Gay Sauna just to hang out naked

If I go to a gay sauna I'm going for sex. If I just wanted the chilling and sweating with hot men experience I'd go to the sauna at the pool where I used to swim. I found there more erotic anyway because I have a Speedo's fetish;) and I'd rather see sweating hunks in wet lycra than bollock naked, it tantalises the imagination more.

But I've no problem with other guys at gay saunas just wanting to sweat it out and chill. A lad who politely says he's not up for it is better than a guy who won't leave you alone.

Two really intense erotic encounters at gay saunas that might relate to the OP's question. I got it on with a sexy guy naked in the sauna and we did it right there, didn't bother getting a room, just really sweaty kissing and BJ's while the other guys said nothing and pretended to ignore us whilst checking us both out.

Another time I lay back and started masturbating, other guy's came over to lend a hand but I just said no thanks and explained that I just wanted to wank with other men watching. It was something I'd never done before, or since, but it felt amazing. With both situations the sexual tension from an audience added to the hotness of the situation.
 
Is it socially frowned upon to visit a gay sauna just to hang out naked with other guys without being interested in having sex there?

I've been to a gay sauna twice where it was just fun to relax naked with other blokes in the steam room and hot tub. I wasn't interested in having sex with anyone there. Some of the guys were a bit taken aback when I said I'm just there to relax and not interested in doing anything sexual with them.

Is it ok to do that? or do you really only go there to have sex?
Fortunately, I have a home on private wooded property with fire pits and a hot tub so that me and my buddies can hang naked indoors and outdoors with out any hint of sexual stuff.
 
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I regularly visit a gay sauna, and usually go on one of the three naked days, where even full towels are not issued until your final shower, just face cloth sized ones. There is never any pressure to engage in sex, it is totally up to me. I like being naked in a group, and walking around fully hard, without worrying. Yes, sometimes I will engage in something sexual, but it is perfectly acceptable to choose not to, if you prefer.
 
If I go to a gay sauna I'm going for sex. If I just wanted the chilling and sweating with hot men experience I'd go to the sauna at the pool where I used to swim. I found there more erotic anyway because I have a Speedo's fetish;) and I'd rather see sweating hunks in wet lycra than bollock naked, it tantalises the imagination more.

But I've no problem with other guys at gay saunas just wanting to sweat it out and chill. A lad who politely says he's not up for it is better than a guy who won't leave you alone.

Two really intense erotic encounters at gay saunas that might relate to the OP's question. I got it on with a sexy guy naked in the sauna and we did it right there, didn't bother getting a room, just really sweaty kissing and BJ's while the other guys said nothing and pretended to ignore us whilst checking us both out.

Another time I lay back and started masturbating, other guy's came over to lend a hand but I just said no thanks and explained that I just wanted to wank with other men watching. It was something I'd never done before, or since, but it felt amazing. With both situations the sexual tension from an audience added to the hotness of the situation.
There is honesty in admitting you go for sex. I used to go to steam baths for sex, anonymous sex, with guys in steam-filled rooms, sweaty cubicles and in the showers. The heat, the atmosphere and naked flesh, awesome. The sauna is a bit different, somehow more grown up and less primitive and yes, if you say no to a guy then usually they get the message. It was in saunas I found I enjoyed exhibitionism, being full on fucked knowing guys were watching every cock thrust gave an edge to the sex, letting another guy, or guys, masturbate me, lying back, cock hard, all those hands doing the job made sure they got rewarded with a big spunky load.