Getting Hard Too Quick

[tms88]

Sometimes I watch porn and after 5-10 minutes of foreplay where they've been kissing, undressing and groping they are still completely soft. And then I think to myself: HOW!? I would be so hard and dripping precum at that point.

I get aroused really easily and get hard very quick. Sometimes I just have to see or think about someone attractive and it gets the blood flowing. I am 31 now and I have had this ever since I can remember. I think it's just me being a 'horny person' who has a lot of fantasy so it's easy to let my thoughts get carried away.

I am obviously not hard all the time, I am not walking around with a boner constantly, but there's definetely moments where I wish I could control it better and be not so turned on quickly.

Anyone else who can relate to this? Wonder if you guys have tips or ideas to better control this.
And don't say 'just masturbate before' because I do that daily and it still happens even after i've just nutted. Is there something like a 'reverse viagra' or something?

Also, please keep it nice guys..

 

[BoyBot-]

Well... dunno what to say actually but I guess that’s just the way your body works.
When it happens, did it last a long time or just a bit ?

 

[joshuaamitai]

its porn , i get aroused by everything , bone hard ....
thk GD
porn is filmed in sequences, it depends on actors ..
but i too hate it when actors r still soft ...
just imagine being a porn stud , working a few days to make one film and being aroused all the time

 

[tms88]

Well... dunno what to say actually but I guess that’s just the way your body works.
When it happens, did it last a long time or just a bit ?

Yeah I guess so. It's not really a problem, but sometimes I just wish I was more chill haha.

its porn , i get aroused by everything , bone hard ....
thk GD
porn is filmed in sequences, it depends on actors ..
but i too hate it when actors r still soft ...
just imagine being a porn stud , working a few days to make one film and being aroused all the time

Yeah that is true! I know I shouldn't take porn to compare myself to.
But I was curious about how others think about this and wether they have the same 'problem'.

 

[uncutnhard]

Well consider yourself very fortunate to be that aroused. Many do need physical stimulation. In porn I always took it that many are just uneasy with all the cameras, lights and people surrounding them which may lead to them not being hard. Also they might not be necessarily turned on or attracted to the other actor or performer. Remember it's just a job to them. Not to mention In pretty sure that most are using Viagra which helps.

 

[Player_01]

Remember a lot of porn stars are more straight-leaning and not really into the person they are mashing their body against
I've seen some porn with actual gay guys where they do get hard pretty quick.

I get hard pretty fast myself. LOL

 

[Mixedboy292]

You have to keep in mind that porn is manufactured sex, a business, a way for actors to earn money and pay their bills. It’s hours of having to stay hard, lots of viagra, camera crew, the pressure and expectation of having to perform in that moment.

It’s a little worrying that you’re even drawing parallels to yourself vs what you see in porn.

 

[tms88]

I know, I know. Not just drawing parralels with porn.
But in general I feel like I just get boners for barely any reason and it makes me feel shit about myself.

 

[deleted1074483]

surely getting hard with ease in a sexy/horny situation is a good thing? I do, very easily - at home my bf just has to walk in and i'm semi, kiss me, i'm hard , kiss and hug and i'm rock hard, laying on the couch with him, rock hard the entire time. At the gym, if I do that leg raise exercise where you lay on your front to exercise the back of your legs, the motion makes me hard; watch a film with an attractive guy or any 'action' and i'm hard. you get the picture lol.

As for porn, its not real life, as others have pointed out, the guys could be more straight leaning, or its been a long day or they're just not that into it - the number of guys in porn fucking with a semi seems to be a lot

so nope, don't think you've anything to worry about at all mate, just enjoy and revel in the fact that you do get hard easily

 

[Mixedboy292]

I know, I know. Not just drawing parralels with porn.
But in general I feel like I just get boners for barely any reason and it makes me feel shit about myself.

It’s a great thing don’t feel shit about it

 

[Player_01]

I know, I know. Not just drawing parralels with porn.
But in general I feel like I just get boners for barely any reason and it makes me feel shit about myself.

You'll get to an age where it doesn't happen that fast. And you might miss the days where it did

 

[engineer805]

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[BBB2.5]

Well consider yourself very fortunate to be that aroused. Many do need physical stimulation. In porn I always took it that many are just uneasy with all the cameras, lights and people surrounding them which may lead to them not being hard. Also they might not be necessarily turned on or attracted to the other actor or performer. Remember it's just a job to them. Not to mention In pretty sure that most are using Viagra which helps.

I agree 100% with your reply.

 

[Beanie]

Sometimes I watch porn and after 5-10 minutes of foreplay where they've been kissing, undressing and groping they are still completely soft. And then I think to myself: HOW!? I would be so hard and dripping precum at that point.

I get aroused really easily and get hard very quick. Sometimes I just have to see or think about someone attractive and it gets the blood flowing. I am 31 now and I have had this ever since I can remember. I think it's just me being a 'horny person' who has a lot of fantasy so it's easy to let my thoughts get carried away.

I am obviously not hard all the time, I am not walking around with a boner constantly, but there's definetely moments where I wish I could control it better and be not so turned on quickly.

Anyone else who can relate to this? Wonder if you guys have tips or ideas to better control this.
And don't say 'just masturbate before' because I do that daily and it still happens even after i've just nutted. Is there something like a 'reverse viagra' or something?

Also, please keep it nice guys..

My boyfriend and I were together for about 5 years before he saw my dick soft, it hardens at the drop of a hat.