Fuck Buddies: A Discussion thread

[dfw051980]

Let's talk about the rules of having a fuck buddy; the Dos and Don'ts.

Is this the maximum number of times you should hit up your buddy for sex? Like is a few times a week too much or are we talking about only one time a week; max? Or should it be even more infrequent that that?
Do you have a set schedule like 7Pm every friday night? LOL

Is it understood that it's okay to have multiple fuck buddies? In case your main is not available?

What about Casual hanging out with your buddy? Do you chill watch tv together, maybe get drinks or a meal together or is that veering into a more "Friends with Benefits" type thing?

Does your fuck buddy stay the night or is it "in and out".

Lastly: Partners? If your buddy is involved with someone do you want to know about it? Is it an automatic know or do you not care?


These were just a few things I've been thinking about lately... ill add my personal answers after but everyone chime in with your own responses... and this is a discussion so i don't think there can be any wrong answers.

 

[dfw051980]

My personal thoughts on the questions i pondered...

I don't think there should be a set amount you are allowed to hit up your fuck buddy. of course, being respectful of someones time and also (I do realize there is some prep involved for bottoms so i do take that into consideration). But in my eyes if im horny and wanna cum, I should opt to cum with someone else first.LOL

I think having multiple fuckbuddy is fine and okay, but there are certain safety precautions i take (like preferring everyone is on Prep at least.

I feel like hanging out with your fuck buddy is fine but its kinda crossing a line into something more.

Id love a fuck buddy to spend the night cause i like fucking off and on throughout the night.

When it comes to partners, i don't want to know anything about them.

 

[deleted2780451]

Let's talk about the rules of having a fuck buddy; the Dos and Don'ts.

Is this the maximum number of times you should hit up your buddy for sex? Like is a few times a week too much or are we talking about only one time a week; max? Or should it be even more infrequent that that?
Do you have a set schedule like 7Pm every friday night? LOL

Is it understood that it's okay to have multiple fuck buddies? In case your main is not available?

What about Casual hanging out with your buddy? Do you chill watch tv together, maybe get drinks or a meal together or is that veering into a more "Friends with Benefits" type thing?

Does your fuck buddy stay the night or is it "in and out".

Lastly: Partners? If your buddy is involved with someone do you want to know about it? Is it an automatic know or do you not care?


These were just a few things I've been thinking about lately... ill add my personal answers after but everyone chime in with your own responses... and this is a discussion so i don't think there can be any wrong answers.

(Going off of my normal preferences with FBs, not necessarily what's happening with my current ones)

If we're fuck buddies, I'm at least sucking their cock 4 or 5 times a week and maybe having sex once or twice a week, maybe less frequently than that. The more often I suck, the less often we tend to have sex. Scheduling usually isn't set in stone; it's more like "come over after work" or "wayd? I'm horny".

I usually have 3 or 4 fuck buddies at a time and usually they don't know each other, but they're aware that unless they become my monogamous boyfriend, I'm as much of a hoe as when they met me.

I think the difference between FWBs and FBs is the non-sexual hanging out aspect. I don't "hangout" with any of my FBs unless it's the get food or go to a bar before or after we hook up.

I have some FBs who let me spend the night if it's late by the time I get there, but I usually prefer to go home if I'm sober enough to drive.

I don't care about any of my FBs love lives.

 

[Sturdywords]

In theory, a fuckbuddy is just a guy that I have a sexual connection with. We treat each other with respect and consideration and we are friend*LY* but not friends as such.

In reality I have fuckbuddies I have known for years and when a guy has given my cock THAT much pleasure for so long I cannot help feeling affection towards him.

 

[Lilyoftheghetto]

I've had a couple of fuck buddies. The longest one lasted for about 20 years. We would get together maybe twice a month.

We started with condoms but maybe after about 5 years, I told him to take the condom off. At that point, I felt comfortable and trusted him enough to ditch the condoms. He is the only man I didn't use a condom with and we fucked without condoms for about 15 years. He was mostly into women but I made him promise he wouldn't fuck anyone else in the ass bareback except me. This man continuously bred me for 15 years. OMG! It was amazing. He always ejaculated with great abundance so my ass hole was always left dripping. He was well endowed so the anal would sometimes be challenging for me but I enjoyed anal more with him than I have with any other man in my life. He was definately an ass man and after a few years, he admitted he preferred fucking me in the ass more than he enjoyed pussy.

I loved having sex with him. He was freaky and he definately brought out the freak in me. I did things with him I have never done with any other man, including role playing and ass to mouth. We were not friends outside of the bedroom though. We tried but no chemistry outside of the bedroom so we decided to just stick to fucking. I'm surprised it lasted as long as it did. He was about 12 years older than me. Unfortunately, as he got older, he had to start taking meds for some health issues that affected him being able to maintain an erection and he was not able to get viagra so our good times ended. But, I had a great time all those years. Second best dick I ever had. No emotional connection - just pure, freaky, primal lust!

 

[Brodie888]

One of my roommates in college became a fuck buddy.

He was outwardly straight but I guess he was actually bi. He like most guys in college was obsessed with hooking up with girls. But he was a bit socially awkward in a country bumpkin kind of way.

He had a great body from country living and a nice thick cock. I had offered to service him whenever he wanted, nobody would have to know.

He resisted at first but his strike rate with girls was inconsistent so he'd get really horny and relent.

It was just sex, nothing more. I was out doing my own thing but I an extra dick to suck was no big deal haha!