My lover is average size. What he's packing is an instant and sustained boner ... for a man who's still in the closet at 64 I think that's really impressive. He sucks me better than anyone and I just adore playing with every inch of him. We're both vers (he gave me his male virginity) so every time is different and no matter what happens or doesn't I just feel so bonded to him. At a soul level.
One active buddy has a perfect *thick* at least 8" cock. I cannot swallow his girth no way, my throat just isn't that big. He's all top. I'm infatuated with his cock, I love how long and thick he still hangs in the shower after a fuck. I love sucking him after he comes and sparking multiple orgasms ... he just lays there moaning , oh fuck.. oh shit...oh wow....
Another buddy I don't see often has the thickest cock. And a blunt head due to a birth difference called hypospadias. I love being with him. It's just a chore to bottom for him because of his thickness. But if he's up to bottom he's amazing because he has such great muscle control of his ass .. the tightness makes me cum in him .
My first man packs 7.5 uncut. His cockhead is pointed. After he rims, he can slide in on spit alone.. he's nice and thick but his head is just built for topping.
I'm trying to say every guy is different and they all have wonderful sexual qualities of their own.