Let's share good hand job techniques. I'll start with 1. very slow with lots of lubricant: stroke very slowly from base to tip, but focusing on the head, using a lot of lubricant to allow this technique. works for uncut and cut guys.
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Have only used lube maybe a dozen times in 72 years. No need. Not uncut either, but enough skin that it works perfectly. I know others need (or simply like) the lube so I have to remember not to be turned off by it.
Would you be able to perform the above technique without lube? I think only if you stroked very lightly, I'm talking with a moderately firm grip. Try it, feels amazing, like edging the entire time.
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One handjob technique I know my hubby loves is when I firmly and tight hold my one hand at the base of his dick an gently stroke him with my other hand and let my saliva be the lubricant. I always start slow and then harder and harder.
sounds like a good technique, but are you gently stroking fast or slowly or a mix? Very softly brushing your fingers over the entire penis, but especially the head, can also be amazing, I remember one woman describing it as treating the cock like a big clit, lol. Actually, I think in any hand job a mix of techniques is good, that's why I started this thread. I think people forget too that for uncut guys, sliding the foreskin back and forth over the head feels amazing. You can do this fast or slow, and mix it with other techniques, for example, retract the foreskin and hold it back at the base of the penis with one hand while massaging the head with the other, then bring the foreskin back over the head a few times.
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Usually stroking him with a mix. Though I like to vary. As you say using a mix of techniques is great. And sometimes he guides me by telling if he wants harder or more slowly etc.
And its sometimes great to suprise him aswell
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I agree with you drambone, precum is the finest lube! Are you a member of the precum group here? https://www.lpsg.com/groups/precum-club.1234/group
I don't make any precum except for maybe the slightest drop when I'm close to orgasm, guess I should be glad I'm uncut as we don't really need lube since we have the foreskin to slide back and forth.
actually, I'm curious about hand jobs for cut guys, what feel great? attention on the lubed up head? stroking up and down the shaft? I think I tend to try to pull the skin up too far since that's what uncut guys can do, and maybe that feels uncomfortable?
love getting and giving handjobs. Like lots of lube, but prefer when there's plenty of pre-cum. I find it to be the best lube for me. Just work the shaft from base to tip, with ball play thrown in. Important to watch the guys expression at all time, read his eyes, breathing, facial expressions. Know when to let up and when to go for it. Have them begging you to let them cum
Too bad you're in the UK and I'm in Illinois. We could make it happen!!
Just a reminiscence here:
I think she’d been working her way into the technique over the time we’d been seeing one another. I was lying in bed on my back and she was on my left. Maybe she’d changed places because she knew I dressed on the left and my cock naturally lay that way.
I felt her gently gripping my cock in her hand. I turned to kiss her and she patted my chest and told me to just lie back and enjoy what she was going to do. I thought fuck it, OK. So I lay back.
She started by gripping my cock around the middle of its uncircumcised length. Then, she pulled the skin back by an inch or so so that the sensitive flesh of my final three or four inches was taut. She brought me to a full throbbing erection, I couldn’t see how because the bedsheets were keeping her expertise out of sight. Afterwards she told me she did it by sliding her fingertips with excruciating slowness up the taut sensitive length of my cock, over the ridge of my aching purple knob.
And all the time, her face had an expression of complete innocence and coyness. I could almost believe that she didn’t understand that what she was doing was driving me mad with sexual tension and pleasure. But she must have known. Because she was doing it.
She told me my cock was huge* and she loved the way it communicated with her. I think she was talking about the way it involuntarily throbbed and moved against her fingers, pressing itself against them, showing her where it wanted to be touched. She told me she loved the way it told her it was a living thing in her hands. she was so slow and gentle. She told me later she was using just three fingers but the sensations were like being in heaven. I could only lie with my head back, moaning in pleasure. The arousal of my cock was making it throb and move against her, creating an amazing positive feedback loop of pleasure. my cock throbbing itself into trouble.
She curled her fingers around my foreskin and began to wank me off in the traditional way, speeding up her rhythm. I came “like a fountain,” as she put it, over her breasts and stomach. I don’t think I’ll ever forget it.
I think, if she hadn’t increased the rhythm, and kept moving only her fingertips, after perhaps another fifteen minutes, I would have sprayed literally half a pint of sperm all over her. it would have been slower, but perhaps the added tension in my balls would have led to a more powerful orgasm. I hope one day, someone will try that out on me and I’ll find out one way or the other
*she has told me that a few times, but I always tell her that no, it’s totally average. Then she asks me what size cocks I am used to, and I have to admit I never paid too much attention to that when I’ve been in the locker room for swimming or kick boxing… I think that’s the key though: it all depends what you’re used to
As a final note, one thing this whole incident makes me realise is that if you’re a girl and you want to know a good way to give an incredible handjob, it’s pretty simple. Watch 95% of porn videos, look at how the women there give handjobs, And Then Do The Exact Opposite. Not fast: slow. Not hard: gentle. Do you like to be spat on? No, me either.
I think she’d been working her way into the technique over the time we’d been seeing one another. I was lying in bed on my back and she was on my left. Maybe she’d changed places because she knew I dressed on the left and my cock naturally lay that way.
I felt her gently gripping my cock in her hand. I turned to kiss her and she patted my chest and told me to just lie back and enjoy what she was going to do. I thought fuck it, OK. So I lay back.
