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Hello, I'm Aconite, I'm new here. I'm a girl, I guess one of the few here. I was browsing the internet because of something that happened to me last month and I found this website, I'd be grateful for any help.

I'm from Scandinavia, my boyfriend is from Italy. I visited him in September. We're a very liberal couple, though not an open couple. Our sex is very good, his penis is alright, about 15cm long and 4cm in diameter I'd say, he's the biggest I've ever had (I had 3 before). I never had an orgasm through intercourse, it feels good but I've never come in my life, nor even screamed for pleasure, it's just a good sensation; I come only through oral.

While at the beach I met some of his friends. One of them had a speedo and I could see that his bulge was enormous. I tried to hide it but I got turned on. I don't know if my boyfriend saw it or not, but he invited him and his girlfriend for dinner at his place. We had food, then alcohol and things got hot, and both couples started to make out. The situation was very erotic cause we were soon naked, the 4 of us. When his friend got naked I noticed that his penis was enormous; I can't measure but it was about a third longer than my boyfriend's penis and like half as thick, so I guess 20 cm long and 6cm in diameter or something like that.
Anyway we started having sex, each couple separate, and while I was enjoying myself as usual I noticed that the other girl started screaming a lot and some white cream was coming out of her vagina, something I'd never seen before. I honestly got really turned on by that sight, my boyfriend saw it and I don't know if he has a fantasy about it or not, but he asked me if we wanted to do a swap. I denied but I kept looking at the other guy and in the end they swapped. I won't go into the details but after some trouble penetrating me cause he is very thick the sex with the other guy was amazing. I experienced my first vaginal orgasm ever after about one minute and after that every time he thrust his penis it felt like coming, something I didn't even know a girl could feel. The other girl instead was doing it with my boyfriend, she had stopped screaming and clearly wasn't enjoying herself much.

My boyfriend noticed all this and looked very sad and threatened. I tried to hide my pleasure but I came a few times and I couldn't resist it. In the end he came back to me and I couldn't feel him anymore because I was really stretched by the other guy. Anyway I faked an orgasm with him as well, while the other girl had started screaming again with the other guy. I think my boyfriend realized I was faking it cause he immediately lost his erection and got dressed again and left the room. I wanted to have more sex with the other guy but I followed my boyfriend, but he told me to leave him alone.

Now he feels very inadequate, says I deserve a bigger penis and I don't know what to do. It's true, the larger penis felt awesome and gave me my first vaginal orgasms, but I love my boyfriend and I want to have sex with him more than with any other larger guy who I don't love.

How can I convince him that he's adequate anyway and that he makes me come through oral which is more than enough, and I don't want anyone else and I love him for who he is?
 
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Almost all men want to feel like they are the ones that can please their partner the best. When that doesn't happen we can feel totally rejected and inadequate. Especially if it's from the one we love. Some guys may be open to discus is, others my want to act like it never happened. You man my be somewhere in between. Let him bring it up to you and tell him the same thing you told us... The truth. Let him know that he's the one for you and that it ain't just his dick that you love about him. Once his pride heals he may be open to other options such as toys, or the occasional open weekend or who knows. I know it's tricky but there are always possibilities.
 
You really shoudn't have swapped partners like that or had him watch you have sex with another man without really discussing it and stuff first. You should've stopped having sex with the other guy as soon as you noticed your boyfriend looking sad and threatened about the whole thing.

There are plenty of people on here who engage in that sex scene regularly so I'm sure they can help you understand but ultimately you need to talk about it with your bf.
 
bobg4400 said:
You really shoudn't have swapped partners like that or had him watch you have sex with another man without really discussing it and stuff first. You should've stopped having sex with the other guy as soon as you noticed your boyfriend looking sad and threatened about the whole thing.

There are plenty of people on here who engage in that sex scene regularly so I'm sure they can help you understand but ultimately you need to talk about it with your bf.
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You're right I regret it a lot - except for having the best sex of my life to be honest. We were all drunk and shouldn't have gone there... I regret it a lot, really.
 
Aconite said:
You're right I regret it a lot - except for having the best sex of my life to be honest. We were all drunk and shouldn't have gone there... I regret it a lot, really.
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On the other hand, you had amazing sex with a huge cock and had your first vaginal orgasm so it's not all bad! If you had the chance to do it again (without your boyfriend knowing) I bet you would and nobody would blame you. Sex is sex. After all, he is responsible in that he invited the other couple to dinner and suggested the swop, so it's mainly hurt pride. I think the way you describe the incident and your reactions afterwards show that you are a nice person and I hope you work it out with your boyfriend.
 
hunghorse30 said:
On the other hand, you had amazing sex with a huge cock and had your first vaginal orgasm so it's not all bad! If you had the chance to do it again (without your boyfriend knowing) I bet you would and nobody would blame you. Sex is sex. After all, he is responsible in that he invited the other couple to dinner and suggested the swop, so it's mainly hurt pride. I think the way you describe the incident and your reactions afterwards show that you are a nice person and I hope you work it out with your boyfriend.
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True, it's all true. I would love to have sex again with that guy, he was simply awesome. But I don't love him, I love my boyfriend and I want to be with him, and I'd never cheat on him.

tmergea said:
Remember,big cocks are always better than tinny dicks!
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I wasn't sure about this till last month. Still, remember that my boyfriend's penis isn't small at all and it feels very good anyway!
 
