First Time Gay experiences!

With one if my close friends. It was nothing more than me giving him a handjob, but still. I remember how it felt in my hand throbbing with each stroke. His cock was really thick and really soft in my hands and when he came...he CAME. He had to hold a rag over his dick to make sure it wouldn't get on the ceiling or the surrounding area. The best part is he has a pornhub account that he asks my opinion on a lot, so the thought of that night is there every time I open his page.
What’s his account name?!?!
 
My first experience with a man was at the nude beach, hence my alias. I had been to the nude beach several times with my wife before we got married and it was with her that I had the most passionate sex out in the open ever. Being out in the open and the chance of being watched made both of us as horny as can be. But one day my wife was at work and I wanted to go to the beach. By that time, I must have been in my early twenties, I finally got true to myself and I no longer surpressed my feelings for sex with a man. So I finally admitted to myself: I am bi-sexual. Of to the beach I went. To the usual spot just off the beach in the dunes. I settled down and didn’t think of sex at all, I mean it wasn’t my goal to have some kind of adventure. But it happened anyway when a fully naked and having a flaccid cock guy passed me about 10 meters perhaps away. He layed down too some 50 meters away but after a while he repositioned to a spot quite near to me. I could clearly see his now fully erect penis and it immediately turned me on. It was obvious he didn’t even try to hide it. At first I tried to hide my now fully erect cock but it was so hard it popped up from between my thys and I thought what the heck, let it hang out, he there doesn’t hide it at all! And after a while he got up, his dick fully erect pointing to the sky. It was so hard it didn’t even swing and that sight made me even hornier than I already was. He sat down next to me and we started talking and he asked me if I wanted some exitement. At first I was quite reluctant but my dick told me to simply say YES! And so we talked a bit first and I started to touch his gorgeous rock hard cock. It was my first time ever experience with a man. So from one thing came another but we didn’t go all the way. I simply wasn‘t ready for it but we did give another real good blow jobs and we came and came, at least four times I guess. It all ended as it started and I’ve never seen him again. To this day this has been the most exiting sexual experience of my life. With a man that is. Because sex with a woman still has my preference, I’m 70/30 % bi. Nonetheless, hard ons at the nude beach still turn me on, something my wife benefits from when we are at the beach. Because nothing beats sex out in the open.
 
I had a couple experiences with mutual J/O and one time playing strip poker with two other guys where nothing really happened other than looking at each other - we all did get hard while comparing, though. Also in college I had two good friends who after a long while (I wasn't too savvy) I realized were gay. I should say one was definitely gay the other more likely bi as he also did show some interest in some girls. Anyway, these two possibly were in a relationship/had been in a relationship with each other but that was never completely clear. They were room mates with a third guy (who was definitely straight). The first two bickered like an old married couple which, after a while, is when I started to realize something was up.

Anyway, I used to stay over at their place a fair amount as I was friends with all three so we would party and then I would crash there. As time went on, I was mildly hit on by both of them. Again, I was oblivious at that age so it didn't register. I did not have a girl at that point and, in fact, had never had one so they probably thought I was gay. At the time, though, I was hell bent on living the normal, straight life with the wife, kids, dog, white picket fence, etc. I was focused on that goal like a laser so I wasn't interested in doing anything sexual with those guys (even though in reality I did have some inclinations in that direction). As more time passed the "hitting" on me attempts grew in intensity. After a night of partying, and I crashed at their place. When everyone was a sleep, one of them started giving me a back rub/back scratch. I was laying on my stomach. This felt really nice. The room was spinning a bit due to what I had drank earlier so the whole thing was very relaxing. It also made me fully bone up which was hidden since I was face down on the bed. This back rub/scratch got more erotic as it went on with him doing my neck, ears, head and eventually my butt. I loved every second but I was also nervous of where it was heading so I mostly pretended to be a sleep or at least very groggy. Was also nervous of being caught by the other people who supposedly where sleeping near us. Eventually he whispered for me to turn over so he could do my front. I pretended to be a sleep. He asked a couple times, eventually I just mumbled something about being tired pretending to be groggy. Eventually he stopped and went to sleep - he made some noises that clearly showed he was frustrated. If I could go back in time I probably would have rolled over cause if the neck rub he gave me could make me so horny I can't even imagine how talented he would be with my cock! On another occasion, the other guy very openly started questioning me, my sexuality, lack of a "SO", etc. I really didn't take that well and acted rather mean about it. We stayed friends although it became a bit strained. After college I didn't keep we didn't keep in touch.

