Small dick acceptance through exposure "therapy"?

[ConcealedCatalyst]

Is there a term for "helping" someone with a small dick accept their smallness by having them spend time naked with a hung guy?

It usually involves 3 people:
- the hung guy
- the small guy
- and the "mediator" (doctor, therapist, etc)

I think a hot scenario would be if one of the time spent involves the small guy being told to "engage" with the hung guy's penis (which would lead to blowjobs or straight up anal sex)

 

[mikeymike]

This sounds more like "teaching a small dicked guy his place in the hierarchy by having him service a hung guy"

Not that I'm against that.

 

[hourhamster04]

Yh I think itd work better having him naked with other small guys so he can see that lots of guys are small and theres nothing wrong with that

 

[Stephenmass]

While I am not naive enough to know that for some a hierarchy exists, for some I don't think it matters. Does he have a great smile? Killer eyes? Is he funny and makes me laugh with just his normal sense of humor? Etc. For me it's always been how he carries himself and if he is fun to be around. If a new person approached me and let's say his voice caught me off guard (deep and sexy) might keep me interested as well. I like to have fun in bed with someone who enjoys being with me and vice versa. Dicks obviously come in many shapes and sizes and it's not a lottery (at least to me) like I've hit the big one. That big one might have no other qualities that attract me before I even know he's big downstairs. My brain has already ruled him out. I don't think about size much, but that's not to say that I don't know when it's a big dick. But if they are on the smaller side doesn't bother me in any way either. A guy that captures my interest someplace has already captured my interest. I've never really thought about it much. If he's hot with clothes on and has a masculine way about him and is fun to be around before sex will carry on in the bedroom as well if it gets there.

 

[HungCuriousTxUSA]

Is there a term for "helping" someone with a small dick accept their smallness by having them spend time naked with a hung guy?

It usually involves 3 people:
- the hung guy
- the small guy
- and the "mediator" (doctor, therapist, etc)

I think a hot scenario would be if one of the time spent involves the small guy being told to "engage" with the hung guy's penis (which would lead to blowjobs or straight up anal sex)

Sounds exactly like my ex gf turned hotwife

 

[cobra8]

How about some positive body objectification? Make him affirm that his little clit/ dick is beautiful.

 

[Gabethebottom]

I know everybody should love themselves but in reality I think they must also prepare to bottom most bottoms specially on grindr and sniffies only care about inches and will laugh when offered a very small tool, it has happened to me and I tried to accommodate the guy but he wasn't really penetrarting me sooo I give him a blowjob a we jacked of to some porn.
My point is that for some cases expecting to top could worse for their self-esteem

While I am not naive enough to know that for some a hierarchy exists, for some I don't think it matters. Does he have a great smile? Killer eyes? Is he funny and makes me laugh with just his normal sense of humor? Etc. For me it's always been how he carries himself and if he is fun to be around. If a new person approached me and let's say his voice caught me off guard (deep and sexy) might keep me interested as well. I like to have fun in bed with someone who enjoys being with me and vice versa. Dicks obviously come in many shapes and sizes and it's not a lottery (at least to me) like I've hit the big one. That big one might have no other qualities that attract me before I even know he's big downstairs. My brain has already ruled him out. I don't think about size much, but that's not to say that I don't know when it's a big dick. But if they are on the smaller side doesn't bother me in any way either. A guy that captures my interest someplace has already captured my interest. I've never really thought about it much. If he's hot with clothes on and has a masculine way about him and is fun to be around before sex will carry on in the bedroom as well if it gets there.

 

[Gabethebottom]

Sounds exactly like my ex gf turned hotwife

Could we have more to this story???

 

[Stephenmass]

I know everybody should love themselves but in reality I think they must also prepare to bottom most bottoms specially on grindr and sniffies only care about inches and will laugh when offered a very small tool, it has happened to me and I tried to accommodate the guy but he wasn't really penetrarting me sooo I give him a blowjob a we jacked of to some porn.
My point is that for some cases expecting to top could worse for their self-esteem

I don't understand why it matters so much? I know it's "out there" and don't deny it does exist a bit, but it's a pretty shallow way of looking at things. Perhaps if it's really small I guess he isn't made to top, but that doesn't relegate him to bottom unless he wants to bottom anyways. Besides the fact why should he limit himself? There are so many other things to do. I look at a guy that is enjoyable to be with even if it's out of bed. Just because he is smaller doesn't mean he can't share my bed if he wants.

 

[cobra8]

I don't understand why it matters so much? I know it's "out there" and don't deny it does exist a bit, but it's a pretty shallow way of looking at things. Perhaps if it's really small I guess he isn't made to top, but that doesn't relegate him to bottom unless he wants to bottom anyways. Besides the fact why should he limit himself? There are so many other things to do. I look at a guy that is enjoyable to be with even if it's out of bed. Just because he is smaller doesn't mean he can't share my bed if he wants.

I appreciate this perspective.

It’s fine to have kinks and fetishized comparisons. I see how it could even be fun to have a whole seen around comparing sizes and pretending that it’s a big deal, but please people, don’t actually buy into the idea that the shape of your dick really matters that much.

 

[Gabethebottom]

Have a sports team of tiny dicked guys and make them shower together after practice while exercising they get to know each other qualities and personalities then in the showers they can see there are more like them

And eventually play around do jokes (when they get used to each other's sizes

 

[Stephenmass]

I think with the influx of porn and say sites like this one (no shade at LPSG) can have an opposite effect on a guy who feels he doesn't measure up. The "stars" of a site like this one for instance glorify "the big one" and porn certainly perpetuates a lot of big ones, etc. Societal norms with studies show the average dick is 5 or so inches (some say 5 1/2) is an average dick. It's calculated under a bell curve, some will be under the 5 and some will be over the 5. They take the average and it seems to be 5. You still don't see that in porn or sites like these (except in limited threads) etc. It's no wonder some guys feel inadequate.

 

[chrisrobin]

While I am not naive enough to know that for some a hierarchy exists, for some I don't think it matters. Does he have a great smile? Killer eyes? Is he funny and makes me laugh with just his normal sense of humor? Etc. For me it's always been how he carries himself and if he is fun to be around. If a new person approached me and let's say his voice caught me off guard (deep and sexy) might keep me interested as well. I like to have fun in bed with someone who enjoys being with me and vice versa. Dicks obviously come in many shapes and sizes and it's not a lottery (at least to me) like I've hit the big one. That big one might have no other qualities that attract me before I even know he's big downstairs. My brain has already ruled him out. I don't think about size much, but that's not to say that I don't know when it's a big dick. But if they are on the smaller side doesn't bother me in any way either. A guy that captures my interest someplace has already captured my interest. I've never really thought about it much. If he's hot with clothes on and has a masculine way about him and is fun to be around before sex will carry on in the bedroom as well if it gets there.

Well said.
When I chat up a guy, or get chatted up, his cock size isn't the thing I'm thinking about. I'm attracted to him because he attracts me, his smile, his eyes and even the way he stands. Its the animal magnetism at work.
So when it's "discovery" it really doesn't matter how big he is, olr hopw small, or if he's a top and only a top. By then its ther guy I'm making out with n iot just his penis!

 

[BigOrSmall69]

I enjoy decent sized cocks but I will never turn a cock down because of size .. I can suck on a 2 to 3 inch and swallow just as well as a bigger one ..

I don’t think I’m better because I am bigger than a guy with smaller one .. we all deserve to be pleasured