You gentlemen are better than I. I can edge, get close but not quite get off, and then, after that peak, go for a while. But then, the orgasm I get, I have to work for. Its usually kegel/prostate driven and creates a full body 'shudder'. After that I'm done for a while. If you want to work me up again, please feel free. But several women her have said they like a long love making session, but only 10 to 15 minutes of 'industrial' thrusting.