All of the above, though, I don't really count as my first time with a guy. These experiences did prime the pump for what would come many years later since they lingered in my mind.

So the wife, kids, white picket fence goal did come true and I loved living that life. Then it all blew up in my face when the wife decided to bail out. Once that happened I re-evaluated where I was and decided to pursue guys for a while. It took me quite a while - a good couple of years - of pursuing this before anything happened. I set up a profile on a hookup site. Guys would send me messages and I would be too nervous to respond quickly so nothing happened. Finally I was on the site one night and got a message, I took the leap and responded right back. The guy was just a few minutes from me, wanted me to come over right over. I agreed, he sent the address. Now this was getting real! He said he was going to jump in the shower - I did the same. I left bringing a couple spare clothes, condoms and lube in a gym bag. I wasn't sure exactly what was going to happen. He did know all this was new to me. I got to his place, walked up to the door and he was standing there looking out waiting for me. We sat down and in the living room and just had some idle chit chat for a few minutes. The lights were somewhat dim and he had lit candles spread around the room. He changed the topic to sex, what I had done and what I was interested in, etc. He suggested we head to the bedroom which we did. The only light in this room was probably a half dozen candles spread around. We got undressed and on the bed. It is a bit of a blur now, but I don't believe there was any kissing, we started out feeling each other all over, stroking each other, then he started to give me a BJ. He worked over my dick and balls, then flipped my legs up and rimmed me really thoroughly. I loved it - felt so good. He pushed his finger in me a bit then said I was really tight and he didn't think fucking was a good idea tonight. Then I gave him a BJ for a while and ended up jerking him until he came on his stomach. Once that happened he was done and it was clear he wanted me to take off. Said he had to get up early. I was a disappointed that he hadn't tried to reciprocate to get me off. So I left, never heard from or saw him again but, other than being someone ready, willing and able to fool around with at the same time I was, he wasn't really my type. I didn't find him to be attractive. With that done, though, it gave me the courage and experience to meet up with others from the site later on.
 
I had been checking out grindr for a few weeks, not seeing anything interesting, when I decided to just take the plunge. I invited some guy to come over to fool around.

He showed up, looked like his profile and was clean. We chatted awkwardly for a few minutes before I figured out I’d have to make a move. I went to the couch, sat down and told him to stand in front of me. I unbuckled his pants and pulled his cock out. Decent size, 7” not too thick but not skinny. Stroked it for a second and started blowing him. I wasn’t great but he seemed to enjoy it well enough. After a few minutes of head, he told me to bend over the couch. I got naked, and heard him getting naked and the lube snapping open. He worked 3 fingers in me before he opened a condom, and lubed himself up. After slapping his cock against my ass a few times, he pressed the head up against my ass. It felt a lot bigger back there...haha. After a few thrusts he got the head in, “fuck your tight as hell bro”. He took it slow at first, letting me open up before he started going at it. He finally started talking...asking me if I liked his big dick. That sort of thing. I didn’t love it but it was kind of fun. He came and then I finished myself off with him in my ass. He pulled out, snapped the condom off, and had me clean his cock up for him.
 
The summer after graduating high school (we were both 18) my best friend for years and I found ourselves alone in my house (not the first time but this time was somewhat different). He was heading off to the Marines and although we never ever talked or tried anything with each other we both were striking out with girls and horny as hell. I do not remember who suggested it but we decided to jerk each other off to see who would cum first. So we sat on the floor next to each other and pulled down our jeans and of course we were both hard. What was most memorable was the thickness of his cock, I had never seen one that large before. He was about 7" long but I could not close my hand around his hard cock. I was mesmerized and did not waste any time licking my palm and starting to pump his cock. He grabbed mine as well and did what we agreed - jerked each other off. I did my best and jerked away but was so excited by the sight of his thick cock that I came within 5 minutes and first. He never came - got freaked after I came. So we zipped up and never spoke about it. He shipped off at the end of summer and although we have been in contact I haven't seen him since. Now we are both married with kids. Looking back I wish we had made a bet that whoever came first had to suck the other off - not that he would have gone for that - and I doubt I could have fit even his head in my mouth but nice memory.
 
