Have you ever been with a married man?

[JCEO]

Maybe it’s the area I live in, but does it seem like there's a whole lot of married guys who secretly fool around with the same sex?
I just turned down a buddy of mine who wanted to fuck mainly because I don't find him physically attractive lol, but he's like the 3rd married guy I curved this summer! I'm bi and when I was engaged to a woman I was shocked by the amount of guys already married who tried to approach me for sex. I was curious if this is common for MSM.
To the gay men who have been with married men before:
1) who made the first move?
2) was the sex good?
3) were you the top or bottom?
4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor?

 

[theplayerking]

I’ve hooked up with lots of married men, but it was almost always through a website or an app. Their marital status never really came up until after we had done the deed.

 

[CraigS41]

I had a regular FB in Idaho who was married, but his wife had no interest in sex. He would let himself into my place early in the morning a few times a week, crawl into bed with me and cuddle till I woke up. He was a master at sucking dick. Knew how to make it feel amazing, yet not make me cum till he wanted me to. He had a great body, and almost an 8x6 dick, and BIG low hanging balls. I loved how he fucked me, then he would sit on my dick and then suck me off after. He called it his vitamin C in both ends. He always delivered a HUGE load of cum balls deep inside my tight ass too We met like that for 7 years.

 

[dreambridger]

Yes I've been with a handful of closeted married men that I met through apps, it's not uncommon and each one seemed really attracted to me. Strangely enough I'd say I've had more sexual luck with closeted married men than I have with the openly gay.

 

[Brodie888]

Anyone who has had a decent amount of sex will have at some point had sex with a married person.

I don't understand why people make a big deal about whether someone is married or not. Cheating is cheating.

Most cheaters don't admit to being one and if they do, it's usually after the deed is done.

I think the only thing that's changed is that it's easier to find gay sex than it used to be.

 

[HollyBurton10]

Sex with married men is the best feeling in the world. A high like other drug can provide especially when you’re doing it in their marital bed or with the spouse nearby. Whew!

 

[deleted1074483]

i have done in the past when i was in my 20s/30s and those with girlfriends too, when i've been single as i've got older with apps like grindr etc there's a LOT of married guys looking for hook ups it seems, many of whom have hidden that they're gay and don't want to leave families but do want an outlook.

These days i won't meet with married guys as i don't want the stress of getting pulled into other people's relationships.

in terms of the questions

1) who made the first move?
2) was the sex good?
3) were you the top or bottom?

they always did
depended on the person, how open they were, what experience they had, how nervous they were - same as meeting anyone for sex
i only top - when they approached they knew that as i had always put on any ad/profile that i was top and they were all very happy to bottom

 

[indyfrat79]

Been with more married men than I could count, mainly in the Craigslist era which overlapped with my mid 20s to mid 30s. Some incredibly hot encounters.

1) who made the first move? - Most often I'd put a post on CL and they would respond to my ad
2) was the sex good? - 1 or 2 times it was blah as the guys too nervous to enjoy. But for the most part the sex was INSANELY hot. A lot of these guys are gay and have lived in the closet their entire life. Hooking up with a guy isn't just a fantasy, it was an essential need for them... the forbidden fruit. The passion was turned up accordingly.
3) were you the top or bottom? Almost always the top. My experience was that the guys usually wanted to be fucked as that was something their wives couldn't do. Almost always they wanted a bareback fuck and to be bred.
4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor? Don't know and don't care. Although one time I was just about to penetrate a beautiful 30s biracial dad (still wearing his wedding ring) and his wife called him. It was awkward and yet hot to hear him to talk to his wife as I gently rubbed his hairy belly.

 

[deleted1152486]

Maybe it’s the area I live in, but does it seem like there's a whole lot of married guys who secretly fool around with the same sex?
I just turned down a buddy of mine who wanted to fuck mainly because I don't find him physically attractive lol, but he's like the 3rd married guy I curved this summer! I'm bi and when I was engaged to a woman I was shocked by the amount of guys already married who tried to approach me for sex. I was curious if this is common for MSM.
To the gay men who have been with married men before:
1) who made the first move?
2) was the sex good?
3) were you the top or bottom?
4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor?

