Foursome gone wrong!

[Aconite]

Yeap, I can relate.

men are super sensitive and very easily threatened when it comes to their performance in front of other men

Have a go at explaining the "i had fun but im emotionally connected to you" speech. I really hope for your and his sake he gets it, but being male and the they way they are hard wired, its unlikely.

Its crazy, the best sex you ever have can often turn out to be the one you regret the most.

I agree 100%, I'm trying that 'speech', so far with no success at all. I don't care about his penis size too much; but his lack of selfconfidence is bothering me no end. He doesn't get that there's more than physical pleasure, meaning: emotional pleasure. And he gives me tons of it.

 

[Realthick6]

This is his problem not yours. He invited the couple and could have stopped anytime (especially when the big boy was unveiled).
I'm not sure I'm strong enough to get over something like this.
Buy a cyberskin penis extension and surprise him with it. Let him feel the power of fucking with a huge cock. If you liked the other guys "average" cock
You should go nuts on your loves new monster.

 

[RawDog]

I just wish I could have those physical feelings with the person I love, cause I'm worried I'm loose and I can't have vaginal orgasm without a huge penis, which worries me a lot.

And this is why it's such a catch-22. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a physical preference, it's convincing everyone (yourself included) that the emotional preference doesn't necessarily have to be related.

I mean, that's my fault if I can't come with an average penis, not my boyfriend's and I'm trying to make him understand that.

Not in those words will you convince him of anything. It only serves to verify his greatest fear (hell, almost all men's greatest fear)... size matters.

And well, I'm convinced I have a problem cause I should come with an average penis too shouldn't I? I don't know if my limits are physical or psychological...

This may make matters worse, but if you read this:

http://www.lpsg.com/360507-internal-clitoris-connections.html

It basically verifies the physiological reason why you may be cumming a lot more easily with the big guy.

 

[BS76]

You sure you're not related to the woman from this story?

Mutual friends that are a married couple had a MFM threesome; major problems afterwards : relationship_advice

 

[omgurbig]

give the dildo extention a miss, for many many reasons.

 

[D_Candy_Barre]

You have to laugh at this and anyone who believes it's a true story.

 

[185248]

It's how size queens are born I think.

 

[sexplease]

a rose cannot smell like a tulip. Enjoy all the flowers in the garden for their individual beauty.

 

[honeyshugar]

Never ride a newer, bigger, faster motorcycle unless you're ready to buy one.

That's one of my rules.

And why anybody in their right mind would let their woman ride a bigger cock---well maybe---but why the would actually set it up or facilitate it==is totally beyond me. WTF did they think would happen?!

My hubby is a lovely size---
He enjoys seeing me fuck other men and especially likes to see me with men bigger than him. We have had a few encounters with men slightly larger but he wants to see me with a MUCH larger cock. I think it can be a great thing for a relationship if everyone is on the same page. For him it is mostly a fetish thing though...

 

[Brisler]

"

So, we're tearing down this oil rig, I manage to fall about 20 feet and land in the 'junk basket'. Crack a couple ribs and get a couple big 'contusions'. Tool pusher takes me to hospital, I hurt a LOT, they give me some pain pills and we pick up a six pack to wash them down.

Washed them down a little too good, I end up at a wedding dance, drink some whiskey and smoke a little hash. No pain, no worries.

End up going home with this little hottie I have known forever but never touched.

This honey has an amazingly big, loose pussy. At least till you get past the 'used part'.

Upon arrival at unexplored territory, she becomes amazingly orgasmic. And the more she comes, the harder she comes, the quicker she comes. Count has been lost long ago, I have called several breaks---it's like she might have a heart attack.

I was classically eastern trained as a youth---long story---but learned that male orgasms and male ejaculation are two separate events that generally occur simultansously. But that it's possible to have one w/o experiencing the other.

So--I can 'come' many times w/o 'coming'---if you savvy. I might have sex and orgasm a dozen times a week, but only ejaculate twice. Which has caused me to perhaps be more popular than I might have been, plus my gonads are 'quite' large, perhaps from hauling a big load mosta the time.

Anyway, even my newly nympho friend has had enuf, I've had a long day and want to unload and get some sleep---but I've trained myself not to and have such control that with the hash and pills---dammit I can't! And my little gal is ready to fire again,,,and again.....after a moderate re warm up.

She told me later that she was sore for days, and that it was behond compare the best sex of her life. And she gave me the clap. And I was in a relationship.