Never knew I was bi or had cravings for a man’s cock until I hit puberty. But my first gay experience didn’t happen until I was in the service at 18.

Before the internet, you could cruise interested people unless you went to an adult bookstore and bought a swingers style ad book. I used to get the hopes to find a hot girl to fuck. Instead, I found myself cruising for TS girls. Figured, since I had this fascination with sucking a dick and getting fucked, I’d also get a pretty girl with titties too!

I found a beautiful TS girl and called her from a pay phone. We talked a bit and she invited me over to her apartment. Once there, the place was dark and hard to make out shapes in the place. She guided me back to her room. We chatted a bit more before she asked what I wanted to do. I told her I never had done this before and I wanted to suck her and get fucked.

She told me to take my clothes off and as I did, she sat on her bed and pulled her panties down and off and unbuttoned several buttons on an over shirt she wore with no bra. Her room had the most light, but was very soft. I could make her out much better in there and my heart heated fast and hard watching this beauty, tease me with her body.

I was completely erect when I pulled my underwear down and already dripping precum. She teased me about being hard saying you are an eager man aren’t you. I would say she was in her early 20s sonwe we’re close in age. I could see just enough of her cleavage and tits to imagine what she’d look like naked. Her long cock, layer on the bed, shaved smooth except for a close landing strip above her dick. It was a spectacular sight and I knew then, that I was bi! I was just as horny and excited for her as I was for any girl that I would get in her room to fuck.

She spread her legs and told me to lay in between her legs so I could face her cock to suck. I remember once her dick was near my face, I could smell the sweetness of perfume and her feminine smell that drove me insane. I grabbed her dick, began to suck on it and almost blew my load the moment it touched my lips. She complimented my technique saying you’ve sucked dick before. Thus isn’t your first time. I told her in fact it was. I had watched lots of porn of cocksucking. I had practiced what I’ve seen on bananas, cucumbers and even a few dildos but never a real cock.

She said, well you do it well honey and pushed my head back into her now hardening dick. After a good 10 minutes of slurping, ball sucking and gagging she asked me if I was ready to get fucked. I told her yes and she had me lie face down on the bed flat and spread my legs.

She told me it was going to hurt but she’d be as gentle as she could. She began to lune my ass and stuck a finger or two in me as well. When positioned herself above me and I could feel her hard dick pressed against my hole, I didn’t know what to expect, but I knew there was no turning back. I remember it hurting like hell at first as she pushed through my tight virgin ass. She pushed my head into her pillow and said scream into it. The pain was also mixed with tremendous pleasure too and soon, once I listened to her and relaxed, the pleasure became all I could feel once I loosened up to swallow her cock in my ass. She began pumping me harder and deeper shortly thereafter. I think she was convinced it was my first time. Because she later told me, I was so tight I had to be a virgin to getting fucked. She never had a virgin ass before and she came very quickly.

After we finished. She apologized for cumming so fast. She’d never thought I was sooo tight and it felt good to her. Though I had paid her for my first experience. She said she owed me a free one where she promised to fuck me longer. I later on went back over where I had a few more cocks I’d sucked under my belt to show her how much better I’d become. But I hadn’t had a dick since her. She enjoyed the head I gave her, and when it came to her fucking me again, she took her time. I was still so tight that she’d stop fucking me so that she wouldn’t cum. As she fucked me, she would reach around and stroke my dick while I was on all fours. She told me to flip on my back and lift my legs as she fucked me face to face with my legs on her shoulders, near my head. By then she was pounding me deep. This also was the first time I kissed a TS or any body other than a girl. It was sooo passionate. I believe she was just as attracted to me as I was to her. Before she began cumming, she pulled away from me and kept fucking me while jerking my cock. She told me to cum for her before she did. I began grinding my hips upward to meet her thrusts and started to moan that I was cumming. She stroked me faster and I began to squirt cum everywhere as she jerked me. My face and chest were covered with my cum and as I was cumming, she began to cum too. She was wearing a condom so I never felt her cum in my ass. We finished and she pulled out of me and came back with a wet towel for me to clean off. I told her how great it felt and how much fun I had. She indicated too that she really enjoyed it, but it was the last time she could see me. I asked why and she told me because, she really enjoyed sex with me because I was so new to it and such a nice guy. She told me I was the type of guy she’d look for in a real relationship that she said she was afraid she would begin to like me too much, and it would be weird to 1 pay to see her and 2 that she didn’t want to stop getting paid to have sex.

