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First I'm new so forgive any indescritions. I'm 62, married and nothing happening for a long time.

I've had bi fantasies but never attempted anything. Here's what I am thinking to start.

1. Love to jerk off a guy and walk away. I would be ok if he played with my nipples or whatever.
2. I would like to try oral but not popular I'm sure with a condom.
3. Allow a guy to jerk me off or watch me jerk off.

So are there guys patient enough to accept any of these without full anal? I'm not ruling that out just need to start somewhere.

Any suggestions how to approach or recognize a willing guy? I'm not into apps and stuff figure they're to advanced for me right now.

I'm in Nashville so it's pretty conservative.

Thanks.
 
I would also recommend a JO club. It's a great way to experience most of the stuff on your list, without any pressure. And read their rules first, too. (You might find them oddly comforting.)

And as for the other stuff, most male-on-male experienced guys would more than happy to let you experience in a way that lets you feel comfortable, and at a pace that makes you feel comfortable. I would tell them that you're new to this, though. Most guys will be more than happy to help guide you, if you need it. So don't be concerned about telling them what exactly you're looking for, and your limits. You're entitled to that. And if it's not for them, then it's just not for them. No harm, no foul.

Believe it or not, we do all understand.

I hope you have some great experiences! Keep us posted!
 
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I would also recommend a JO club. It's a great way to experience most of the stuff on your list, without any pressure. And read their rules first, too. (You might find them oddly comforting.)

And as for the other stuff, most male-on-male experienced guys would more than happy to let you experience in a way that lets you feel comfortable, and at a pace that makes you feel comfortable. I would tell them that you're new to this, though. Most guys will be more than happy to help guide you, if you need it. So don't be concerned about telling them what exactly you're looking for, and your limits. You're entitled to that. And if it's not for them, then it's just not for them. No harm, no foul.

Believe it or not, we do all understand.

I hope you have some great experiences! Keep us posted!
Thank you.
 
First I'm new so forgive any indescritions. I'm 62, married and nothing happening for a long time.

I've had bi fantasies but never attempted anything. Here's what I am thinking to start.

1. Love to jerk off a guy and walk away. I would be ok if he played with my nipples or whatever.
2. I would like to try oral but not popular I'm sure with a condom.
3. Allow a guy to jerk me off or watch me jerk off.

So are there guys patient enough to accept any of these without full anal? I'm not ruling that out just need to start somewhere.

Any suggestions how to approach or recognize a willing guy? I'm not into apps and stuff figure they're to advanced for me right now.

I'm in Nashville so it's pretty conservative.

Thanks.
Feel free to message me if you'd like to chat.
 
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First I'm new so forgive any indescritions. I'm 62, married and nothing happening for a long time.

I've had bi fantasies but never attempted anything. Here's what I am thinking to start.

1. Love to jerk off a guy and walk away. I would be ok if he played with my nipples or whatever.
2. I would like to try oral but not popular I'm sure with a condom.
3. Allow a guy to jerk me off or watch me jerk off.

So are there guys patient enough to accept any of these without full anal? I'm not ruling that out just need to start somewhere.

Any suggestions how to approach or recognize a willing guy? I'm not into apps and stuff figure they're to advanced for me right now.

I'm in Nashville so it's pretty conservative.

Thanks.
Actually I find a majority of guys these days are "sides". Meaning they don't do anal (unfortunate for me). Mutual jerking in very popular. Many are "one way" oral guys. Some only want to give. Others only want to receive. Try the Sniffies website (free - no app required) to find others looking for what you want.
 
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I'm in Nashville so it's pretty conservative.
Having a sexual encounter with another guy ranges from mutual masturbation to full on fucking, there will be guys that match the activity you are after ..........


oh and

possibly you will find more bi-guys in an area like that, you will be surprised. It will be very very discrete butt what look outward looking straight guys there will be cock suckers.
 
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