Hi everyone here. Im heterosexual but something happened to me today: Today a very close friend confessed me that my ex said I had a small penis, I was the one who broke up with her 6 years ago. My size is 8.75 inches in length bonpressed and 8 inches none bonpressed, my midshaft girth is 5.5 inches. This girl used to tell me when we were a couple that my dick was huge, so this sounds like typical ex trash talk. The relationship ended in very bad terms. I broke up with her because she was too needy, she was fat and didn´t take care of her body and I am a musician so she wanted me to quit my passion to go and get a "normal" job among other things. I ask this because this comment is playing a bit with my mind . What do you think?
Exgirlfriend saying my penis is not big
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If she thinks 8.75 x5.5 is small, she must have dated a horse somewhere along the line. You have nothing to worry about...it is not small!
Sounds like typical exgirlfriend trash comments. Funny to see how when I was her boyfriend she said I was huge, one of the biggest she dated and now that she hates me she says "I am not big"
You broke up with her six years ago?
Well, I guess you could confront her in common company and prove to everyone she's wrong (don't do this... you will probably get cancelled and listed a sex offender, but I digres...), but again, after all this time, who cares? I am sure that everyone you've slept with since will vouch that she's wrong.
It's nothing but ex girlfriend trash talk...I wouldn't worry much about it.
Yes exactly. Women say things most of the time based upon their emotions and not their logic. And now that I am pretty much hated by this girl what can I expect. It is just that this comment by her sticked in my mind.
I don't think you can expect anything from her other than more trash talk to your friends.
Everything started on Friday when I was talking to one of my best friends, he has a very big ego and he started to say he has a big penis and he asked me straight up what were my measurements and I said: 8.75 inches in length, when he heard that immediately he started to get extremely competitive and said I was lying. One of his exes he still communicates to this day is friends with my ex so he proceeded to say that my ex didn´t think my penis was big.
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My advice let it go. You know what you have in the dick department. It's been six years. Why worry what she or anyone else thinks? Let it go.
You're letting her get into your head and take control. A typical manipulation by an ex, although I've not heard of one to just start up after 6 years.
Let it go, she's not in your life & you have nothing to prove to her or anyone else.
As the classic saying goes.......................... Fuggedaboutit
Let it go, she's not in your life & you have nothing to prove to her or anyone else.
As the classic saying goes.......................... Fuggedaboutit
If your best friend is comfortable enough telling you that he has a big penis and asking for your measurements, then he should be comfortable enough with you showing him so that he can decide for himself.
He can then go back and dispel the rumours that you are small.
Thanks for the answer man! So true what you say. I remember when fucking her she said that my dick felt so huge that it felt like it was in her stomach, that it was one of the biggest that she ever fucked. The bitch asked me all the time for dick pics so she could masturbate with them and she liked to stare at my dick in my car and ask why it was so huge and now that she hates me my penis is degraded to "small cock". Nothing more than stupid vindictive ex comments like you say.
Like you say she must hate me a lot to bring this manipulation after 6 years. I remember when fucking her she said that my dick felt so huge that it felt like it was in her stomach, that it was one of the biggest that she ever fucked. The bitch asked me all the time for dick pics so she could masturbate with them and she liked to stare at my dick in my car and ask why it was so huge and now that she hates me my penis is degraded to "small cock".
Totally true!!. When my friend heard my measurements he started to say that I was lying and got competitive with me. Then I proceeded to send a text exchange between me and a new girl I have been to talking to, and in which we exchanged sexy pics and in the text exchange she said that my cock was one of the biggest she had ever saw, that it could be a cock of some one of black race and that she was afraid of fucking it. So I had a little vengeance with my friend
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Fuck her. Forget her. Let her memory die.
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You broke up with her 6 years ago, for whatever reason(s) then.
All she's done with this behavior is reinforce that your decision six years ago was smart.
Either your ex or your friend or both are just screwing with you, trying to get in your head. And it sounds like maybe they're being successful.
If those stats are accurate, you're not small. Your 8.75 length may make your girth appear slender, but 5.5 is not slender.
If a prospective partner says "I heard from X you're small," offer to let them evaluate for themself.
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