Handless orgasm as a bottom

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There's this tiny Vietnamese boy (of legal age, don't worry guys:tongue: ) I've been fucking regularly for about a year now. He has the most beautifully firm little ass. He often comes 'spontaneously', i.e. without his or my touching his penis. He's usually on his back when it happens, either firmly planted on the bed by me or riding me in a more 'active' way. It's amazing to see -- when he comes this way, he always shoots a great distance and an impressive lot for such a little guy. If it takes a little longer, stimulating his nipples is bound to help.

I never asked him whether he comes as easily with other guys as well. I have no reason to think he doesn't. I think it's got to do with prostate stimulation indeed, so maybe length does actually matter here.
 

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donkeyboy9 said:
I am amazed, I thought making a guy cum while fucking him , without either of us using hands, was routine; it has always been mostly standard procedure with all the guys I have fucked. ...

Well, on the rare occasions when I have bottomed, I usually can't resisit playing with myself. So I don't know that I have evern been able to let the other guy bring this orgasm out of me.

for Curious Guy:
As for when I have topped, there was once when a guy rode me and came 3 times back to back in rapid succession. The third time was a handless blank. It was rather hot to watch.
 
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Just the thought of it makes me hard:) I've come a few times without handwork. It helps if you have a few days' load stored. For me it's been a combination of the massage of the prostate, and simultaneously really great stimulating of the sphincter, tons of nerves there! The best ever was with this guy I saw for a summer, his tool was about 6" max but shaped for fucking: upcurved, a narrow spear-tip and VERY wide at the base. So while he worked my prostate, he really worked the sphincter, too. The most memorable fucks happened with me on my back on the kitchen table,
relaxed, and at the right height for his liberal thrusting. Remembering that makes me just drip:redface: Another ex came once or twice, too, when I fucked him. It was
usually preceded with extensive foreplay, and a few days' abstinence.

So, for a fucker, my ideal guy is preferably nicely hung, but the best is girth at the base, and perhaps a slight upcurve.:smile:
 
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It has happened to me a few times. usually when I am on my back and the bf is really getting a good deep hard pace on his thrusts...the whole situation is very intense and I can feel it building and building and building and then WOW. :redface:
 
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Lex said:
for Curious Guy:
As for when I have topped, there was once when a guy rode me and came 3 times back to back in rapid succession. The third time was a handless blank. It was rather hot to watch.

Lex, I have no doubt it was hot to watch.....but must be even hotter to realize you were responsible for it! :wink: You're amazing, bud.
 

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CuriousGuy said:
Lex, I have no doubt it was hot to watch.....but must be even hotter to realize you were responsible for it! :wink: You're amazing, bud.

Just a Joe, dude. Really.

Making a guy cum is what turned me into a (tactile) cum pig in the first place. The thought that a guy, while on or under me, is having an orgasm (on me or himself) because of the pleasure I have been able to bring him--just blows my mind. And then when it lands on me--I tend to lose it totally (my load usually quickly follows).

I also felt the same about my experiences with women. Hearing a woman moan and watching her grab sheets and pillows and writhe as I make love to her--well, there is nothing better than that.

I get off on getting my partner off--which some people have told me, is the sign of a great lover, regardless of dick size. It has always been that way for me. Pleasing others pleases me!
 
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I've got to agree with a lot of the other comments on here, it's only ever happened to me when I was being doggied after about an hour or so of foreplay. Wierdly enough I found it less intense than many of my others, but this could be because I didn't really like him. :tongue: Or in fact anything him. It was all like "ho-hum"
 

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Yep - has happened to me quite a bit, but the guy needs to be about 8" or more, and the thicker the better. And the best handless (or just from being fucked) orgasm I get is like a whole body orgasm, where I don't necessarily shoot, but I get a total high (not quite as intense as when shooting) and it can last from a few minutes to over an hour, usually longer if I'm riding rather than just receiving. It really is the best feeling - ever :burnout:
 
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...as for tips for bottom guys - you really need to be 'in your body' and engaged with your partner (hence, I suspect, the correlation with foreplay), and really work the guy's cock with your ass muscles, all of them - you should be able to feel every part of his cock as he moves through you (foreskins are a real bonus for subtle sensation :rolleyes: ) and you should be able to run your grip along it rhythmically using eachof the sphincters, with special attention to the top one - this not only substantially increases the intensity of your experience of it, but totally gets him off too (with practice you should be able to just about milk his cock at full penetration without moving his cock) - and in this position it is not about the prostate, which is a different type of orgasm altogether (that can be a bit uncomfortable, and make you feel like you need to piss during or after) - but hey, it's all good! And as for the fine woman who likes to use a strap-on to get her hubby off - love your work! (and probably a thicker strap-on would do it, or slide a couple of fingers in as well...)
 