Ehm... What!?

 

[omgurbig]

You have to laugh at this and anyone who believes it's a true story.

:loser:

Yawn........

Once again, you offer nothing of interest. Providing nothing but negative comments on other peoples opinions is not classed as an opinion.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

Why? Male ego? Come one, size matters sure, but it's not everything at all!

Its not "male ego"... its THAT particular male's insecurities.


There are lots of guys who simply don't give much thought to the size of other guy's dicks in comparison to their own.

There are guys who figure that a woman wouldn't be with them if they weren't satisfied with them.


But there are guys who obsess over other guys dicks. Who fret they are inadequate.
And lemme tell ya.... ANY guy who seems interested in letting their girl "experience" a much bigger dick, is one of those guys.

They are just setting themselves up to have their own sense of inadequacy confirmed.

There is Nothing that YOU can do to change the way HE is. The only person you can change is yourself.

 

[Aconite]

:loser:

Yawn........

Once again, you offer nothing of interest. Providing nothing but negative comments on other peoples opinions is not classed as an opinion.

Thank you omgurbig and to anyone else who offered me advice and support, you've been very kind and understanding

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

As a teenager I was often in rooms with multiple couples having sex, either we'd chip in for a hotel room, or we'd end up in someone's bed room. This happened alot.

I never, ever, saw another penis or vagina, it's just not possible. At most I could've seen was someone's ass pumping away between his girlfriends legs.

How the OP saw a white discharge coming out of another woman's vagina while they were both having sex is beyond me.

And further more, just because her BF was interested in swapping doesn't mean everyone else is, and in my experience the OP would've been the first one to say no, the other woman second, and most likely the other man wouldn't want anyone else fucking his woman.

This thread is some kind of veiled SPH crap, should be moved to fictitious stories..

 

[Aconite]

As a teenager I was often in rooms with multiple couples having sex, either we'd chip in for a hotel room, or we'd end up in someone's bed room. This happened alot.

I never, ever, saw another penis or vagina, it's just not possible. At most I could've seen was someone's ass pumping away between his girlfriends legs.

How the OP saw a white discharge coming out of another woman's vagina while they were both having sex is beyond me.

And further more, just because her BF was interested in swapping doesn't mean everyone else is, and in my experience the OP would've been the first one to say no, the other woman second, and most likely the other man wouldn't want anyone else fucking his woman.

This thread is some kind of veiled SPH crap, should be moved to fictitious stories..

This is your opinion which I respect. But it's not everyone's opinion, and you sound a bit certain about what you say.

Do with the thread what you like anyway, I have already received support and sympathy in quantity.

 

[honeyshugar]

This is your opinion which I respect. But it's not everyone's opinion, and you sound a bit certain about what you say.

Do with the thread what you like anyway, I have already received support and sympathy in quantity.

Ignore him...again, not offering anything of use.

I have been in several group situations and seen LOTS of penis and vagina while we were all naked in the room together. Yeah, I LOOK! and WATCH!!! What is the point of group sex or same room if everyone is wearing a blindfold. GEEZ! The group situation is part of the thrill. Even if not all guys are packing, the energy in a group situation can be more than hot enough to really get everyone sizzling.

 

[Aconite]

Ignore him...again, not offering anything of use.

I have been in several group situations and seen LOTS of penis and vagina while we were all naked in the room together. Yeah, I LOOK! and WATCH!!! What is the point of group sex or same room if everyone is wearing a blindfold. GEEZ! The group situation is part of the thrill. Even if not all guys are packing, the energy in a group situation can be more than hot enough to really get everyone sizzling.

So true!

 

[thickerer]

I have been in the room with my GF that has enjoyed a massive cock. There are many things that lead up to the sex. Drinks, anticipation, newness. And yes, size. It could be a very dangerous thing for a couple to do unless they are 100% comfortable with all aspects. I think some women, at least that I have known that size can lead to a different kind of orgasm. Not that an average size cant do the trick. One does not replace the other.

 

[D_F_Ng_Ghan]

Aconite, did you try looking for techniques and position that may let you have an orgasm even with your boyfriend? Something like the coital alignment techniques or kegels...

 

[Aconite]

Aconite, did you try looking for techniques and position that may let you have an orgasm even with your boyfriend? Something like the coital alignment techniques or kegels...

Sorry what's the coital alignment techniques?

I've been thinking of kegels but I've been very lazy. Are they worth the time and effort?