Gentle or rough.. how did you learn to fuck someone?

[PutItInHere691]

I was wondering for all guys .. gay and straight .. when learning your method and rhythm of how you penetrate/fuck someone …

did you do it gentle and got rougher as you learned more how to do it or did you start gentle and casual and remained that way .

with me if I am topping I go gentle but can get tougher if he wants all he has sdbffbbif he/she wants it harder and more assertive then I do it..

Can answer here or private message me if don’t want to mention it in this post …

 

[Evenflow618]

Rough i learned quickly that most women want the rough fucking for total body orgasm. I notice that the most satisfied relationships with sex tend to be people that love to rough fuck. Gentle fucking is more passionate and romantic which is good once in a while for special occasion. However, the rough fucking is always guarantee orgasm and as primal as it could be.

 

[PutItInHere691]

So did you start rough in hoping she wouldn’t say slow down? See it in porn?

 

[Evenflow618]

You learn gentle fucking wont get them to the climax

 

[PutItInHere691]

So did you start rough in hoping she wouldn’t say slow down? See it in porn?

 

[stretch8888]

I started out more gentle then learned most wanted it rough

 

[longstroke7]

You learn gentle fucking wont get them to the climax

It depends on the woman. I've made women cum from gentle passionate sex and others cum hard from a good barbarian style fuck where i thrust hard and deep, with plenty of spanking, hair pulling, light choking, etc. I cater to my audience.

 

[lapdog2001]

I learned to at least start slow, and in most cases it was necessary anyway as i took a minute to ease my cock all the way in. I usually started with shorter strokes, going a little bit deeper with each thrust.

I've never had outright barbarian style sex with slapping or any rough stuff, as none of the women I've been with asked to do any of that. Building up to harder, deeper, quicker thrusting, generating lots of ball slapping noise and moans and groans from the woman I'm fucking? yes, of course. But it really depended on the woman, and even with the same woman many hundreds of times, it could be different every time.

An old long-term girlfriend loved missionary where I grabbed her ass with both hands while pounding away balls deep with each thrust. It felt great to me too, but it ensured I wouldn't last very long, as it was sensory overload. With her, I liked to start out in any other position, go for a bit, switch positions and go for more, then eventually ending up in missionary to finish off.

With any woman I've been with, doggie style allows for more vigorous thrusting, but I have to be careful to not hit the cervix!

Ultimately, how I fuck has always been what works for that particular sex session.

 

[ginabil]

I just recently learned and I started off very gentle at first.

The more I’ve fucked this guy I’ve been seeing the rougher it’s been. I’ve realised my natural rhythm is quite fast and I really like to fuck deep. The guy I’ve been seeing loved this so we’ve been going pretty fast and hard which I’m loving.

We occasionally still have a gentle fuck though when the mood is right.

 

[PutItInHere691]

I learned at certain point in my life some guys love it rough .. whips belts tied up and whipped smacked pinched .. bitten To point sometimes there’s blood . on and so on.. I learned then some guys can be pretty extreme

one guy I was with slams me against the wall one time grabs my hands and put my hands above my head and kicks my legs apart and slides his dick inside me without using his hand to guide it in… as he held my hands tightly above my head and begins to fuck me .. he starts talking dirty to me . Telling me take his dick as he thrusted it in hard and backs out and thrusted it back in ..

When he did that I tried to keep things relaxed but he did that made me tighten up around his cock.. and he was like yeah you love that dick don’t you ..

It was weird for a guy to be this assertive .. but it made me precum a lot onto the floor until I was cumming ..

And he’d shove in all the way tells me to push back onto his dick.. which got me in position where his crotch was lifting me up some off the floor . As he cums inside. Me he just holds me there. As he does ..

When he pulled out I could feel his dick sliding out as lets me get my feet back on the floor ..

I figured out why he was so assertive was he had always wanted to do it his way and I was smaller than him in body and lighter so him lifting me up like he did was something he had done with taller guys and it was ok.. but with shorter made it so much better

he asked if I was alright I was like I am wonderful.. I didn’t tell him that majority Of the guys that’s fucked me in my lifetime were rough and assertive in their ways..

And that’s why I asked if began gentle or rough or began gentle. And just got more assertive .. I was screwed by a guy 25 .. I was younger than him.. and he was the first person to pound my ass without mercy and I been Hooked on assertive sex since

 

[mdma]

I did it rough

 

[deleted814719]

Began dating my wife and married after we both graduated from college. During the months leading up to our wedding, we began inserting my cock half-way into her pussy. No stroking, just sliding it in a holding still. Stupidly, we never used condoms but I suppose we were lucky that I didn't leak any cum or that she didn't get pregnant from just a little fooling around. I never came inside her until our wedding night.