I kind of giggled and thanked her for the compliment. But told her I found her very attractive too and didn’t mind paying her to have sex. I teased her about throwing me a freebie every now and again and she laughed saying, it would be too easy to fuck you for free honey! So as I finished getting dressed. She came out of the bathroom with just a T-shirt on. She had her panties in her hand. She walked up to me, gave me a tremendously passionate long kiss and told me to keep her panties as a memoir of the women who popped my cherry! I remember the last time I looked at her seeing her cock peeking out from under her shirt and the faintness of her tits through the thin sheer shirt before she shut the door. Man what an experience!
 
Aged 20, used to go to a Hardhouse club every weekend, small community of regulars and we all used to get on well and have a great time.
One lad, won’t reveal his name, Indian, 5ft 9, we got on well and used to chat a lot, discovered he was gay and one night we exchanged numbers. Later on that night, soon after kick out time I was on my way home and curiosity got the best of me so I text him and he invited me round.
We sat down and talked, then he took my hand and began kissing me, he was strong and forceful. I was only used to kissing and playing with women so it was a bit of a shock to me.
He stood me up and stripped me off, my tiny cute cock already excitedly erect! He pushed me onto my knees, took his trousers down revealing his big, dark, soft cock and pulled my head towards it. I eagerly began to suck and choked as it got much bigger and harder!
He told me he’d teach me how to suck him properly so led down on the sofa and I got on top and began my training.
I was so horny playing with this big dark cock, I kept giggling and comparing to mine. He found it amusing and said you like my big cock don’t you, I nodded with a big smile and carried on sucking and playing.
It seemed like hours before he had enough of my new found oral skills, and then told me to lie on my back, pushed my legs apart and lubed my virgin ass. He told me this might hurt a bit but he wanted to fuck me hard.....and he did! I must admit he brought water to my eyes but he did make things very enjoyable too and made me cum over and over.
We’ve played a lot over the years, he calls me his little fuck boy and loves how submissive and obedient I am
 
Michael and I were at his house and decided to go swimming on this hot day. I pulled off my shirt and jumped in. after a few hours we got out and I did not have a change of clothes. he told me to come up to his room and he would have something for me to wear. we were upstairs and he threw me a towel and walked into his closet. when he came out he was buck naked with a smooth hairless swimmers body and a nice semi erect uncut cock. he gave me the new clothes and I pulled off my wet shorts and boxers. I towel off and sat on the bed he sat next to me and admired my body. he put his hand on my leg and moved it towards my cock and balls. he started to caress my balls and I started to get hard. we fell back and lay down on the bed he rolled on me chest to chest cock to cock balls on balls. he deep kissed me and started grinding my cock on his. two naked bodied wrestling on the bed. he wispered in my ear he wanted to fuck me being a anal virgin he took the lead. he went down and raised my legs up and started rimming my ass it was intense feeling him down there. he worked his way back up and looked into my eyes and said it may hurt but he was taking it slow. I felt his uncut cock starting to push against my ass it felt painful at first as it popped in he stayed still looking into my eyes breathing heavy. he pushed balls deep inside me It was the best feeling having his cock buried in me. as he started to pump in and out the feeling was more intense his cock was stabbing my prostate and I was leaking pre- cum all over myself. sweat started to drip off of his nose on my face I heald him tightly against my chest his balls making a slapping noise on my ass. we were totally into each other then he started moaning and pushed inside my ass to the limit and let out a scream. I could feel him pulsing ribbons of cum in my hole taking it all inside me. he colapses on me we lay there exahsted az that last pulse of cum was deposited into me. this would be the first of many encounters between us me fucking him Michael fucking me.
 