I was with one several years ago. The marriage went sour and they didn't yet divorce. He explored his bi side and enjoyed the company of men more, since no one understands a man more than another man. We both flip-fucked, and the sex was good. And we met on an app. I would love this again.

 

[deleted3995701]

I spent years going after attached and married men when I was 18 on to 30 ish.

1) who made the first move? Generally I did, sometimes a regular would drop me a note. The hottest times were primal or clandestine and it just happens when we saw each other.

2) was the sex good? Fucking rights it was good. Married guys, attached guys, guys with things to lose but have a need so deep they're willing to risk everything for man to man contact. That's hot and I can appreciate their dilemmas. To be married and want to have sex with me, that's a fucking honor. He's willing to risk his entire life to touch me. I was down with it.

3) were you the top or bottom? I'm an aggressive bottom and I dislike giving up control. There was one dude that taught me if I let him have the wheel, the ride would be different. So I did and sweet Jesus! He fucked my brains into subspace and back. I was a drooling idiot and loving every second of it.

4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor? I did for the longest time. No one enjoys being cheated on. Dude or Woman, if your partner is emotionally invested in your relationship and they catch you kickin' stones with someone else, they're gonna be hurt. I got over that because it's not my circus and not my monkies.

I have zero issues ethically about sleeping with a married or attached guy. My best sex ever was married dudes. I'm looking for a new direction for my life, maybe a buddy or something different than what I know and I don't think that includes married guys right now.

If I'm being completely honest and real about this topic, if a few specific married guys that I already know messaged me right now and said they'll be here in an hour, I'd fuck them in a heart beat. I'd lube up my ass, make sure I have a stretch and see if they can still make my head spin.

I know they have wives, it's not something I'm looking for but fucking hell if I'm going to pass up good sex anymore.

 

[deleted16048621]

Just once, and I didn’t know he was married until after we’d finished. He topped. The sex was fine, I’ve had much better. And for me personally, the wife was a factor. Even though I had no way of knowing about her, after finding out I felt completely awful. Poor woman gave birth to his kid and was cheated on - how could I not feel empathy for her?

 

[MuscledHorse]

Maybe it’s the area I live in, but does it seem like there's a whole lot of married guys who secretly fool around with the same sex?
I just turned down a buddy of mine who wanted to fuck mainly because I don't find him physically attractive lol, but he's like the 3rd married guy I curved this summer! I'm bi and when I was engaged to a woman I was shocked by the amount of guys already married who tried to approach me for sex. I was curious if this is common for MSM.
To the gay men who have been with married men before:
1) who made the first move?
2) was the sex good?
3) were you the top or bottom?
4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor?

1) In the case of a social app like Grindr, the married guy usually did. In the more frequent case of gym saunas/steam rooms, this is up for debate. I stay naked or as close to naked as possible in the men's locker room areas so I'm pretty much already advertising I am looking. From there they start the process by glances or conversation. The same holds true for men's restrooms where I would stand so that my thick member was visible, more or less inciting guys to look and go from there. Then there are those married guys I pleasured in a manner the American SESTA-FOSTA law no longer allows us to acknowledge we did, or that such people actually willingly exist, lest the website falsely get in trouble (thanks for that Kamala Harris), so I cannot fully address my experiences by that avenue.
2) the sex was enjoyable. If it's not you're doing it wrong. For many, I was a sexual outlet for their pent up and unmet sexual needs. For others, I was a safe space to explore their sexuality as a male. IN several cases, the wives knew and were very supportive as it kept them away from other women while ensuring they didn't have to have sex as often as the guy wanted.
3) I pack a thick cock that is too thick for most guys to take. Fortunately, I am a massive power bottom and so 95% of the time, I was the bottom.
4) no guilt here. The whole idea of sex being the defining factor of a relationship, treating it as a synonym for Love when it occurs under certain special circumstances (otherwise the same act is dirty and sinful), and violating the sexual monogamy clause is "cheating" are all the result of a false religious construct that has no rational basis, and, really, no scientific support.