So, I "learned" to be gentle since we simply slid my cock into her and held still. During our 46 years of marriage, I've learned that she likes some rough fucking near the end to get me to climax. We can fuck in different positions but usually finish in missionary with her reaching underneath her thigh and playing with my balls as I stroke in-and-out of her. When she opens her legs wider, that her signal to me that I should pound away. And, I do.

As I get older, I find that I need to fuck her roughly to get off. Slow or gentle fucking, while heavenly, takes me a long, long time to ejaculate.

 

[halcyondays]

Gently at first. I'm big so she straddled me and got on cowgirl in her own good time. Same with the first guy.

 

[techpump]

When I started it was gentle, well not hard or rough, but a good pace, steady and constant. This brought my wife to three orgasms, first she ever had her whole life up to that point. But its like slow/fast/slow/medium/fast/medium/fast/slow all over the place. Kind of both, or everything from very slow and soft to extreme jackhammer fucking.

I think how Rollergirl describes Dirk's fucking, somewhere along the lines of "he can fuck slow or hard, he's the best" I aspired to be like that lol but in all honesty, we read each other's passion, hunger, emotions and feelings as we do it and she'll go soft and nice to really hard slamming her body down on me as hard as she can when she's on top, and I go soft and nice and slamming myself into her as hard as I can when I'm on top. It all brings her to orgasms of all kinds, full body, focal/local, in between. I can make my wife cum hard as fuck upon insertion and sliding it all the way in really slow and when I am all the way in she cummmmmms.

 

[PutItInHere691]

My oldest brother almost got put in prison because he fucked this girl rough and she accused him of rape … he had to get couple other girls/women he was with saying he did them same way to prove he didn’t rape her

He got nervous for a while .. until I told him.. talk about it first as making out .. then if she says she likes it rough.. slowly get into it and assure her that if you get to rough to let you know.. it’s all about communication..

he knows I am gay and wonders how I like it.. and I told him I was the bottom .. the submissive one .. it’s up for the top to be the way he wants to.. so some tops go gently others go so rough need to hold onto the covers hehe

 

[nhguy78]

My oldest brother almost got put in prison because he fucked this girl rough and she accused him of rape … he had to get couple other girls/women he was with saying he did them same way to prove he didn’t rape her

He got nervous for a while .. until I told him.. talk about it first as making out .. then if she says she likes it rough.. slowly get into it and assure her that if you get to rough to let you know.. it’s all about communication..

he knows I am gay and wonders how I like it.. and I told him I was the bottom .. the submissive one .. it’s up for the top to be the way he wants to.. so some tops go gently others go so rough need to hold onto the covers hehe

Geez. Yeah communication issues.

So you tell your brother to communicate but you don't communicate what you want with your tops? Or you communicate but tell them whatever they want?

 

[PutItInHere691]

Yeah I let the tops go the way they want. If they get too rough I figure then I can tell them..

I never understood why I felt or thought this way.. if my ass wasn’t sore for few days afterwards I wasn’t satisfied

 

[Malany_hill85]

Rough, but I reckon I was trained by watching a lot of porn where going soft just doesn't exist

 

[WilliamG]

There was no internet when I was starting to fuck. I learned to "fuck" from static photos. All I remember was her her grabbing the cheeks of my ass as hard as she could pulling me into her. I have no idea what really happened after that. So I'm going to go with "rough"? Maybe?

 

[ViewingPleasure]

I was wondering for all guys .. gay and straight .. when learning your method and rhythm of how you penetrate/fuck someone …

did you do it gentle and got rougher as you learned more how to do it or did you start gentle and casual and remained that way .

with me if I am topping I go gentle but can get tougher if he wants all he has sdbffbbif he/she wants it harder and more assertive then I do it..

Can answer here or private message me if don’t want to mention it in this post …

Oh, learned to be gentle. First time in a pussy was my virginal g/f in HS.

It was tough for me, though, because while she was technically a virgin, she'd been blowing me and letting me titty-fuck her 36DDs for more than two years and there were few restraints on how hard or fast I could go there. She could deepthroat me and had little to no gag reflex.

It was a challenge, but I learned a lot about rhythm and patience. The latter not being a strong suite of a constantly horny 18-year old kid.