First MMF Threesome

[lynxz23]

Thanks for the advice

When I was younger I turned down a FFMs because I was concerned someone would feel left out, but my wife has recently mentioned it as a fantasy of hers so I put a little more thought into it.

If I were you I'd have a candid talk to both women about what you want ahead of time.

Say you want to fuck one chick doggy style while you watch over her shoulder as she eats the other chick out.

Or have them 69 each other while you take fuck the one on top.

Just some ideas

 

[lynxz23]

Like you said unless its a committed relationship condoms are not optional its too risky otherwise these days.

Yeah, condoms are an important ingredient in sex outside of very trusting, usually monogamous relationships. But hey, if you've got friends who are into playing around, maybe that can a bit of fun between relationships? Good luck with the threesome, if you choose to try it out. If you don't, no one can ever tell you you didn't give it a try, right?

 

[TastyFox]

I so want to try a mfm or mmf threesome!

 

[cgttown]

First time casual sex is always a bit tricky and nerves can get to you. Also, I've had a few threesomes, and so much depends on the actual people and their chemistry more than the fact that there are three (or four as the case may be). Someone feeling left out is definitely a danger, and if one of the parties just doesn't do it for you, then that's a buzzkill.

The key to enjoying these kinds of things is to be IN THE MOMENT and clear your mind of the meta-commentary. Don't think, just be THERE enjoying the sensations and being enjoyed. In a committed relationship then sex is about the whole person thing--thinking about the significance and meaning and love and all that jazz (which is great, don't get me wrong). But if you're going to go all casual with the sex, you have to be about the pleasure, the moment, the visuals, the tactile sensations, and so on and DO NOT get inside your head.

Hope that helps.

 

[lynxz23]

Turned out to be ffmm and I had sex with both girls not the guy

Hey Lumxz! Great opportunity! Just curious. Was it an MMF or MFM? did you have sex with the other guys?

 

[lynxz23]

Thanks cgttown great tips

First time casual sex is always a bit tricky and nerves can get to you. Also, I've had a few threesomes, and so much depends on the actual people and their chemistry more than the fact that there are three (or four as the case may be). Someone feeling left out is definitely a danger, and if one of the parties just doesn't do it for you, then that's a buzzkill.

The key to enjoying these kinds of things is to be IN THE MOMENT and clear your mind of the meta-commentary. Don't think, just be THERE enjoying the sensations and being enjoyed. In a committed relationship then sex is about the whole person thing--thinking about the significance and meaning and love and all that jazz (which is great, don't get me wrong). But if you're going to go all casual with the sex, you have to be about the pleasure, the moment, the visuals, the tactile sensations, and so on and DO NOT get inside your head.

Hope that helps.

 

[Matt_x]

Kinky stuff maybe it was that your friend was right there and you were just weirded out, I always thought a menage a quatre would be fun...

 

[Dell1962]

As was said, keep and open mind and be in the moment and do not worry about the ex. The ex is not there, you are and there are people there who want you to be with them, she is your ex for a reason...

Also, do not let opportunities pass you by. I am older now and I passed on several opportunities because I was trying to do the right thing for others, I wish I had been a little more selfish.