Handsome or hung?

[fournineteenfiftynine]

Obviously both would be nice. But what do you think is the bigger advantage with online dating/hook up sites? How about just in general? Would you rather be one or the other? How important is either in your decisions about dating, hooking up, or relationships?

I'm kind of on the fence. To me I think I would err on the side of a handsome guy if he were at least modestly endowed (5-6 inches). But a big dick sure is a big turn on as well. In fact I stuck with a guy for too long that was both handsome and hung but his personality was toxic.

 

[961141]

I would say more handsome than hung I could never be with someone who I thought wasn't attractive, I could however be with someone with an average penis! Obviously the mix of both would be perfect!

 

[colm84]

Handsome!

 

[marlins]

BOTH - but being an honest, sincere man is the BEST.

 

[tallhunkinct]

Looks trumps size every time in my book. Too many well hung guys think that's all you have to bring to the party. Great physique, personality and looks are all bigger turn ones.

 

[Brandon1]

Being honest: It's all up to the personal preference of each person. With that being said: I would definitely wanna be with the handsome guy. Humans are the only species on the planet that judge the size of another's genitals when considering having sex with them. However, nearly every species on the planet usually pursues the more attractive male BC they want their offspring to be attractive so that their genetic bloodline is almost certainly guaranteed to prosper into the future. Where the judging of the size of another's genitals is a purely human thing to do, it is also about instant gratification. The larger someone likes another's genitals is BC we, as humans, associate that with the "feel good" sensation, which isn't always 100% true. Not to blow my own horn here-but I'm gonna blow it anyway-I'd date the myself BC I'm a pretty decent looking person and I know I have a pretty decent personality and that counts far above and beyond what they may possess in their pants.

 

[Brandon1]

Besides if y'all like handsome, check out my pics. I consider myself a ruggedly handsome guy, lol.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

Besides if y'all like handsome, check out my pics. I consider myself a ruggedly handsome guy, lol.

Yes that's a good description. Look like you could be the new sheriff in town!

 

[Brandon1]

Yes that's a good description. Look like you could be the new sheriff in town!

Nah, I'm too modest for all of that, lol. I just know what I've been told and know how to use what I've got. That's all, lol.

 

[Fanon]

What the heck, I'm gonna sound superficial either way. If I just had to choose one or the other, I would choose looks over a big dick hands down. Big dicks are nice, but if I'm not attracted to a guy I'm just not attracted to him...and a double-digit penis isn't going to change that.

 

[Exbiker]

Hmm. There are other things.

I think a good body is important, for dating. And it has to be even better if you happen to be short in height.

Of the two mentioned, I'd marginally prefer to be hung. But I'm probably OK in both respects. I'm neither stunningly handsome or very well hung, but I'm probably significantly over average in both.

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But I think being intelligent, kind, caring, articulate, sensitive, creative, balanced are probably much more important once you get beyond stage 1....

 

[henry777]

Handsome definitely.

 

[malakos]

I haven't a clue how the hookup scene works. As for my experiences with dating, being mostly a bottom, I think being above average in the looks department with an average sized penis is any easy choice. I would say the same about my hypothetical date though. Average sized ones work quite well for me, whereas I'm probably a bit more picky about looks.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

I haven't a clue how the hookup scene works. As for my experiences with dating, being mostly a bottom, I think being above average in the looks department with an average sized penis is any easy choice. I would say the same about my hypothetical date though. Average sized ones work quite well for me, whereas I'm probably a bit more picky about looks.

handsome and sane/kind has leapt to the top for me

 

[LeftCoast]

A man doesn't have to be handsome to be sexy. Well hung and sexy are high on my list. I wouldn't necessarily want a guy that everyone else is hitting on.

 

[Dutchstud]

Handsome and symapthic.

 

[Dutchstud]

Better said: an ugly dude with a big dick does not make him more attractive for me. A handsome and sumpathic dude with an average or small dick, not important because I think he is sexy and makes me horny. Hehehe...

 

[wappingite]

I'm of two minds here. It depends if we're talking about a guy who is a potential partner versus one who is simply a hook up. For a partner, I'm going to consider many more variables. Handsome is also subjective. There are men who exude sexiness who are classically handsome as well as rugged or even what I call 'ugly hot'. In terms of hung, I'm not going to lie. If I'm on all fours with a hook up and taking a huge cock deep from behind, does it really matter much what he looks like? Everyone fills a niche so to speak and has value.

 

[phillo12345]

Obviously both would be nice. But what do you think is the bigger advantage with online dating/hook up sites? How about just in general? Would you rather be one or the other? How important is either in your decisions about dating, hooking up, or relationships?

I'm kind of on the fence. To me I think I would err on the side of a handsome guy if he were at least modestly endowed (5-6 inches). But a big dick sure is a big turn on as well. In fact I stuck with a guy for too long that was both handsome and hung but his personality was toxic.

I have a big dick and I'm traditionally handsome and IMO, the face is great for apps but the dick/face combo is popular

 

[Brandon1]

handsome and sane/kind has leapt to the top for me

Handsome AND sane? Lol. Sounds as though you've had your share of the crazies, lol.