Erectile dysfunction

[Shup1234]

I'm a 25 year old guy. Pretty fit. I was first with a guy when I was 15.
Because of youth or wanting to rebel or whatever, I always picked rough partners. Tried all sorts of kinky things. But all these guys were usually in 30s. More experienced and it never evolved into a relationship, which I wanted to happen.
Now I'm seeing a guy a little younger than me. His idea of fucking is like some soft core movie. And it works great for him. He gets hard with things like just making out. I envy that because I'm just constantly thinking of raunchy things I wanna do to him instead. And I don't get real hard unless I'm like slapping his ass or eating him out at least.
I wanna be more like him. Less kinky. Less driven by rough sex and verbal stuff.
I really do love him and want to be with him and satisfy him the way he likes it. But I'm afraid my hidden desires are just not something I can indulge in with him. TBH, I like the romance and the little things with him. So an open relationship is definitely not gonna work for either of us.

Anyone got a similar situation with vanilla sex just not being enough anymore? Found a solution to this? And if I should start taking viagra and start doing it even if I'm not "feeling" it.

 

[bkmuscledad]

I'm a 25 year old guy. Pretty fit. I was first with a guy when I was 15.
Because of youth or wanting to rebel or whatever, I always picked rough partners. Tried all sorts of kinky things. But all these guys were usually in 30s. More experienced and it never evolved into a relationship, which I wanted to happen.
Now I'm seeing a guy a little younger than me. His idea of fucking is like some soft core movie. And it works great for him. He gets hard with things like just making out. I envy that because I'm just constantly thinking of raunchy things I wanna do to him instead. And I don't get real hard unless I'm like slapping his ass or eating him out at least.
I wanna be more like him. Less kinky. Less driven by rough sex and verbal stuff.
I really do love him and want to be with him and satisfy him the way he likes it. But I'm afraid my hidden desires are just not something I can indulge in with him. TBH, I like the romance and the little things with him. So an open relationship is definitely not gonna work for either of us.

Anyone got a similar situation with vanilla sex just not being enough anymore? Found a solution to this? And if I should start taking viagra and start doing it even if I'm not "feeling" it.

It sounds like you need to mix things up a bit, and that will lend itself to the most amazing marathon sessions. There's nothing like the back and forth between hot/sweaty and affectionate cuddling/making out/body exploration. Start with one, then the other. Lather, rinse, repeat.

 

[lgtrmusr]

Now I am a Patient Advocate for guys with ED that might be considering an implant and have questions. I also help guys who have had their implant and need education from someone who actually has one... it's great.

Great you're doing the volunteer work!

 

[RamblingCock]

I had a problem a couple of years ago. Tried Viagra (headache) and found Cialis to be a good option. Started using maca root and celery seed extract. More improvement. Doctor tested testosterone levels. Very low. Now getting bi-weekly shots. HUGE improvement, both in erection and in overall health.

Last time I saw my urologist (two weeks ago) I had him look up the Gainswave treatment. Intrigued him, though he more immediately focused on the use for Peyronie's (which I do not have). He's looking into it, but didn't know anything about it before I asked.

Anyone here have experience with Gainswave? It's getting a lot of good press.

 

[2hot2handle]

Interesting never heard of GainsWave until now.

Watched the video on their website, here is another clip from The Doctors:

 

[2hot2handle]

Anyone tried these online pharmacy prescription services for the US? There are several out there: Roman, Blue Chew, Hims. I am specifically interested if anyone has tried Roman?

 

[lgtrmusr]

Watched the video on their website, here is another clip from The Doctors:

Watched the video above - gotta' watch out for the placebo effect in a treatment like this, and check for long term benefit.

 

[deleted1025121]

Has anyone ever tried Anafranil (clomipramine) for ED?

 

[1109472]

So from all the reading that I've done regarding this issue, it all falls back to your diet & exercise. I started having erection issues back around when I was 33 or so. I wasn't in shape, overweight obviously, and I ate all kinds of crap. I began having problems maintaining an erection especially with my wife and it made her feel like shit because she assumed that I wasn't attracted to her anymore. Come to find out, my arteries were getting clogged by all the crap I ate, red meat mainly. Cholesterol is a huge factor as well. So O started exercising again, started to clean up my diet, lost about 50 pounds overall in a couple of years and now I take vitamins & supplements to help with blood flood. So what I found that really helps currently is L-Arginine. I take 1 pill with breakfast and 1 with dinner or right before sex. Really helps the blood flow where I need it to. It's practically the main ingredient in Viagra and Cialis but you can get a 2 month supply for 10 bucks at wal-mart. I also take Horny Goat weed and Fenugreek for testosterone support. I only do a half a dose of the Horny Goat weed other wise a
I'll walk around all day at work with a fucking bulge in my pants. But yea, diet and exercise, and a few little supplements and you will enjoy your sex life all over again.

