Fraternity Size

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  1. VanderAnder

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    I'm living in my fraternity house now, and I'm wondering about how other big guys have found the fraternities experience. We all know that certain parts of the stereotypes are true. We do watch communal porn pretty regularly, hookups are openly discussed and sometimes completely public, I have seen my bros having sex on couches and at date functions and so forth. We also know that other parts of the stereotypes are untrue. Fraternities don't have regular circlejerks. I, for example, have never had a circlejerk at college. I have beaten off with a few select guys in the fraternity, like my roommate, and a few older guys who invited me to join their regular relaxed jacking sessions, but it's relatively private.

    Unlike the fact of my size, which has become very public. We routinely share toilets if there is a crunch in bathroom space, and it's pretty difficult to avoid noticing an unusually large dick hanging out of a guy's pants when your standing a foot away from him. Our showers aren't communal, but the doors are clear glass, and anyone in the bathroom has a pretty clear view into all the showers.

    So, over the past year and a half, my dick has become publicly known as a big one. One of my good friends who is suspected to be very small goes to great lengths to avoid standing at the same toilet as me, even to the extent of suddenly deciding he doesn't have to go the bathroom when I walk in. More than once when I've been showering somebody else has gotten into the adjoining shower, their eyes clearly glancing down at my dick as they turned the water on.

    Just a few nights ago, I was taking a leak into a shrub in the front yard when I realized that my stance left me completely visible to anyone looking out the front window. Apparently a number of guys were, as later in the night I heard one guy describing my dick in awed tones to two others.

    Now, I certainly don't mind being admired, and I definitely could have made it harder to observe my dick if I had wanted to. My size has become so generally known, though, that taboos about discussing it are vanishing, and from time to time someone will bring it up as a joke at a party or ask me, "Seriously, how big is it?"

    So what I want to know is: have other big guys who were in fraternities had similar experiences becoming a kind of token big-dick mascot?
     
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    no one will believe it til we see it :p haha :) got pics?
     
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    How can you have become a mascot, unless your huge cock is being advertised by your fraternity to other fraternities and sororities? Mascots are NOT for internal use only.
     
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    be proud. great pick up line. "... so you know i have a huge cock"
     
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    Posts like this often annoy me. It often seems like the person who posts these things is looking for compliments, sort of a fake humility where they are able to brag about their endowments.

    But now I think that maybe I can understand ... maybe ...

    I was never in a frat. And neither was my best friend. But I've known for years that he has nearly 10 inches. It was only recently that I realized that he has felt objectified about having a big penis. Like your friends in the frat, I often joke about his size. But then I realized he's sensitive about it. And so I stopped.

    It's so hard to understand. You'd think that if you have a big penis you'd be proud to have others be curious about it. But then I have to admit that, regardless of my size, I'd probably be uncomfortable if everyone thought about my penis size whenever they saw me. I'd feel objectified, as my friend said he has felt.

    The flipside, of course, is that you guys also do have a confidence about having a big penis. I read an article in Esquire a while ago that said that guys with big penises tend to be more confident than other men. They tend to think everything will work out. Still, the penis is very personal, obviously. And it would rpobably make me uncomfortable to have others thinking about and talking about mine on a regular basis.

    Sorry. This was probably no help. :rolleyes:
     
  6. Big Del

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    At university we all shared showers etc and myself and another guy got the reputation for being hung

    So at ome party the challenge was laid down for me and Rob "The Knob" to see who was biggest - I beat him by an inch and qtr

    My legend was sealed!

    Afterwards everyone had to post their verified stats on a list in the hallway
     
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    Funny you should say that. I guy came up to me in a bar one time (Columbus OH??) and said "I'll bet you have a really big dick." I say "funny" because although I often wearing bulge-showing pants, the ones I had on that night didn't show that much. I admitted that yes, thank you, I do, but what made you think so? He said hung guys have a confidence about them and he has learned to tune in to that. He said he now looks around the room seeking out the most confident guys. I've used that technique myself when I'm in the mood to suck a big one instead of fucking.
     
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    I'm not interested in a sexual encounter with a man, hence the "100% Straight" label. But I can tell well hung guys as well. They have a somewhat, no pun intented, cocky attitude about them. My best friend told me that he sometimes thinks women can tell as well. He told me about a time he went to a strip club with his friends and the stripper was hardly paying any attention to his friends, but she was climbing all over him. He said, "I wonder if I give off a vibe...."
     
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    Fascinating. I love all the psychological aspects. People who are very insightful always amaze me. I've developed my insight over the years, but some people are just born with it.
     
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    I agree with what you are saying henry....but What about those guys who are really quite small or average, but walk around with this hint of arrogance/cockiness. I have run into more guys like that (though I have never seen them naked)....who walk around like they are god's gift to man....acting as if they are packing some real heat.....but you know they areent
     
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    Dude---
    Unless your frat bros are coming on to you or sharing info on your big basket...what's the diff.

    When I was in college and in a frat....we knew pretty much about one another...the good, bad and ugly. We had some super hung brothers...1 was a slut, 1 was deeply in love and I still don't know how she walked after sleeping with him and 1 was a virgin. Then there were several of us that were well endowed. And several that were uber small. Again, we were bros....generally we spported one another...often we laughed at each....always the sexcapades were highly exaggerated. I really don't remember a lot of blatant talk or obsession with each other's dicks....and 5 of us came out after college!?!?!?

    Relax and enjoy your jo buddies!
     
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    Well, this isn't exactly scientific. Anecdotal at best. But I'd guess that the truly hung are confident whereas the braggers are making up for some sense of inadequacy. It's also possible to have a big penis and be insecure about other things. I had one friend who was relatively big and was also an annoying insecure bragger. I think family issues, alcoholism, poverty, etc., did it to him. That much being said, all things considered, he didn't do too bad for himself.
     
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    The sense I get is that the issue may be elsewhere. He most likely enjoys the attention but, because it is about his penis size, he may fear that it is a little "gay" to enjoy this sort of attention from his frat bros. And, well, it is a little gay ... but then we're all a little gay. Maybe that's the hard thing he's having to accept here. :redface:
     
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    no, not you. you're 100% straight. i can tell by the way you shot the pics in your gallery.
    def a 100% straight man's gallery.


    offroad
     
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    talking about Navy Top Gun pilots??:biggrin1:
     
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