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When its playful I am okay with it. For me to be involved with it, the smaller guy has to take the initiative and set the boundaries. From a top point of view there is a reinforced control and power and a boosted confidence that someone is intimidated by you sexually. It is an odd rush - not one I seek, but one I've bumped into over the years. The first time was with a guy who was gay4pay who met me in a bar in Baltimore. He was hot - taller than me, lean build and willing to bottom. His size did not enter into my mindset at all. There was no pre-inspection or flashing - we met at the bar and the bartender introduced us to each other. We talked, came to an agreement and went back to my hotel. When he undressed I noticed he was smaller than average but it wasn't an issue for me. However when he saw me he apologized for being small and promised he would do a good job anyway. I was like WTF? I never doubted it, but he kept bringing it up and the subject really got me up! He just went into this total submissive role and expressed regret about being so small. I should add, he wasn't that small. Great sex, great night. It was a rush I ever expected.
I like to dish sph, mainly cause I'm exploring my dom side online, so I like the humiliation stuff. Length of penis is not so important to me, so usually I don't insist on that, but sometimes the other guy want to or crave to. I do sessions on Skype and most of 'em are with straight dudes cause it turns me on very much.
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I enjoy giving it out almost as much as I like receiving it. I'm not hung, so the receiver has to be able to enjoy the special kind of humiliation you get from being called inadequate from someone who's pretty small himself. For some men this is especially humiliating, and I make tha an important part of the dialogue.
What do I like about SPH topping in general? I like getting into the Dom headspace in a way that I know very well as a sub. (Similar for me to the way I like being a fisting top -- it came after years of being a fisting bottom and finding out where my ecstasy was as a bottom.) It's not about abusing a guy's mental state, it's about manipulating his mental state to bring him to an amazing body and mind-wrenching orgasm.
And there's something to what @SkySkin77 says as well. There are ostensibly straight men who enjoy taking SPH from another guy and who are especially humiliated if it comes from a gay guy. That has its own special thrill, although I can only say I've had the pleasure twice. (Please, can we not get into the who's straight/not discussion?)
All of this fun stuff aside, while I enjoy SPH topping, it doesn't make me cum. My mind is wired primarily as a sub, and I get off on receiving humiliation, not giving it.
What do I like about SPH topping in general? I like getting into the Dom headspace in a way that I know very well as a sub. (Similar for me to the way I like being a fisting top -- it came after years of being a fisting bottom and finding out where my ecstasy was as a bottom.) It's not about abusing a guy's mental state, it's about manipulating his mental state to bring him to an amazing body and mind-wrenching orgasm.
And there's something to what @SkySkin77 says as well. There are ostensibly straight men who enjoy taking SPH from another guy and who are especially humiliated if it comes from a gay guy. That has its own special thrill, although I can only say I've had the pleasure twice. (Please, can we not get into the who's straight/not discussion?)
All of this fun stuff aside, while I enjoy SPH topping, it doesn't make me cum. My mind is wired primarily as a sub, and I get off on receiving humiliation, not giving it.
I've only done it "properly" a few times because (a) I'm not really all that large and (b) not that many men need it/ like it.
But I've done it. Makes me feel powerful, dominant, attractive. More masculine.
However I had a better ( for me ) thing the other day with a guy I've been seeing a few months. He is slightly smaller, but not really small as such. Anyway. He told me my dick was looking bigger, said my occasionally PE was definitely working ... Just positive about me, no need for any negatives about him...
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But I've done it. Makes me feel powerful, dominant, attractive. More masculine.
However I had a better ( for me ) thing the other day with a guy I've been seeing a few months. He is slightly smaller, but not really small as such. Anyway. He told me my dick was looking bigger, said my occasionally PE was definitely working ... Just positive about me, no need for any negatives about him...
Nice ( r ) .
I had a similar experience of SPH being off my radar. I'm a bottom and would usually just hide my little peter in a jockstrap or something. More recently I've read some SPH stories and engaged in some SPH chats and live connection. It is so hot to receive as a bottom/sub.
I love it. Being submissive myself i love to worship anyone bigger and tbh thats most any1
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hairybubblebum
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I think i have a nice cock and very alpha in public. Muscular type guy and love to have SPH by a smaller twink that would be beta in public i think thats hot.
shortHairyMeat
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I'm 5.5", 6'2" tall - - love dominating and humiliating a smaller guy and having him worship my cock - love him to fantasize that my cock is superior to his and his is a little inferior dicklett - - same with my small nutbag - but get off on fantasizing it's a BULLBAG....also could get off taking sph from a small guy - - or just a small dicked guy and me talking shit to eachother - taking turns humiliating each other, nasty, dirty perverse talk.....while jackin' our small dicks like two bitches in heat
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