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Bars and bathhouses are gathering places meant for gays to socialize. It’s up to each gay man to decide for himself if he wants to drink alcohol at the bar or have sex at the bathhouse. Some of us just want to dance at the bar (assuming it has a dance floor), or workout at the bathhouse (assuming it has a gym).If you really want to workout get a day pass to the local Y.
The point of bathhouses has never been the gym.
The stated goal in your post wasn’t to socialize, it was about the gym and working out. If your singular goal is a gym, my point stands.Bars and bathhouses are gathering places meant for gays to socialize. It’s up to each gay man to decide for himself if he wants to drink alcohol at the bar or have sex at the bathhouse. Some of us just want to dance at the bar (assuming it has a dance floor), or workout at the bathhouse (assuming it has a gym).
The stated goal in your post wasn’t to socialize, it was about the gym and working out. If your singular goal is a gym, my point stands.
The bar analogy with dancing and drinking doesn’t work as an equivalent, in my opinion.
I’m 54 and have been to bathhouses across the globe, literally. I have rarely seen anyone use the gym for anything more than posing and preening. You may be the exception that proves the rule.
I belong to Gold’s. They are in most of the cities I travel to and my membership allows me to use the one where I am. I’m not a huge fan of Gold’s but they’ve spread like a cancer and are conveniently located.
Good luck and props to anyone working to improve his/her health.
The reason for the bathhouse gym is to workout, otherwise it wouldn't be there. There are bathhouses that have gyms, and bathhouses that don't. It's your choice to either use the gym or not use it. It may be window dressing for you, but for others who actually use it, it's a welcome retreat from the hetero-dominated commercial gym.The reason for the gym is subterfuge. Those of us with a few grey hairs recall a time when gays weren’t accepted as they are today. The gym is at the front for a reason. It’s window dressing for what goes on in the back. That’s how it worked in those days. Join the “gym” meant something else entirely.
My last post on this topic. It’s not about me and it’s not window dressing for me. It is what it is. Just my opinion. Go workout and leave. I t doesn’t matter what goes in the back. Talk to the management about gym updates and upgrades yourself. I could be wrong but think you’ll discover that they are reticent to pour money into that area.The reason for the bathhouse gym is to workout, otherwise it wouldn't be there. There are bathhouses that have gyms, and bathhouses that don't. It's your choice to either use the gym or not use it. It may be window dressing for you, but for others who actually use it, it's a welcome retreat from the hetero-dominated commercial gym.
You’re more than welcome to hold on to your original “commercial gyms are for working out, bathhouses are for sex” way of thinking. While you’re in the play area, doing whatever it is you want to do, I’ll be in the gym area, working out.My last post on this topic. It’s not about me and it’s not window dressing for me. It is what it is. Just my opinion. Go workout and leave. I t doesn’t matter what goes in the back. Talk to the management about gym updates and upgrades yourself. I could be wrong but think you’ll discover that they are reticent to pour money into that area.
Thanks.If you can't locate pictures of the gym at Flex, have you thought of going to The Chute bath instead? Their website has a picture of the gym. Chute doesn't have a pool but since the gym is your priority, maybe that won't matter. Have fun wherever you end up.
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