Had my first anal today and it hurts

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I just did my first anal sex today being a bottom, and it hurted a lot.
I know it's normal to hurt, but want to know if it's okay to having the feeling of 'almost shitting' (ik it's gross) or something and if I can do something to make it more comfortable.

 

[beginner63]

Did you practice with toys before your first time? Did you use lots of lube?

 

[goldscorpguy]

It's not unusual to feel a little pain for a few seconds until your sphincter relaxes, but the pain should not be ongoing. If it is then stop for a while and try again.

Like @beginner63 says, try toys beforehand. I always use a butt plug just before sex if I can, it helps to relax me, and use more lube than you think, both on him and in you.

On the other matter you mention, did you douche well before starting?