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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by whatsup123456, Jul 11, 2010.
gonna top for the first time, any advice?
don't fall off? sorry I have no experience...
Be patient, keep communication constantly open, explore but don't annihilate his limits, keep the passion building as you go, take your time (and don't be afraid of breaks), up and down is normal.
Vary your strokes and rhythm, keep enough lube ready and down be afraid to reapply as often as required, build the intensity, plateau, then build again.
Most important: keep your eyes open and gazing into his as much as is possible.
Haven't had a good experience topping so prefer to just suck and be sucked, play, and jack each other off.
Oh yeah! Man he's totally right about that. There is nothing hotter than being fucked and looking up to see the intense look in your partner's eyes!
It's one of my patented moves
I'm also quite insistent that he keeps his eyes open as well: the intensity of the connection is enormous.
Communicate and lubricate.
I'm primarily a top. A skilled one with a lot of experience and my best advice for a great fuck is to make sure that you are looking out for his pleasure as much as your own. The old "i got a big dick and just wanna bust my nut in his ass" is lame.
One of my patented moves is going in semi hard, resting once you're inside and then growing bigger and harder and beginning the fuck s-l-o-w-l-y at first. Along with the eye contact, I find deep kissing and a slow tongue up & down the neck helps the bottom to feel relaxed, turned on and wetter.
I'd also throw in some deep and serious rimming in between the strokes but that's only for advanced pupils.
Sounds like great advice now all I need is a bottom to help me practice.
Be gentle until it's in and comfortable. There's nothing worse than a guy thinking that just because you're into anal you can take sudden hard thrusting without a warm up (although some can of course).
well how'd it go?
There is no such thing as too much lube. you dont mention whether your partner is new to anal or not, but if so, then patience is really important, as is stretching. Once you start penetration, and I always think its easiest to start with the partner on top, lowering themself. That way they can control the rate of entry. the more relaxed the bottom is the easier it is. It helps if they push out with the sphincter as you are entering.
First step is to get the head in. Once that pops through, stop and wait for the partner to get used to the sphicter being stretched. Then slowly sart the penetration. Once youre all in, then stop again and let the partner adjust. Only then start with slow tiny strokes, start building to longer strokes. communication is really important. Find out what the partnner is feeling, after a while, he should lossen enough to feel the pleasure, and when he does, its just like vaginal fucking. vary your speed and tempo. your positions. Im big on the eye contact too, its really hot to watch your p's face. you dont say if your doing a guy or girl, but either way, play with their pussy / or dick while your fucking. Remember, a lot of guys dont get hard when they bottom, but that doesnt mean that dont enjoy the shit out of it.
Anyway, good luck.
You cant overdo lube