 

[LongPenisSmallGirth]

Many times. Some of them wearing their wedding rings.

 

[ArabicBottom]

Living in the Middle East, a lot of closeted married men here. I’ve been with so many of them I’ve lost count. Society here kinda forces you to get married and have children, so most gay men just do that and still fuck men on the side

 

[AlextheRedhead]

Lots at an adult theater. Many admitted that they were married to a women and still love dick.

 

[rm1128]

Been with more married men than I could count, mainly in the Craigslist era which overlapped with my mid 20s to mid 30s. Some incredibly hot encounters.

1) who made the first move? - Most often I'd put a post on CL and they would respond to my ad
2) was the sex good? - 1 or 2 times it was blah as the guys too nervous to enjoy. But for the most part the sex was INSANELY hot. A lot of these guys are gay and have lived in the closet their entire life. Hooking up with a guy isn't just a fantasy, it was an essential need for them... the forbidden fruit. The passion was turned up accordingly.
3) were you the top or bottom? Almost always the top. My experience was that the guys usually wanted to be fucked as that was something their wives couldn't do. Almost always they wanted a bareback fuck and to be bred.
4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor? Don't know and don't care. Although one time I was just about to penetrate a beautiful 30s biracial dad (still wearing his wedding ring) and his wife called him. It was awkward and yet hot to hear him to talk to his wife as I gently rubbed his hairy belly.

this is verrry similar to my experience. almost exactly. except in retrospect I kind of crossed some boundaries. mainly hooking up at his place. after that time, I made sure to host. I'm not trying to see his family pictures around or have the wife walk in on us .

 

[TBS0392]

I've got a married bi buddy,popped his anal with a guy cherry. Hes got a pretty decent 8 inches and knows how to use it as he always tops me. Hes begging to go bare with me next time.

 

[chrisrobin]

Maybe it’s the area I live in, but does it seem like there's a whole lot of married guys who secretly fool around with the same sex?
I just turned down a buddy of mine who wanted to fuck mainly because I don't find him physically attractive lol, but he's like the 3rd married guy I curved this summer! I'm bi and when I was engaged to a woman I was shocked by the amount of guys already married who tried to approach me for sex. I was curious if this is common for MSM.
To the gay men who have been with married men before:
1) who made the first move?
2) was the sex good?
3) were you the top or bottom?
4) did you know and or felt guilty about the wife/girlfriend or was she a non factor?

There area whole load of guys who enjoy a bit on the side and I've had a number of married guys going the whole hog. If I've noted a ring and the guy is interested he'll make the first move and yes, some of the sex has been amazing because they lose all inhibitions and get a bit wild, so, top or bottom - its been a mixture of both as we usually find out during the pre romps.
I've never felt guilty about them being married, their choice and for them they see it as a bit of extra fun. Then here are the married guys I see who just want to chat, get a blow job - some little more - on a regular basis, these guys happy to shoot a load knowing its a no-strings arrangement.

 

[herbho]

Whenever I go to the baths during the day, the place is filled with men who have wedding rings on. They mostly go to get sucked off, something that their wives just won't do or do badly. Most are just interested in getting blown, so when I get one with a ring, I think about the fact that he is experiencing something that his wife can't give him and make sure it is a special occasion for him. I suck vigorously and use my tongue a lot, which the wife probably doesn't do. I make sure I tell him how big and hard he is and how much I love sucking his dick. That seems to turn them on more. I also pay attention to the balls and even the taint. When the job is done, I can be satisfied that I gave the guy a moment of pleasure.

 

[GayLadsUK]

I specialise in orally servicing local guys at my discreet private glory hole. I’d say nearly 90% of them are married or have girlfriends, and most identify as straight. They come to me for awesome head, as most women refuse to suck or just don’t suck well. Most have been regularly visiting me for years.
I genuinely feel they go back to their partners as better husbands or boyfriends after I have expertly despunked them.
Check out my videos for some clips of the married guys I blow.