay porn needs to be more creative with their storylines than just be fixated on dick size.
I wish they got actual writers and actual actors to make porn. Maybe in the future when it’s less kids off the street and more alternative career path. Imagine an intelligent nuanced unfolding story like a ten-episode Netflix series, only they fully act out the part where the camera pans away. In different dazzling twisted tantalizing ways each time.