RedScrotum said:
Perhaps now that you've had a vaginal orgasm, you can relax and let your boyfriend give you another (even if you are thinking about the big one).
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I don't know why but it doesn't happen with my boyfriend. He gives amazing oral sex, but the comparison between how his penis feels and his friend's is not even there: his friend's penis just kept me coming every 1-2 minutes for some 15 minutes, with my boyfriend it has never happened and that night I had the VERY bad idea to fake one cause I felt guilty for feeling so good with his friend. What's weird is that they also have the same first name, which adds to the embarassment

But still I'm happy: orgasm from oral is very good anyway, I don't need a huge penis to consider my sex life successful, it was a great experience and that's it. I fantasize about it, I'd want to have sex with that guy again but it doesn't matter, sex with my boyfriend is great anyway and I come all the same, though from oral.
 
If this is at all real ... your boyfriend will most likely never recover from the embarrassment. Try talking to him about it as others have stated. If he is a great man and worth your time, he will be open to your physical needs. It's not like you can help it. We are all individuals. For myself, I would never, EVER, fall in love with an average guy. My sex life is too important to me and I ONLY like big cock.

Emphasize to your boyfriend that not every woman likes to even have her vagina penetrated by more than a finger. Not every woman likes receiving oral (I don't). Not every woman likes to be filled up by a big cock.

(OK, who am I kidding)

For guys that don't have a big package, they just have to swallow their pride and use big dildo's ... or perhaps their hand. :)
 
Hi Aconite, welcome to the site. You have the right concept Male ego? Size matters? He's insecure and the other girls reaction to his size might be the reason why he reacted that way. Though I don't see what the big deal is about, both of you consented to the foursome. So if he was mad that his friend was banging you, and you were enjoying it..

Twist the scenario over and lets say you were angry that he was banging another girl. His reaction would had probably been; "Baby *we* agreed to it." Don't succumb to his tantrums, if he means so much to you. Then a reasurrance of your devoted love for him, should be enough for him to realize that you love him no matter what..

This is prob what confused pengman from the text and thought he was reading a fictitious story. >
Aconite said:
We had food, then alcohol and things got hot, and both couples started to make out.
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Also like emarald 15cm and 4cm is equivalent to 6 in. (avg size) and below avg circumference. You might have the digits wrong. :redface: Your new so its ok and also this thread might belong in the relationship forum.

Good Luck, and have fun.
-Matt.
 
emeraldcitysub_74 said:
If this is at all real ... your boyfriend will most likely never recover from the embarrassment. Try talking to him about it as others have stated. If he is a great man and worth your time, he will be open to your physical needs. It's not like you can help it. We are all individuals. For myself, I would never, EVER, fall in love with an average guy. My sex life is too important to me and I ONLY like big cock.

Emphasize to your boyfriend that not every woman likes to even have her vagina penetrated by more than a finger. Not every woman likes receiving oral (I don't). Not every woman likes to be filled up by a big cock.

(OK, who am I kidding)

For guys that don't have a big package, they just have to swallow their pride and use big dildo's ... or perhaps their hand. :)
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Well okay but I'm not a size queen. I said already: sex with my boyfriend is awesome, I come anyway and his penis feels good. From a physical pleasure point of view, yes: his friend was in another league. But it was just sex, not making love; and feelings for me matter as well. I just wish I could have those physical feelings with the person I love, cause I'm worried I'm loose and I can't have vaginal orgasm without a huge penis, which worries me a lot.

I mean, that's my fault if I can't come with an average penis, not my boyfriend's and I'm trying to make him understand that.

Matt_x said:
Hi Aconite, welcome to the site. You have the right concept Male ego? Size matters? He's insecure and the other girls reaction to his size might be the reason why he reacted that way. Though I don't see what the big deal is about, both of you consented to the foursome. So if he was mad that his friend was banging you, and you were enjoying it..

Twist the scenario over and lets say you were angry that he was banging another girl. His reaction would had probably been; "Baby *we* agreed to it." Don't succumb to his tantrums, if he means so much to you. Then a reasurrance of your devoted love for him, should be enough for him to realize that you love him no matter what..

This is prob what confused pengman from the text and thought he was reading a fictitious story. >

Also like emarald 15cm and 4cm is equivalent to 6 in. (avg size) and below avg circumference. You might have the digits wrong. :redface: Your new so its ok and also this thread might belong in the relationship forum.

Good Luck, and have fun.
-Matt.
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Hey thanks for your answer! Anyway 4cms is his diameter, not circumference. I don't know what that is in inches and circumference, but it looks thick to me and feels good. It just doesn't make me come like his friend's which is half as thick. And well, I'm convinced I have a problem cause I should come with an average penis too shouldn't I? I don't know if my limits are physical or psychological...
 
Tiny_Zucchini said:
If you were verified I might have believed this story
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Okay

ActionBuddy said:
Not to detract from the thread, but when I see people say this, I feel like saying, "Cool... I know someone from Europe, and another person from Asia... I also have an African friend... I'm from North America."

;) A/B
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I don't want to say which country I'm from sorry
 
Yeap, I can relate.

men are super sensitive and very easily threatened when it comes to their performance in front of other men

Have a go at explaining the "i had fun but im emotionally connected to you" speech. I really hope for your and his sake he gets it, but being male and the they way they are hard wired, its unlikely.

Its crazy, the best sex you ever have can often turn out to be the one you regret the most.
 
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