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Lex said:
I get off on getting my partner off--which some people have told me, is the sign of a great lover, regardless of dick size. It has always been that way for me. Pleasing others pleases me!

Lex, this is why you are, no doubt, a fabulous lover. Not all guys have this unselfish attitude. Pleasing my partner is also my ultimate goal. Nothing like the feeling that you have provided total pleasure to someone you care about.
 

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CuriousGuy said:
Lex, this is why you are, no doubt, a fabulous lover. Not all guys have this unselfish attitude. Pleasing my partner is also my ultimate goal. Nothing like the feeling that you have provided total pleasure to someone you care about.

I feel the same way. In fact, the only real reason I have sex with someone else, is because of the pleasure I get out of helping my partner have pleasure. If all I cared about was my own pleasure, I'd just stay alone and masturbate. I can get myself off better than anybody else can. Pleasing a partner is an ultimate pleasure that requires someone else, and can't be duplicated any other way.
 
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I come back from vacation and this is the first post I read! Something to look forward to...I suppose. *inscribes handless orgasm on to-do list*
 

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Ok I only read the first page and jumped to the last to see how it ended, so if this has been covered, I'm sorry. It happens to me when I'm on top sittin' on it. So it must be the angle. Now, telling a little story out of school, my dearly departed uncle used to have one every time. I remember hearing him scream from the other room when he was being plowed by his then current (1960's-'70's) trick. Things then were different in days gone by. My partner and I will be celebrating 22 years next month and he still can make me cum by just kissing me. And that boys, is the truth!
 
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This has happened to me three times in my life, and I'm a really frequent bottom. I've thought it happened when it hasn't, and each time it happened I didn't know what to think. The first time it happened I was at a bookstore and this guy was fucking me in the booth. His dick was every bit of nine inches, and average to fairly thick. The position i was in was standing, bent over. He was my height, and was in an angle downward. I'm certain he was cumming in me at the time, bareback. As a matter of fact, every single time this happened it was bareback. At first, I thought I was going to piss. Then the sensation of needing to piss in my abdomen became extremely intense. So intense that I started telling him he had to stop, but with him being so close to orgasm himself (or perhaps knowing more about what was happening than myself) he didn't stop. The next thing I knew I started saying, "Oh shit! I'm pissing!" Except then I started to throb instead of relaxing and I got a little frightened. That's when he got off, and I noticed I started pumping out come. Huge load! And, then he asked, "Did you piss?" But, I answered back, "No." Which caused him to look and he was like, "Oh." It was embarrassing, but totally worth it. The next time was pretty much the same, but the last guy to have been able to do it was in the stomach down, legs together position. He had an eight inch cock, and he was also thrusting downward. This time though, I cum super hard, and really enjoyed it. I almost did it with my ex, and the position was the same as the first, but there was very little jizz. I think the easiest way to do it is in doggy if the guys cock is straight or curved down. But, if the guy is greater than nine and curves up, then I'd imagine missionary would work best. I think angle and depth have a lot to do with it.
For those guys who aren't seven and plus, don't worry. There's another orgasm that bottoms have that doesn't require that much depth, but girth helps for this one. It's when a guy is fucking you really good, and you clench down with your sphincter muscles and feel like you're about to nut, but only a small amount of clear precum comes out, or you squirt a clear liquid that's nowhere near as thin as piss. They happen repeatedly during a sexual encounter. Also, I've done this every time I've had sex, with and without condoms.
I hope this helps, and doesn't turn all of you off to me... I love me some large penises, and yes that's plural for a reason.
 
