Hey guys this is my first post and I was wondering if yall had any advice about eating out pussy. My girlfriend is always trying to get me to do it when she's giving me head but I really don't know what to do. I've been with a few different girls but never actually had one that wanted me to do it. Can anybody give some advice, techniques? Thank you
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Go slow and use the tip of your tongue to find her sensitive spots...trust me, you will know based on her reaction. Once you pinpoint them, start to work them over, gently, and she will love it. DO NOT go face deep in there and start tearing her up with your mouth...it pisses them off lol. If you can talk her into a 69, with your girl on top, its a big win-win.
when going down on my girl, i usually just start at the top and split her lips with my tongue. all the way down to her hole. it pretty much covers everything...then on the way back up i wiggle it around. i like to feel her shudder. then i spread those lips open and tongue fuck the hell out of her. haha find the clit and you're good to go.
how true but dont forget that lovely some times sensitive clit always stop up there to see howw sensitive they are and were and how she will let u know. sometimes thow u can drive them so crazy u mite have to back off once in a wile she u will be able to tell. if u get her off that way it can almost be enough to make u come very enjoyable for both even if shes not giving u head its just u down there pure delite. the satifaction of satisfying her!MMMMMMMMM well lets just say she will luv yall
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I gently run my tongue around her pussy lips, and then slowly start to focus more and more on her clit with a rhythmic action with my tongue. Many women I've been with also enjoy a finger slipped inside at the same time, especially if you move your finger against the front of their vagina, in sort of a "come hither" motion.
I also found a bunch of info online by googline "cunnilingus tips." Here's one thing I found.
I also found a bunch of info online by googline "cunnilingus tips." Here's one thing I found.
Lay on your back and have her straddle your chest, with her looking down toward your cock. Then tell her to lower her vagina down to your mouth. With her knees spread over your chest, her vagina will automatically expose itself so you can rise with your tongue poised, and begin lightly caressing her lips and clit with the tip of your tongue. Gradually spread her vulva lips with your tongue and rotate gently. You can tell from her responses when it's exciting her, because she will begin to press her pussy against your tongue, enticing you to tongue-fuck her. When you do, her juices will begin to flow, and in the heat of the activity she will probably move her head down and begin to suck your cock lovingly, doing everything possible to deep throat it. Then it shouldn't take long before she is begging you to mount her and penetrate her with every inch you can muster.
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Educate yourself as to female anatomy.
learn to identify the clitoris and, more importantly, learn how to locate it with your tongue.
Each woman is different. Some like direct stimulation, rolling your tongue around it in a circular pattern.... some prefer stimulation a little high or low, some like a little flick, then a tiny pause, then a flick, then a tiny pause...
Try to zero in on the technique that seems to get the best response. ( encourage her to be vocal in letting you know what works for her)
At first the clit will get a little bigger, stiffer and easy to keep track of...
As she gets close to orgasm, most women's clits will suddenly get very soft...
this is where you are most likely to lose the little sucker and she will slip off the edge...
YOu need to keep up your technique, and increase intensity or frequency at this point, and try to stay on target....
You know you are there when the padded saftey thighs clamp down on either side of your head shake some sense into you.
For most women, immediately post orgasm is when they need you to lighten up or lay off for a half a minute.... keep the tongue working... but lightly over a wider area, avoid focus on the clit for 30 seconds or so and then begin to gradually zero back in on it... staying aware of her response. Build back up to another crescendo for a second orgasm... lighten up for a short bit then dive in for a third.
Some women like their asses kneaded, or, if you can reach, the breasts and or nipples caressed, tweaked, or gently mashed.
You will find the first orgasm takes the longest, but that each successive orgasm is quicker. Some women are okay with the 'refractory lull' getting briefer between orgasms... sometimes to the point of continuous full on orgasm on orgasm.
If you can get a woman into this state of steady rolling orgasm, and keep her there for 15 or 20 minutes... she can get into a semi delirious state where she will achieve orgasm from almost any rhythmic stimulus. A good pounding fuck, or if she's the type, even a spanking, can result in body shaking orgasms.
Some women can't take the continuous stimulation and prefer discrete orgasms with a slight lull between... whatever works for her, your job is to satisfy her needs...
But, honestly... ANY willing woman can achieve 20 to 50 orgasms in an hour or two if you pay the right attention to the right things.
And a GOOD man makes sure she gets 20 for every one he has.
Leave them dizzy, disoriented, and disproportionately happy... and they will come back for more.
learn to identify the clitoris and, more importantly, learn how to locate it with your tongue.
