Gets Hard Easily

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It is too easy for me to get hard, even with just a thought. It is especially harder because my erection is slanted straight and not close to my body (if that makes sense). So when I get hard, it is very noticeable.

A solution I have is to masturbate in the morning before I go out because if I don’t, I get anxious and would fear for it all day.

What other solutions can you offer so I can lessen getting erections in the middle of the day?
 
It is too easy for me to get hard, even with just a thought. It is especially harder because my erection is slanted straight and not close to my body (if that makes sense). So when I get hard, it is very noticeable.

A solution I have is to masturbate in the morning before I go out because if I don’t, I get anxious and would fear for it all day.

What other solutions can you offer so I can lessen getting erections in the middle of the day?
I strongly suggest enjoying it while it lasts and just enduring the slight inconveniences. You will absolutely wish you had this "problem" in the future.
 
It is too easy for me to get hard, even with just a thought. It is especially harder because my erection is slanted straight and not close to my body (if that makes sense). So when I get hard, it is very noticeable.

A solution I have is to masturbate in the morning before I go out because if I don’t, I get anxious and would fear for it all day.

What other solutions can you offer so I can lessen getting erections in the middle of the day?

Braggart :)
 
Enjoy it. I used to find it so overwhelming, I'd have to find a bathroom stall in the middle of the day. My employer was paying me to think, but if I couldn't think then I'd have to do something! I had to cum, my body demanded it, at least once every day. Do what your body demands of you, needs you to do.

If you have to "hide" it, wear a jockstrap and enjoy that hardness/pain and showing that bulge. If you have to adjust it, have a nonchalant grab and push as required. You are who you are, and if you have a hard cock, you have a hard cock. Maybe you'll make new friends.

Focus on it. I recommend masturbating as often as you need--before you go out, in the middle of the day, when you get back home, as you're falling asleep. Spend evenings edging, with friends or without. The real deal: edge without watching porn.

If you have a quiet moment, breathe into that erection and focus it for as long as you can. Maybe you'll tap into the secret of cumming totally hands-free. Maybe you'll discover new fantasies for yourself; or maybe a new kink you can patent.

TL;DR: be proud and enjoy it.

Make a blog or reply here and let us know how it goes.
 
I used to work shift hours in a large control room with over fifty staff, male and female. The early shift started at 6am. One time, at around 8am, with the low morning sun shining in, the lady I was sitting next to was stifling a giggle. When I asked what the joke was she surprised me by saying that she could almost set her watch to the guys all standing up around sunrise and stretching. Sure enough as I looked around, there they were, stretching, yawning, some with hands in pockets 'adjusting' themselves. I laughed and said to her "oh well I can't beat them so I might as well join them!" It felt even better that morning as I stretched and adjusted. We also had a jolly good laugh which didn't happen often at work!
I guess the moral of my story is don't be anxious about daytime boners. It's a perfectly natural and healthy process. Embrace the bulge, don't fight it.
 
Enjoy it. I used to find it so overwhelming, I'd have to find a bathroom stall in the middle of the day. My employer was paying me to think, but if I couldn't think then I'd have to do something! I had to cum, my body demanded it, at least once every day. Do what your body demands of you, needs you to do.

If you have to "hide" it, wear a jockstrap and enjoy that hardness/pain and showing that bulge. If you have to adjust it, have a nonchalant grab and push as required. You are who you are, and if you have a hard cock, you have a hard cock. Maybe you'll make new friends.

Focus on it. I recommend masturbating as often as you need--before you go out, in the middle of the day, when you get back home, as you're falling asleep. Spend evenings edging, with friends or without. The real deal: edge without watching porn.

If you have a quiet moment, breathe into that erection and focus it for as long as you can. Maybe you'll tap into the secret of cumming totally hands-free. Maybe you'll discover new fantasies for yourself; or maybe a new kink you can patent.

TL;DR: be proud and enjoy it.

Make a blog or reply here and let us know how it goes.
I didn’t even think of that. I’ve always kind of resented my very high libido because I hate that I become sort of ”incapacitated” when I get hard in the middle of the day in public because it takes some time for it to go down, especially if I hadn’t masturbated early that day.

I didn’t post this to brag, I was genuinely asking for advice. I’ve been feeling bad about myself for always “needing” to masturbate everyday or else I would be preoccupied for the rest of the day. And because of the “need” to masturbate everyday, I’ve been edging for longer times than necessary, which really disrupts my work schedule for school.