 

[BBB2.5]

So from all the reading that I've done regarding this issue, it all falls back to your diet & exercise. I started having erection issues back around when I was 33 or so. I wasn't in shape, overweight obviously, and I ate all kinds of crap. I began having problems maintaining an erection especially with my wife and it made her feel like shit because she assumed that I wasn't attracted to her anymore. Come to find out, my arteries were getting clogged by all the crap I ate, red meat mainly. Cholesterol is a huge factor as well. So O started exercising again, started to clean up my diet, lost about 50 pounds overall in a couple of years and now I take vitamins & supplements to help with blood flood. So what I found that really helps currently is L-Arginine. I take 1 pill with breakfast and 1 with dinner or right before sex. Really helps the blood flow where I need it to. It's practically the main ingredient in Viagra and Cialis but you can get a 2 month supply for 10 bucks at wal-mart. I also take Horny Goat weed and Fenugreek for testosterone support. I only do a half a dose of the Horny Goat weed other wise a
I'll walk around all day at work with a fucking bulge in my pants. But yea, diet and exercise, and a few little supplements and you will enjoy your sex life all over again.

Good for you..

 

[StudentSex]

okay so i just tried emla cream as i also have premature ejaculation issues. I dont think it helped particularly and the sensation wasnt really there so i dont think thats the solution.
Wish there was a way i could fix this permantly without taking meds prior to sex everytime

 

[deleted1334580]

I just wanted to put my own experiences out there. Don't neglect the effects of alcohol consumption. I reached a low point in my life (now in recovery) but I basically had total ED caused by excessive alcoholic drinks. It took about an entire month after going clean that the erections came back (and came back hard too).

Even a small amount of alcohol isn't helpful for guys suffering from this.

 

[herbho]

GainesWave therapy demo

 

[Countrythick6]

GainesWave therapy demo

Well that's pretty cool

 

[916416]

So from all the reading that I've done regarding this issue, it all falls back to your diet & exercise. I started having erection issues back around when I was 33 or so. I wasn't in shape, overweight obviously, and I ate all kinds of crap. I began having problems maintaining an erection especially with my wife and it made her feel like shit because she assumed that I wasn't attracted to her anymore. Come to find out, my arteries were getting clogged by all the crap I ate, red meat mainly. Cholesterol is a huge factor as well. So O started exercising again, started to clean up my diet, lost about 50 pounds overall in a couple of years and now I take vitamins & supplements to help with blood flood. So what I found that really helps currently is L-Arginine. I take 1 pill with breakfast and 1 with dinner or right before sex. Really helps the blood flow where I need it to. It's practically the main ingredient in Viagra and Cialis but you can get a 2 month supply for 10 bucks at wal-mart. I also take Horny Goat weed and Fenugreek for testosterone support. I only do a half a dose of the Horny Goat weed other wise a
I'll walk around all day at work with a fucking bulge in my pants. But yea, diet and exercise, and a few little supplements and you will enjoy your sex life all over again.

Damn good post

 

[lowhangers]

Sex accident 10 years ago. Sometimes erections. Mostly need to pump.
Last year that also impossible. The right swells don’t fill with blood. So A year ago that he get hard. The last few months no blue ball feeling anymore and no leaking of precum. So sex is over and have am oldman penis with A with glance and low hanging balls.

 

[Beanie]

i had this issue for about 5 years now, im 35. I struggle to get an erection and struggle to maintain it.

i just strarted using viagra connect (50mg). I managed to an instant erection with my gf. However i would not say i was fully rock hard never the less i was hard. Unfortunalty i am ejaculating very quickly, i would say less then a minute of being in the pussy.

is 50mg quite weak? anyone had this expereince?
i only used the tablet twice.

ED meds’ shouldn’t affect the amount of time you ejaculate. I think it’s more of a mental thing for you because you’ve built this up not being able to maintain an erection and please your partner. I think because your no longer experience those issues it’s having an effect else where

 

[StudentSex]

ED meds’ shouldn’t affect the amount of time you ejaculate. I think it’s more of a mental thing for you because you’ve built this up not being able to maintain an erection and please your partner. I think because your no longer experience those issues it’s having an effect else where

i am also begiing to think its not physical, i can get an erection, but it takes along time to get there and its not rock hard iether.
things is im completley relaxed when im having sex. i think its porn related, having watched porn for years and masterbated to it i struggle to get aroused now. i think thats the crux of it

 

[Beanie]

i am also begiing to think its not physical, i can get an erection, but it takes along time to get there and its not rock hard iether.
things is im completley relaxed when im having sex. i think its porn related, having watched porn for years and masterbated to it i struggle to get aroused now. i think thats the crux of it

You may be right, obviously you know better than us. Maybe lay off the porn for a while and just use your imagination to get over the line, usually helps.

 

[deleted817718]

Unfortunately, there is also an age element. As you get older, erections have a habit of getting weaker. They market Viagra to a more mature customer base, for a reason. So whilst porn may play a part, the passage of time can also have an impact, sadly.

Unfortunately premature ejaculation is also something that gets worse with age.