I'm living in my fraternity house now, and I'm wondering about how other big guys have found the fraternities experience. We all know that certain parts of the stereotypes are true. We do watch communal porn pretty regularly, hookups are openly discussed and sometimes completely public, I have seen my bros having sex on couches and at date functions and so forth. We also know that other parts of the stereotypes are untrue. Fraternities don't have regular circlejerks. I, for example, have never had a circlejerk at college. I have beaten off with a few select guys in the fraternity, like my roommate, and a few older guys who invited me to join their regular relaxed jacking sessions, but it's relatively private. Unlike the fact of my size, which has become very public. We routinely share toilets if there is a crunch in bathroom space, and it's pretty difficult to avoid noticing an unusually large dick hanging out of a guy's pants when your standing a foot away from him. Our showers aren't communal, but the doors are clear glass, and anyone in the bathroom has a pretty clear view into all the showers. So, over the past year and a half, my dick has become publicly known as a big one. One of my good friends who is suspected to be very small goes to great lengths to avoid standing at the same toilet as me, even to the extent of suddenly deciding he doesn't have to go the bathroom when I walk in. More than once when I've been showering somebody else has gotten into the adjoining shower, their eyes clearly glancing down at my dick as they turned the water on. Just a few nights ago, I was taking a leak into a shrub in the front yard when I realized that my stance left me completely visible to anyone looking out the front window. Apparently a number of guys were, as later in the night I heard one guy describing my dick in awed tones to two others. Now, I certainly don't mind being admired, and I definitely could have made it harder to observe my dick if I had wanted to. My size has become so generally known, though, that taboos about discussing it are vanishing, and from time to time someone will bring it up as a joke at a party or ask me, "Seriously, how big is it?" So what I want to know is: have other big guys who were in fraternities had similar experiences becoming a kind of token big-dick mascot?