I think the reason why I resent this is because I would need a lot of time to cum because I’ve been doing it everyday, and doing it everyday means conditioning it to stay hard for longer period of time. I’m gonna try the jockstrap advise but I’ll pass on the medication.

Anyway, I do understand that this is because of my youth, I just turned 21 a couple days ago, which really does explain the high libido. I appreciate all your replies because it made me feel a lot better. I guess being a man means having a dick and having a dick means being hard, and being hard means doing whatever you can to make it flop down (through waiting, peeing, or masturbating).
 
It is too easy for me to get hard, even with just a thought. It is especially harder because my erection is slanted straight and not close to my body (if that makes sense). So when I get hard, it is very noticeable.

A solution I have is to masturbate in the morning before I go out because if I don’t, I get anxious and would fear for it all day.

What other solutions can you offer so I can lessen getting erections in the middle of the day?
How old are you? Just sounds like being a guy to me. I’m 22 and still get rando-boners, regular wanking is neccesary (and fun).

Enjoy it, mate! Feel the power!
 
The one advantage of having a small dick.

I'm constantly getting hard, just looking at my wife, even in a baggy sweatshirt... knowing what she looks under there... makes me get hard.

And it's not just seeing her, I'm hard right now just thinking about her to type this. If I get a text from her, randomly think about her during the day... it happens all the frigging time.

But as I said, with a small dick it's really not noticable.
 
I strongly suggest enjoying it while it lasts and just enduring the slight inconveniences. You will absolutely wish you had this "problem" in the future.
Laughing reading this post since as an older guy I wish I could just get hard easily. But have been times I have Cialis in my system and get hard biking at the gym and as good as it feels hope no one notices. We are never satisfied.
 
The one advantage of having a small dick.

I'm constantly getting hard, just looking at my wife, even in a baggy sweatshirt... knowing what she looks under there... makes me get hard.

And it's not just seeing her, I'm hard right now just thinking about her to type this. If I get a text from her, randomly think about her during the day... it happens all the frigging time.

But as I said, with a small dick it's really not noticable.
Exactly.
 
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Enjoy your cock while you're young and virile! There were days I came five or six times. Maybe more. I never tried to find out how many times I could shoot in a day. I thought about it but never made time to try.
 
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It is too easy for me to get hard, even with just a thought. It is especially harder because my erection is slanted straight and not close to my body (if that makes sense). So when I get hard, it is very noticeable.

A solution I have is to masturbate in the morning before I go out because if I don’t, I get anxious and would fear for it all day.

What other solutions can you offer so I can lessen getting erections in the middle of the day?
my guess is you are fairly young. my advice is, as others have, enjoy it! it will subside soon enough.
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Young guy here, too. I don't mind the random boners at all. I enjoy it happening and embrace them.

Now it's obvious when I get a hardon, so the slight adjustment or standing a certain way helps make it less noticeable. But you gotta do what you gotta do, so if you need to crank one out in a public stall, go for it and then go right back to work.

I knew a guy who used to wake up earlier than he needed to so he could have a nice half hour jerk session. I wouldn't say do that, but you can master the quick cum jerk and so not need a lot of time to cum while in a public bathroom. Then enjoy the edging at home.
 
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I used to think Iike you do. I wondered if I would always have this "problem." The answer is "no."
This "problem" lasted a long time. I don't remember when it started to wane.
But now I no longer get those "problem" erections. I can only fondly think back on those wonderful years. So enjoy them while you can. Believe me, you will miss them later in life.
 
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It is too easy for me to get hard, even with just a thought. It is especially harder because my erection is slanted straight and not close to my body (if that makes sense). So when I get hard, it is very noticeable.

A solution I have is to masturbate in the morning before I go out because if I don’t, I get anxious and would fear for it all day.

What other solutions can you offer so I can lessen getting erections in the middle of the day?
ey dude, dont knock it, getting a stiffy in the middle of the day should be thought of as a bonus
 
I appreciate all the insight in this thread. I'm approaching my 30s and I still get aroused so easily! Seeing a big bulge at a gym or thinking a naughty thouught can instantly turn me on and I often get annoyed with myself for being so easily aroused. So thanks for all of the new perspectives -- I'll do better to enjoy it while I still can.