Never knew I was bi or had cravings for a man’s cock until I hit puberty. But my first gay experience didn’t happen until I was in the service at 18.

Before the internet, you could cruise interested people unless you went to an adult bookstore and bought a swingers style ad book. I used to get the hopes to find a hot girl to fuck. Instead, I found myself cruising for TS girls. Figured, since I had this fascination with sucking a dick and getting fucked, I’d also get a pretty girl with titties too!

I found a beautiful TS girl and called her from a pay phone. We talked a bit and she invited me over to her apartment. Once there, the place was dark and hard to make out shapes in the place. She guided me back to her room. We chatted a bit more before she asked what I wanted to do. I told her I never had done this before and I wanted to suck her and get fucked.

She told me to take my clothes off and as I did, she sat on her bed and pulled her panties down and off and unbuttoned several buttons on an over shirt she wore with no bra. Her room had the most light, but was very soft. I could make her out much better in there and my heart heated fast and hard watching this beauty, tease me with her body.

I was completely erect when I pulled my underwear down and already dripping precum. She teased me about being hard saying you are an eager man aren’t you. I would say she was in her early 20s sonwe we’re close in age. I could see just enough of her cleavage and tits to imagine what she’d look like naked. Her long cock, layer on the bed, shaved smooth except for a close landing strip above her dick. It was a spectacular sight and I knew then, that I was bi! I was just as horny and excited for her as I was for any girl that I would get in her room to fuck.

She spread her legs and told me to lay in between her legs so I could face her cock to suck. I remember once her dick was near my face, I could smell the sweetness of perfume and her feminine smell that drove me insane. I grabbed her dick, began to suck on it and almost blew my load the moment it touched my lips. She complimented my technique saying you’ve sucked dick before. Thus isn’t your first time. I told her in fact it was. I had watched lots of porn of cocksucking. I had practiced what I’ve seen on bananas, cucumbers and even a few dildos but never a real cock.

She said, well you do it well honey and pushed my head back into her now hardening dick. After a good 10 minutes of slurping, ball sucking and gagging she asked me if I was ready to get fucked. I told her yes and she had me lie face down on the bed flat and spread my legs.

She told me it was going to hurt but she’d be as gentle as she could. She began to lune my ass and stuck a finger or two in me as well. When positioned herself above me and I could feel her hard dick pressed against my hole, I didn’t know what to expect, but I knew there was no turning back. I remember it hurting like hell at first as she pushed through my tight virgin ass. She pushed my head into her pillow and said scream into it. The pain was also mixed with tremendous pleasure too and soon, once I listened to her and relaxed, the pleasure became all I could feel once I loosened up to swallow her cock in my ass. She began pumping me harder and deeper shortly thereafter. I think she was convinced it was my first time. Because she later told me, I was so tight I had to be a virgin to getting fucked. She never had a virgin ass before and she came very quickly.

After we finished. She apologized for cumming so fast. She’d never thought I was sooo tight and it felt good to her. Though I had paid her for my first experience. She said she owed me a free one where she promised to fuck me longer. I later on went back over where I had a few more cocks I’d sucked under my belt to show her how much better I’d become. But I hadn’t had a dick since her. She enjoyed the head I gave her, and when it came to her fucking me again, she took her time. I was still so tight that she’d stop fucking me so that she wouldn’t cum. As she fucked me, she would reach around and stroke my dick while I was on all fours. She told me to flip on my back and lift my legs as she fucked me face to face with my legs on her shoulders, near my head. By then she was pounding me deep. This also was the first time I kissed a TS or any body other than a girl. It was sooo passionate. I believe she was just as attracted to me as I was to her. Before she began cumming, she pulled away from me and kept fucking me while jerking my cock. She told me to cum for her before she did. I began grinding my hips upward to meet her thrusts and started to moan that I was cumming. She stroked me faster and I began to squirt cum everywhere as she jerked me. My face and chest were covered with my cum and as I was cumming, she began to cum too. She was wearing a condom so I never felt her cum in my ass. We finished and she pulled out of me and came back with a wet towel for me to clean off. I told her how great it felt and how much fun I had. She indicated too that she really enjoyed it, but it was the last time she could see me. I asked why and she told me because, she really enjoyed sex with me because I was so new to it and such a nice guy. She told me I was the type of guy she’d look for in a real relationship that she said she was afraid she would begin to like me too much, and it would be weird to 1 pay to see her and 2 that she didn’t want to stop getting paid to have sex.