Each woman is different. Some like direct stimulation, rolling your tongue around it in a circular pattern.... some prefer stimulation a little high or low, some like a little flick, then a tiny pause, then a flick, then a tiny pause...
Try to zero in on the technique that seems to get the best response. ( encourage her to be vocal in letting you know what works for her)
At first the clit will get a little bigger, stiffer and easy to keep track of...
As she gets close to orgasm, most women's clits will suddenly get very soft...
this is where you are most likely to lose the little sucker and she will slip off the edge...
YOu need to keep up your technique, and increase intensity or frequency at this point, and try to stay on target....
You know you are there when the padded saftey thighs clamp down on either side of your head shake some sense into you.
For most women, immediately post orgasm is when they need you to lighten up or lay off for a half a minute.... keep the tongue working... but lightly over a wider area, avoid focus on the clit for 30 seconds or so and then begin to gradually zero back in on it... staying aware of her response. Build back up to another crescendo for a second orgasm... lighten up for a short bit then dive in for a third.
Some women like their asses kneaded, or, if you can reach, the breasts and or nipples caressed, tweaked, or gently mashed.
You will find the first orgasm takes the longest, but that each successive orgasm is quicker. Some women are okay with the 'refractory lull' getting briefer between orgasms... sometimes to the point of continuous full on orgasm on orgasm.
If you can get a woman into this state of steady rolling orgasm, and keep her there for 15 or 20 minutes... she can get into a semi delirious state where she will achieve orgasm from almost any rhythmic stimulus. A good pounding fuck, or if she's the type, even a spanking, can result in body shaking orgasms.
Some women can't take the continuous stimulation and prefer discrete orgasms with a slight lull between... whatever works for her, your job is to satisfy her needs...
But, honestly... ANY willing woman can achieve 20 to 50 orgasms in an hour or two if you pay the right attention to the right things.
And a GOOD man makes sure she gets 20 for every one he has.
Leave them dizzy, disoriented, and disproportionately happy... and they will come back for more.
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just explore with your tongue, nose, and lips. i love eating my partner. she gets so turned on.
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Forget 69s... they're a whole load of hype about nothing. It's practically impossible to really receive pleasure at the same time as you're concentrating on pleasing.
Before you go down on her, have her find a position in which she feels really comfortable and can relax properly, this is VERY important. And then find a position in which you're really comfortable, because what you need to know is that it can take around 25 minutes of repetative stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm (sorry boys, but those girls who cum in 2 mins flat - probably faking because they're bored lol).
Before you go down on her, have her find a position in which she feels really comfortable and can relax properly, this is VERY important. And then find a position in which you're really comfortable, because what you need to know is that it can take around 25 minutes of repetative stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm (sorry boys, but those girls who cum in 2 mins flat - probably faking because they're bored lol).
I agree. And I agree with most everything. One really basic way to proceed at the beginning, to see what she likes, would be to visualize yourself using the tip of your tongue to trace out the letters of the alphabet (lower case script) on the upper half of her cunt, touching her clit on each letter.
She'll let you know what's good for her...:smile:
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Not true for me.
A good 69 sends me out the roof. Luv to cum with a dick in my mouth. I'm on top. Maybe 10 mins?
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I think you should learn to stimulate her clit with your (wet) finger before you start using your tongue. It will be easier to progress in baby steps. Read advice articles online about cunnilingus and watch porno where they actually spend many minutes licking a pussy. A lot of times that only happens in lesbian porno.
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- Nala,
I second that, but it seems I somehow clamp my jaws when an orgasm hits me.
Although the victim of my pleasing came a few seconds later, he tried to convince me he is not that masochistic after all. :biggrin1:
69 is fun, just be sure to pull back in time if you insist on keeping the jewelry. :tongue:
my style is to lick and nibble on labia and clit for a while, and spread the vulva wide and lick all available. Then I take the whole pussy into my mouth and suck on it, quite audibly. It's not tongue insertion, tongue fucking, that's appreciated as much as loving attention to the entire pussy, especially sucking gently on the clit. And don't forget pubes, thighs, ass, etc.
work slowly....make some slurping and sucking sounds... cover every bit of her pussy, and spraad her slowly...suck her juices...look up in appreciation into her eyes...end by taking the whole shebang into your mouth and sucking it slowly...give her lots of time to thrash, moan, cum...but want more. She'll want to either return the favor by giving you slow head and swallowing your cum, switch to 69, or give you a large wow of a fuck
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