Has anyone had the opportunity to attend Hedonism in Jamaica for vacation. What was it like? Age groups, types of action , nudity, sex. Did you and your partner enjoy it. Really want to talk the wife into going.
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My late wife and I went there five consecutive years in the early 2000s. We had a great time each time. We went primarily for the open nudity but finally succumbed to others watching us have sex and swapping with other couples. Some of the poolside games were quite fun as well.
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I went a couple years ago with my husband and some friends. It was not oppressive which was surprising and fantastic. I’m not in any great shape and the plethora of young hung beauty was a little intimidating at first but after seeing 70 year old Alice with her tits hanging like eggs nailed to a wall I took off my shorts and truly enjoyed the freedom. I did get some lovely black dick and also got propositioned by a straight couple which was hilarious. Definitely want to go again especially if they do something that is geared toward men who are into men
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Oh and there was plenty of sex happening mostly straight- we watched two hot guys eat this girl out until she squirted all over the place and within seconds the staff had coned off the area for cleaning. They have an orgy room that you have to be invited into, generally by a woman. There was plenty of rub and tug and anon bj action in the bushes and i sucked this hottie off in the pool and then let him breed me in his room a couple times. Plus the food was amazing and the party favors were of the highest quality and readily available at the resort. Omg it really was fun
Was it scary to go there as a gay man with how homophobic Jamaica is known to be
Amazing and great that you got laid too, I would be scared I wouldn’t find any other gay or dl men there
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I was there with a group of 100+ doing a music festival- all straight except for one other couple and one pair of friends.
I can honestly say that we encountered zero problems! The staff was cool (some of them were clearly gay although they would never acknowledge or speak of it). As long as you’re on the property i can assure you that you will be completely safe and comfortable. I got some decent dick - in the grotto as well as in his room- from one of the two aforementioned friends. I actually met the minister of travel & leisure and spoke with him about this specific issue- he was very receptive and basically said that as more gays visit Jamaica as tourists and spend our good dollars that the backlash has been minimal in the major ports, and i didn’t have any issues when we went to the club in the closest town west mooreland - but my understanding from the staff and those I’ve spoken with since is that outside of hedo you’re going to need to be discreet to avoid drama. One friend had to change hotels because the cleaning staff noticed that the two men traveling together only slept in one bed and told the entire hotel staff which put them at risk of being assaulted or worse.
The beauty of hedo is that they simply don’t care- occasionally they even book events that are entirely lgbtq+ - I’ve even seen promos for events like this:
Bi-Week Total Takeover at Hedonism II, October 4-11, 2025
Some were exclusively gay as well.
I highly recommend it and I’m looking forward to my next trip there. If I could, I’d go a couple times a year. The food is excellent, the beach and the resort itself are fabulous, the “enhancements” are incredible (and dirt cheap) and the freedom is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before.
I’m available if you need a guide
Oh wow thanks for all this info! Would love to hear more. Didn’t know they had gay events too!I was there with a group of 100+ doing a music festival- all straight except for one other couple and one pair of friends.
I can honestly say that we encountered zero problems! The staff was cool (some of them were clearly gay although they would never acknowledge or speak of it). As long as you’re on the property i can assure you that you will be completely safe and comfortable. I got some decent dick - in the grotto as well as in his room- from one of the two aforementioned friends. I actually met the minister of travel & leisure and spoke with him about this specific issue- he was very receptive and basically said that as more gays visit Jamaica as tourists and spend our good dollars that the backlash has been minimal in the major ports, and i didn’t have any issues when we went to the club in the closest town west mooreland - but my understanding from the staff and those I’ve spoken with since is that outside of hedo you’re going to need to be discreet to avoid drama. One friend had to change hotels because the cleaning staff noticed that the two men traveling together only slept in one bed and told the entire hotel staff which put them at risk of being assaulted or worse.
The beauty of hedo is that they simply don’t care- occasionally they even book events that are entirely lgbtq+ - I’ve even seen promos for events like this:
Bi-Week Total Takeover at Hedonism II, October 4-11, 2025
Some were exclusively gay as well.
I highly recommend it and I’m looking forward to my next trip there. If I could, I’d go a couple times a year. The food is excellent, the beach and the resort itself are fabulous, the “enhancements” are incredible (and dirt cheap) and the freedom is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced before.
