I was never able to last long enough when having sex with my wife, but she was fine with that because to her it was about intimacy. I felt like I needed to do something so that we could experience that intimacy, but also enjoy the pleasure of intense orgasms as well. I bought her a dildo and the Hitachi Magic Wand (also bought an attachment for it that allows her to dial in any vibrating amount she wants, not just the two speeds on the vibrator). Damn!!! What a difference maker to say the least!!! I also wear a leather cock and ball ring every time we make love now. Often I wear a leather ball stretcher along with the cock and ball ring. It has changed everything about our sex. My orgasms are out of this world, and I love inserting my fingers into her vagina while she masturbates herself with the vibrator. Feeling the intensity of her orgasms against my fingers is amazing. After she is worn out from the intensity of it all, I am blessed to have a wife who loves giving me head, swallowing all of my cum and who then continues to go down on me afterwards till I can't take it any longer. Intimacy and multi orgasms - doesn't get any better then that!!!