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All right guys I have 2 part maybe 3 part..what is your definition of the following and how they work!


Fuck Buddy
Friends with benefits

Also weather it be a Fuck Buddy or friends with benefits if one person tell the other if you play with others tell me. Shouldn't it be expected of the person that says it as well? Or is it me.

Trying to figure out what I want! So thought I ask what each means to you and if you have any how they work. All insight appreciate
 

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For me, a fuck buddy is someone you hook up with regularly, but its just sex. You'd probably contact him for a booty call but not really to grab a drink with.

Friends with benefits are a little bit more. You might grab a drink with him and go to a party with him and you guys hook up on a regular basis but you arent really exclusive or dating
 

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Fuck buddy - someone I fuck for the quality of the sex..

Friend with Benefits - someone I know and socialise with and fuck when it works for us both
 

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For me, a fuck buddy is someone you hook up with regularly, but its just sex. You'd probably contact him for a booty call but not really to grab a drink with.

Friends with benefits are a little bit more. You might grab a drink with him and go to a party with him and you guys hook up on a regular basis but you arent really exclusive or dating
So is fuck buddy exclusive or still hook with others?
 

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A friend with benefits is a woman whom I actually enjoy on a purely platonic basis, a fuck buddy is a woman I might not even want to be around except for when we are both horny.
So is fuck buddy exclusive or still hook with others?
Depends, at its base "fuck buddy" implies neither parties other sexual dalliances are the business of the other, realistically most fuck buddy situations have one person whom likes the other more, and hooking up with others may mitigate their willingness to stay in the construct. Here in hetero land as a general rule, it's better to assume the woman may want more if casual sex is being freely had(given the disproportionate gendered access to casual sex), and so any action that may stray from the exclusivity she may or may not eventually seek from the situation tends to be on the guy to at least give her the option 1st.
 

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They're both the same thing... sexual activity with no strings attached. The variable here is how much of a relationship do you want to form with this person and what are the boundaries/rules that you both must never cross/violate.

Don't try to complicate things. It's just sex and pleasure, nothing more. When you try to make it more complex than it really is, is when things start to get off-track and then things start to go south. If the sex situation is working and both parties are gaining from it then leave it as is.

I remember a FWB wherein we both agreed to never talk about our personal/family lives. We would meet up, chat a little, got naked, fucked, chat some more, fucked again, and went our separate ways. To this day, I still don't know how many siblings she has, whether or not her grandparents are still alive, where she works, or what she spends her money on. I do know she sucks some serious dick and can take me balls deep every time... and that's all that matters with her, nothing more, nothing less.
 

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All right guys I have 2 part maybe 3 part..what is your definition of the following and how they work!


Fuck Buddy
Friends with benefits

Also weather it be a Fuck Buddy or friends with benefits if one person tell the other if you play with others tell me. Shouldn't it be expected of the person that says it as well? Or is it me.

Trying to figure out what I want! So thought I ask what each means to you and if you have any how they work. All insight appreciate
A fuck buddy is more of an acquaintance type of relationship. Where you are 'loosely' connected to that person. Where you contact them for a quick hookup with little social interaction. I've got a fuck buddy who's my friend's wife. She is not my friend but an acquaintance. When she comes over, I'm already masturbating getting prepped and I'm ready to go. So she just takes her clothes off right away. We go and shower then get right to work. We don't talk that much, we just fuck. And when we are done, back in the shower, she dresses afterwards and quickly leaves.

A FWB is someone who you are friends with and you have a sexual relationship with them. You hang out and have sex with them. No strings attached.