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I was at a bar downtown after the Royals game last night (!) and really hit it off with the girl I was chatting with. So full-blown flirting was underway (smiling, laughing, touching my arm), and this girl started to sneakily touch my bulge, which hasn't really happened to me before in a public flirting scenario. At first, I thought it was an accidental graze of her hand on my crotch. But it kept happening. When she would laugh and touch my arm, she would let her hand quickly fall down my torso so her fingers could slide against my bulge.

We exchanged numbers and "Give me a call..." and so on, but I'm wondering if she wanted me to acknowledge the package touching (I didn't mind it at all). Any thoughts on this (especially female members)? Should I have brought it up with her?
 
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I'm going to say the safest and one of the better ways to handle that, assuming you enjoyed it is to not say anything.

When she does it, you could give her a nice smile and make sure you make eye contact with her and smile with your eyes.

This way you clearly let her know you like it, you know it's happening, and you totally dig her. The reason it's safe is because it's so simple and there is less ways you can possibly mess up AND you are encouraging her. If you wanna be a little more forward you could after a while touch her a little. Start small and work your way up. Remember slow advances and that you are in public lol.


If you don't like it, start by nudging her hand off your bulge. Then if she persists, you could say something like "not here" In a friendly but stern voice.
 
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You could've/should've been fucking her after the second touch...And I'd go so far as to say after the first touch if the look on her face showed intent/pleasure. Instead of the "give me a call," a good ole "do you wanna fuck" would've been much more effective. But then, when I was 21, my response would certainly have been just as shy. A few more years and one like this won't slip by.....BETTER NOT! ;-)
 
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AlteredEgo said:
I asked my dude how he'd have responded. I guess he's a bit like me. He says it would have been off-putting. I know he's a bit shy when it comes to overt gestures or PDAs in public.
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I kind of felt the same. Like it was hot because I was into the girl, but at the same time, what can I realistically do with a hundred people standing around us? I guess it was sexily frustrating more than anything.
 
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I kind of felt the same. Like it was hot because I was into the girl, but at the same time, what can I realistically do with a hundred people standing around us? I guess it was sexily frustrating more than anything.
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Well, from my perspective, when a guy is a little too gropey or worse, starts rubbing his erection on me (happens sometimes when supposedly dancing) I wonder what type of woman he thinks I am, and why he isn't enough of a gentleman to just ask to take me someplace private if he's interested in getting physical. Oh well. Takes all kinds to make the world go around.
 
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I was at a bar downtown after the Royals game last night (!) and really hit it off with the girl I was chatting with. So full-blown flirting was underway (smiling, laughing, touching my arm), and this girl started to sneakily touch my bulge, which hasn't really happened to me before in a public flirting scenario. At first, I thought it was an accidental graze of her hand on my crotch. But it kept happening. When she would laugh and touch my arm, she would let her hand quickly fall down my torso so her fingers could slide against my bulge.

We exchanged numbers and "Give me a call..." and so on, but I'm wondering if she wanted me to acknowledge the package touching (I didn't mind it at all). Any thoughts on this (especially female members)? Should I have brought it up with her?
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Lean over and whisper in her ear, "All the touching is getting me really hard. Do you want to go somewhere and finish what you started?"

It is totally in her court. She'll either stop or say yes let's go. Been her and done that.
 
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I'm with Fluffychocolate on this and think you should have called her on it. Women don't repeatedly rub a man's junk through his pants unless she's looking for action. They don't all of a sudden become stupid to personal space, sexual advances, clearly she knew what she was doing. That is unless she was hammered?

Once, OK, accident ... Twice, she'd apologize if she didn't mean it ... Three times, she wants to get dirty with you. Right after she did it that third time you should have grabbed her by the wrist and whispered in her ear the most filthy proposition you could think of and then led her to a more intimate location.

I'm guessing she was somewhat inebriated? Liquid courage obviously led to her inhibition, her sexual aggression, and general horniness. She wasn't hiding the fact she wanted the "D". My female instincts tell me she was ready to play and if you played bad boy to her bad girl behavior she'd have undoubtedly put more than her curious hand on your cock.

Which reminds me of a song ...

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If she is drunk or on any sort of intoxicants than the answer is NO.

Drunk or high, the person can't give full, rational consent regardless of perceived green lights because of impaired critical decision making processes.

Keep this in the forefront of your mind and write your number on her arm and tell her to ring you later. When you're both sober and able to make better choices.

Drunk sex with strangers is nasty and fraught with dumb decisions that have lasting lifelong impacts. For both parties.
 
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I'm with Fluffychocolate on this and think you should have called her on it. Women don't repeatedly rub a man's junk through his pants unless she's looking for action. They don't all of a sudden become stupid to personal space, sexual advances, clearly she knew what she was doing. That is unless she was hammered?

Once, OK, accident ... Twice, she'd apologize if she didn't mean it ... Three times, she wants to get dirty with you. Right after she did it that third time you should have grabbed her by the wrist and whispered in her ear the most filthy proposition you could think of and then led her to a more intimate location.

I'm guessing she was somewhat inebriated? Liquid courage obviously led to her inhibition, her sexual aggression, and general horniness. She wasn't hiding the fact she wanted the "D". My female instincts tell me she was ready to play and if you played bad boy to her bad girl behavior she'd have undoubtedly put more than her curious hand on your cock.

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Yeah! That's my girl!
 
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