She started by gripping my cock around the middle of its uncircumcised length. Then, she pulled the skin back by an inch or so so that the sensitive flesh of my final three or four inches was taut. She brought me to a full throbbing erection, I couldn’t see how because the bedsheets were keeping her expertise out of sight. Afterwards she told me she did it by sliding her fingertips with excruciating slowness up the taut sensitive length of my cock, over the ridge of my aching purple knob.
And all the time, her face had an expression of complete innocence and coyness. I could almost believe that she didn’t understand that what she was doing was driving me mad with sexual tension and pleasure. But she must have known. Because she was doing it.
She told me my cock was huge* and she loved the way it communicated with her. I think she was talking about the way it involuntarily throbbed and moved against her fingers, pressing itself against them, showing her where it wanted to be touched. She told me she loved the way it told her it was a living thing in her hands. she was so slow and gentle. She told me later she was using just three fingers but the sensations were like being in heaven. I could only lie with my head back, moaning in pleasure. The arousal of my cock was making it throb and move against her, creating an amazing positive feedback loop of pleasure. my cock throbbing itself into trouble.
She curled her fingers around my foreskin and began to wank me off in the traditional way, speeding up her rhythm. I came “like a fountain,” as she put it, over her breasts and stomach. I don’t think I’ll ever forget it.
I think, if she hadn’t increased the rhythm, and kept moving only her fingertips, after perhaps another fifteen minutes, I would have sprayed literally half a pint of sperm all over her. it would have been slower, but perhaps the added tension in my balls would have led to a more powerful orgasm. I hope one day, someone will try that out on me and I’ll find out one way or the other
*she has told me that a few times, but I always tell her that no, it’s totally average. Then she asks me what size cocks I am used to, and I have to admit I never paid too much attention to that when I’ve been in the locker room for swimming or kick boxing… I think that’s the key though: it all depends what you’re used to
As a final note, one thing this whole incident makes me realise is that if you’re a girl and you want to know a good way to give an incredible handjob, it’s pretty simple. Watch 95% of porn videos, look at how the women there give handjobs, And Then Do The Exact Opposite. Not fast: slow. Not hard: gentle. Do you like to be spat on? No, me either.
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My wife sees handjobs as a power trip. Which is okay with me. She likes to control me with it, she'll get me going then slow down. Get intense again and then relax me. Her hand covers just about a third of the length, so she'll spend most of her intense time all over the head. Then relax me by stroking the lower half.
When she really wants me to cum, she'll do like Latinabella does; one hand at the base and another doing the stroking. She'll let me cum, and for some reason count the cum shots. I think she uses it as a gauge of how good it was for me. After I've finished shooting, she'll usually go after the head one more time just to watch me squirm. It's a total control thing for her. She's 5'2" and I'm 6'3". Plus I'm the biggest she's had by a decent margin.
When she really wants me to cum, she'll do like Latinabella does; one hand at the base and another doing the stroking. She'll let me cum, and for some reason count the cum shots. I think she uses it as a gauge of how good it was for me. After I've finished shooting, she'll usually go after the head one more time just to watch me squirm. It's a total control thing for her. She's 5'2" and I'm 6'3". Plus I'm the biggest she's had by a decent margin.
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I had one girlfriend, years ago, who truly made giving a handjob an "art." They usually started long before my cock was out of my pants: often, for up to an hour before, whilst in public she would discretely run her fingers across the outline of my soft dick behind my pants, just enough to get me slightly hard, and then stop. She would repeat this several times throughout the day, driving me crazy with desire, before finally being at a time and place where she would no longer just tease me. In her purse, she always carried a small bottle of baby oil, which she always used when giving a handjob. When applying it, she wouldn't use so much to make my cock all sloppy, just enough to make it slick enough for her hands to slide over the skin on my shaft. Although her hands were too small to fully encircle my cock, she'd typically use one hand to go up and down the lower portion of my dick, making half-turns back and forth with each stroke, gripping it just tight enough to slightly pull the skin on my cock along with her hand, but not so tight as to truly squeeze it. This always felt amazing. But it was what she'd do her other hand that was truly incredible. That hand would just play with my cockhead, twirling and caressing it. Often, she would take her index finger and trace it up and down my frenulum, just taking her time and talking about how my cock turned her on. Other times she would grasp my shaft tightly with one hand and pull up on it, making my head swell even larger, then she'd run her well-oiled fingers around the now exaggerated rim of my glans; and suddenly she'd stop, and go back to the twisting/stroking she had been doing. This would usually go on over and over again for at least half and hour, until it was clear that I was going to cum. And then, unless she was still clothed, she'd start jerking me wildly and aim my cock right towards her face and let me spurt all over her face, hair, breasts, whatever--either that, or she'd literally impale herself on me and have me cum inside of her sopping wet pussy. When she'd do the latter, I would be so worked up that I'd just madly fuck her even though I'd already have just come.
Sex with that girl was always fantastic, and not just the handjobs. I stayed with her almost two years, but outside of the bedroom, our relationship was anything but healthy. It's amazing how great sex can blind you to the other aspects of a relationship.
Sex with that girl was always fantastic, and not just the handjobs. I stayed with her almost two years, but outside of the bedroom, our relationship was anything but healthy. It's amazing how great sex can blind you to the other aspects of a relationship.
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Damn, that's hot. And you're right, of course...communication is so important.
Gotta love a chick who travels with baby oil and uses it to jerk off her man.
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