I’m available if you need a guide
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My partner and I discussed whether the trip was worth it or not. We already attend couples events. And it would essentially be the same thing, but at some resort? And the demographics of the couples who generally attend, from what we understood were older than us. We decided to take a pass.
Instead we went to Bora Bora and had a great time. It was well worth the money....
Instead we went to Bora Bora and had a great time. It was well worth the money....
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The first time my wife and I went we enjoyed it. She has always been a bit shy but really opened up while we were there. We were on the beach and having drinks and just enjoying ourselves. She knew I have always had a bi streak in me and she played it up big time. We both were very relaxed and this younger guy came walking close by and we made eye contact and my next look was directly at his good looking cock. He also was looking at mine. After he walked by my wife said he sure took a long look at my cock. I looked at her and she had a sexy grin on her face. I told her he did look good I can't lie I took a long look at his cock too. After a steamy night of great sex, we had some breakfast and hit the beach again... It wasn't long and the same guy from the day before came walking by and he slowed a bit as he walked by. I was shocked when my wife asked him what his name was. He stopped and looked at me and then to her and said Jacob. Jacob was a dark skinned man a good looking guy. He sat on the other side of my wife and facing my direction. He was naked and I had a great view of his dark cock. He was cock and his cock looked so long and relaxed. He said he was their for a week and his wife was in town shopping. My wife kept the conversation going and she ordered drinks around for the 3 of us. It was early to start drinking but the feelings were good and we all sat back and enjoyed our time. My wife caught me often looking at him to the point that I had to hide a semi that was coming on. I was feeling good and enjoying our time with Jacob. He didn't seem to be in a hurry and he seemed to enjoy our company. My wife excused herself as she had to go to the restroom and would get drinks on the way back. When she walked away Jacob looked at me and told me he had noticed me yesterday and I said I had seem him too. I told him he looked great walking by on the beach. He said thanks and a bit shy as I told him he sure caught my attention. He came over and sat next to me and I sat up and my semi sprung free. He quickly noticed and he told me I looked very good too. As we talked his hand found my cock and he was rubbing it. I can't tell you how good it felt and I told him I wanted more of him and not just a look. I told him as I was so hard by now that I wanted his dark skinned cock in my mouth. I'm glad we were in an Cabana because he got on his knees with his cock near my face. I leaned forward and took his beautiful cock in my mouth and oh did his hard cock feel so smooth. I was enjoying the moment. I had his cock and he was stroking me faster. It all just felt so good. He was watching for my wife as I enjoy his cock. His hips started to thrust in time with my sucking movements. It was so good and I all wanted was his hard cock. Soon he moaned and told me he was going to cum. I grabbed his ass and pulled him closer. I felt his cock swell a bit as I caught a load of his cum. It was so good and I enjoyed it thoroughly. I was still looking to see if my wife was on her way back as Jacob leaned over and took my hard cock into his mouth. I was so hard and heated up from sucking his cock that I let out a moan and pushed my cock deep into his mouth as my load came gushing out. Can't tell you how good it felt. We got all put back together and sat there talking. It wasn't long an my wife returned. I asked her where she had gone. She said she went to the water and walked in the waves as she watched us. Yikes I thought. I was watching behind us never thinking she went around in front. She said she had a sense that we wanted some alone time and I wanted you to have it. She said it looked like I was right. Neither Jacob or I said a word. Jacob stood up to leave and my wife said he didn't have to go but Jacob said his wife may be looking for him so off he went. I expected some drama once Jacob left but no, she ordered up a couple of drinks and we enjoy the rest of the day. Sorry this is way longer that it should be but got caught up in it as I wrote this. We did meet up with Jacob and his wife for dinner one evening and a walk on the beach after. They were a nice couple and you never know how things will go at a resort like that. All I can say and my wife agrees, keep an open mind and enjoy yourself.
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Amazing! So glad you got some of that good black dick!!! Wish I had that much luck myself lol but tbh I was surprised to get any action at all and im sure that when I go back without the husband I will have an even better time- currently looking at the freaky weekends they have for the more adventurous and i have decided that worst case I can hire a few hung Jamaican professionals
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