I kind of giggled and thanked her for the compliment. But told her I found her very attractive too and didn’t mind paying her to have sex. I teased her about throwing me a freebie every now and again and she laughed saying, it would be too easy to fuck you for free honey! So as I finished getting dressed. She came out of the bathroom with just a T-shirt on. She had her panties in her hand. She walked up to me, gave me a tremendously passionate long kiss and told me to keep her panties as a memoir of the women who popped my cherry! I remember the last time I looked at her seeing her cock peeking out from under her shirt and the faintness of her tits through the thin sheer shirt before she shut the door. Man what an experience!
that's a very hot story.....
 
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My first time "gay" experience was a complete, all encompassing event...

I was in my late 30's, married (in a bad marriage) and not much variety in sexual experience. My wife was the only one I had any sex of any kind with up to this point. I was viewing porn and participating in forums online and found myself getting envious of big cock, and getting curious on what it was like to see and experience on for real.

I found an ad online from a gay couple looking for a "straight" male to show the other side of M2M sex and I replied. One of them had a nice big cock... well, bigger than mine! Especially in girth. I was so curious to see it I accepted.

The evening we got together they did everything to me! They removed my clothes slowly, massaged me, caressed every inch of my body with hands and mouth including my nipples and asshole. Stroked and sucked my cock. I never had a blowjob to completion before, but that night I was deepthroated and sucked to a full climax where he swallowed every drop!

I was able to feel another man's cock for the first time and was amazed how it felt to have one grow in my hand a swell to a big, thick powerful cock! The girth felt amazing in my hand compared to my thin pecker! And eventually I was fucked by him. He pounded me so hard I thought he was going to crush me between the bed and his body!

Of it all, the feel of touching, stroking and sucking a big cock was the most enjoyable. Now I find I mainly want to service a nice cock, no need to even do anything to me.
 
I was in a cruising area which I didn't even know existed. Guys were going in and out of paths in the woods. I was actually in my late 20's (late bloomer lol). I went in one of the paths where an attractive older guy was. I sat on a tree stump and pulled my pants down, left my underwear. He rubbed me and took my cock out of my underwear. He blew me and I came in like one min. It was an ok experience but I felt pretty filfthy after.
 
So I have been reading two different threads, one titled "how did your first m2m contact happen" and one titled "first time gay experiences"

I am posting this in both threads, but what is the difference, and I am asking that more than to point out any redundancy in threads...…….

Can you have m2m contact and not have a gay experience?

What makes an experience gay, the action or the mindset?

At what point would you call it gay?
 
with a gay friend some mutual stuff a few years ago

first time I actually got sucked off I joined grindr back in April one day just for the hell of it and after probably having 100 messages in a few hours I was at this guys house a few hours later, it was 11pm at night and I was like halfway freaked out going wtf am I doing because I don't do this stuff. Anyway I get there and he gets me into bed and at first just relaxes me... I get in this zen zone. He plays with my ass a bit and then he put his mouth on my cock and I lost my fucking mind. I'm uncut and I was screaming and yelling nonstop for what seemed like an eternity before I finally came in a loud bunch of expletives. He made a comment about waking the neighbors. I was going on about this night for awhile to say the least
 
I’ll call him Brett, we grew up together and were very close. The summer before HS we spent a lot of time together. Once in HS I had girlfriends all the time, after graduation party he and I were together and had beers left so we parked in the woods. He was driving and this was a spot none of our ever parked. He began to make a move and I let him, I figured at worse i was going to jerk him off. But when his jeans came down his larger cock began to make me very excited. I was enjoying stroking him and overcome with an urge to suck him. I did and didn’t stop until he had finished coming. He went down on me and I came immediately. Sucking his dick was a tremendous turn on. We remained close for the next five years.