First Time Using Dildo, Bleeding Pls Help

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Shouldn't be anything to worry about. Many thing can cause this to happen. First time, To big, To Aggressive, Hemorrhoids... just care on as usual.... If you have continued blood, that is bright red, be cautious, especially if there blood in the toilet. Then you might want to seek medical advice.... I'm not doctor, just from my experience.
 

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All the advice above is good. Leave your ass alone for a few days, it will heal on its own. Try not to strain when pooping, and do not wipe vigorously, use a little water on some toilet paper maybe (no wipes with cleaning scents).

As with buttplugs, dildos come in a range of sizes. Start SMALL! Use LOTS of lube -- more lube than you think you need -- it's easier to figure out after you're used to things how little you can get away with, but don't start skimpy.

If it hurts, stop. Wait a little. Your ass is used to pushing out things much thicker than the starting size dildos or plugs you should be beginning with, so if you're hurting or bleeding that means you're starting too big or not giving yourself time to relax. The first few times you use a larger size, it should take you at least 5 minutes of stopping and starting again, always adding more lube. If you're going faster than that, you're just asking for trouble.

It'll get easier as you learn to relax. And your ass will stretch a little over time. But the key is TIME... You need to step up to the bigger dildos, and we're talking a few weeks of practice with smaller ones until you can expect anything to stretch. Your body is not made of SillyPutty that can stretch to ridiculous size at will.

Start small. Go easy. Lots of lube. If it hurts, stop. Wait till it goes in easy before you begin jamming it in hard. And if you notice bleeding, increase your lube. Some tiny amount of blood is not unusual but is a sign that you aren't ready yet for whatever you were doing that caused it. So don't be afraid to back off.

What you don't want is to give yourself an anal fissure or a severe hemorrhoid, which can take weeks to heal or might need a small surgical procedure. So go easy.
 

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Title says it all folks, just some bleeding when I was wiping my ass. How long will this take to heal?? Should I hold my shit in for a few days?

It's definitely avoidable, but if you're not being careful, it doesn't take much to make the anus bleed.

Holding in sounds like a pretty bad idea. I'd just recommended not poking it with anything for a little while. Could be as quick as a day or two. Or if the tear was significant, it could take a few weeks.
 

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It's definitely avoidable, but if you're not being careful, it doesn't take much to make the anus bleed.

Holding in sounds like a pretty bad idea. I'd just recommended not poking it with anything for a little while. Could be as quick as a day or two. Or if the tear was significant, it could take a few weeks.
All good it was last night and today it's like nothing ever happened. Guess I'm a top now (always thought I was vers)
 

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The anal lining is very thin and sensitive so it’s easily torn and bleeds. It generally heals quickly but shouldn’t be ignored. Just make sure you take the proper precautions to minimise bleeding.
 
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Lube lube & lube
More lube the better when starting out
And just take it slow
Bleeding happens but as others mentioned will heal so don’t worry unless it continues and doesn’t stop
Enjoy the exploring
 

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Make sure you have good quality soft (hard but still squishy, if that makes sense). I have one that I love the size 8X7, but it's quite hard and sometimes causes some light blood from friction.
 

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Take it easy, slowly with lot of lube.

You may start with porn and jerk off until mid way so that you would be so relax and your prostate would be ready to be stimulated.