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Over the years I have only had 4 guys who have cum without anyone touching their cock while being fucked. I remember them because I felt so good about being able to give them such a great feeling that they would cum spontaneously.
The first was many years ago and the guy was an ex and it happened the first time I stayed over with him. We had fucked before but this time he had just moved into his own apartment and we did not have to worry about interruptions and could take our time. After waking up we started kissing and lots of foreplay. After about 30 - 40 minutes he said he wanted me in him. He laid face down with his legs spread wide and I laid on top and started fucking him, alternating between slow and fast, deep and shallow. I kept kissing his neck and shoulders, nibbling his ears. This went on for about 30 minutes and all of a sudden he stared shaking and moaning. I thought something was wrong and stopped but he told me not to stop keep going then he started cumming. I still hadn't cum so kept going for about another 5 minutes and as I started cumming he came again. After we stayed in bed cuddling and kissing for about another hour. It was fantastic.
The next two guys it happened with were just randoms, One was doggy and the other was on his back.
The other is now a regular fuck buddy who I mentioned in the thread little dick bottoms. He loves being fucked and I have fucked him in all kinds of positions. The first time it happened I was on my back and he was riding me. He just exploded, covering me in cum. i even had it in my hair. Other times it is doggy and other times missionary. The best one recently , he was on his back across the bed and i was standing holding his legs. It must have been the angle giving me a good shot at his prostate because he came twice in about 5 minutes before I came.
I know I don't have a long or a fat cock but it must do the job.
 

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The BEST way to accomplish this, IMHO, is to lay the guy bottoming flat on his tummy, legs spread. Get into a nice "push up" position, and switch between deep firm hip rotations - king of a hard grinding all the while remainind in quite deep - and full out pounding. The latter needs to be steady and rythmic, not necessarily really fast, just deep and steady and as hard as you sense he can take.

From what I understand it happens when the prostate is massaged internally - since I believe it is towards the front of a man's body, laying him on his stomach and the positioning to the point where you're basicall plunging straight down into him hits it rythmically. The sensation of orgasm is quite long lasting ("it feels like I'm cumming, but I haven't yet") until, with the steady pace of thrusting, it will finally take him over the edge to one of those "I think I almost passed out" INTENSE orgasms.

Edited: to add that now I have a boner.

EXACTLY like this i did it to a 19yo guy on his stomach... legs wide spread and pelvis on a pillow (that got messed up by his cum later haha)... The description is 100% what i experienced with this young bottom.

It was incredible for me to feel how his hole massaged my hard dick when he started cumming and actually i didn't realize that he had started to cum but thought to myself that if he goes on LIKE THAT he will make ME cum haha...

As to the OP's question, i think size is not an issue here as the guy was taller/wider than me and i have just an average sized dick. Certainly i would accept that emotions and excitement about being fucked may overall help to reach such an orgasmic wonder hehehe...
 

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When I first started having sex with guys, I would only do oral, never fuck them. There was this hot guy that I would play around with. We always had fun. And he would always ask me to fuck him, but I always turned him down. Sadly he moved to NYC. A couple of years later he called. Said he was in town and wanted to get to gather with me. So I went to his hotel. Had a great time as always with him. Still didn't fuck him even though he really wanted me to.

After we both came, we layed there talking for about an hour about life and what he was up to. I finally told him I had to go. So I got dressed and just before going gave him a big kiss. But we just kept kissing. I got rock hard again and ended up throwing off my clothes and slamming him to the bed. I don't really know what made me do this, but I just was ready to try fucking for the first time. I held his hands above his head so he couldn't touch his dick and just started giving him my dick. All the sudden he starts shooting his cum. I had no idea that would happen just from fucking. And it was so hot. It was like every time I shoved my dick deep in his ass, more cum would come out. Big shots all over his face and chest. What an introduction to fucking. Now I wanted to fuck everyone. lol. Since this was my first time fucking, I kinda thought that was just something that happened. So the next time I fucked, you can imagine how disappointed I was when the guy didn't shoot hands free.

Over the years I have had plenty of guys come hands free. And when that happens, it makes me feel that I did my job as a good top. I don't know what I do differently when it does happen. I think the guy just has to really be into it. I do really remember fucking this 18 year old who hadn't fucked much before. He was one of the first guys that I had gotten past that second spincter. When I did, he started shooting without touching his dick. But that is a different story.