Well this is more geared to gays.. The first time i ever had sex was in a car, the guy wasnt anything huge. more so "average" the worst thing i ever expected to happen...happened!We were in a car so there was nothing around to clean up. i cried. The second bat at bottoming this guy had a 7.5 inch, nothing crazy. We fucked doggystyle. and almost immediately it happend again. TWICE! I havent bottomed in FOUR YEARS; nothing but topping. I hear that anal douching can help, but... A.) I dont know how to do it. B.) What happens if its spontaneous sex??! is there something im doing wrong?! Too relaxedor something???