If I go to a gay sauna I'm going for sex. If I just wanted the chilling and sweating with hot men experience I'd go to the sauna at the pool where I used to swim. I found there more erotic anyway because I have a Speedo's fetish
and I'd rather see sweating hunks in wet lycra than bollock naked, it tantalises the imagination more.
But I've no problem with other guys at gay saunas just wanting to sweat it out and chill. A lad who politely says he's not up for it is better than a guy who won't leave you alone.
Two really intense erotic encounters at gay saunas that might relate to the OP's question. I got it on with a sexy guy naked in the sauna and we did it right there, didn't bother getting a room, just really sweaty kissing and BJ's while the other guys said nothing and pretended to ignore us whilst checking us both out.
Another time I lay back and started masturbating, other guy's came over to lend a hand but I just said no thanks and explained that I just wanted to wank with other men watching. It was something I'd never done before, or since, but it felt amazing. With both situations the sexual tension from an audience added to the hotness of the situation.
But I've no problem with other guys at gay saunas just wanting to sweat it out and chill. A lad who politely says he's not up for it is better than a guy who won't leave you alone.
Two really intense erotic encounters at gay saunas that might relate to the OP's question. I got it on with a sexy guy naked in the sauna and we did it right there, didn't bother getting a room, just really sweaty kissing and BJ's while the other guys said nothing and pretended to ignore us whilst checking us both out.
Another time I lay back and started masturbating, other guy's came over to lend a hand but I just said no thanks and explained that I just wanted to wank with other men watching. It was something I'd never done before, or since, but it felt amazing. With both situations the sexual tension from an audience added to the hotness of the situation.