Hi, I'm new to this and actually signed up because I recently found out that my boyfriend is a well known member and I'm trying to understand. I'm not here to judge anyone, I am here because I love my boyfriend and I want to try to be okay with this if I can be. He cheated on his girlfriend before me and for me he has stopped talking and chatting with girls he knows and snapchat girls because it bothers me. He told me he felt this was the best option for him to still get the attention and thill he craves without any intention of doing anything. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!! I feel lost right now.
Help me understand please!
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Yeah don't sweat it. Most guys don't message other women here because you never get a reply. Besides its pretty funny on LPSG. Some othe replies are hilarious.
Welcome to the site. There are some pretty neat people on here, but also plenty of obnoxious and/or frustrating ones. Funny stuff and things you'll find odd. Hopefully this does work out as a good compromise with you and your sweetie. I would personally be cautious, if you already know he has cheated on someone once. That being said, have fun.
The Etc section is amusing to poke around, Women's Issues has a lot of shit posting and a fair few ladies (myself included) are getting a bit.. territorial in a way about it, given how often a handful of individuals like to mansplain or try to make everything about their dick. The Ask a -blank- sections you can ask people of that demographic questions, seek opinions, etc. If it isn't a thread you yourself created, unless it is in Ask a Woman ya aren't supposed to respond (hopefully to prevent any confusion for you).
If you want to ogle there are multitudes of men who would be happy to show off for you. If you're interested in things besides the almighty peen there are plenty of sections on the forum for those too
As far as understanding, my sweetie and I don't one on one chat with anyone on any forms of anything in a remotely pervy way. We both have accounts on here (it's actually how we first got introduced and started talking), he knows I'm flirty but loyal as hell. Neither of us show ourselves off really, not since we've been a couple. I know some folks do need their ego fed a lot, but just for myself I wouldn't be too comfy with that. Whatever works for you both, though.
Cheers,
The Etc section is amusing to poke around, Women's Issues has a lot of shit posting and a fair few ladies (myself included) are getting a bit.. territorial in a way about it, given how often a handful of individuals like to mansplain or try to make everything about their dick. The Ask a -blank- sections you can ask people of that demographic questions, seek opinions, etc. If it isn't a thread you yourself created, unless it is in Ask a Woman ya aren't supposed to respond (hopefully to prevent any confusion for you).
If you want to ogle there are multitudes of men who would be happy to show off for you. If you're interested in things besides the almighty peen there are plenty of sections on the forum for those too
As far as understanding, my sweetie and I don't one on one chat with anyone on any forms of anything in a remotely pervy way. We both have accounts on here (it's actually how we first got introduced and started talking), he knows I'm flirty but loyal as hell. Neither of us show ourselves off really, not since we've been a couple. I know some folks do need their ego fed a lot, but just for myself I wouldn't be too comfy with that. Whatever works for you both, though.
Cheers,
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I really don't mean to upset you but if he craves attention like that (especially about himself sexually) I think it's only a matter of time before some other woman convinces him to let her 'worship' his body. It's an ego trip to have people fall over you and I really have a hard time believing he'll stay just online and not meet up with someone.
Sweetie. It's great tht you're trying to understand but you need to know what you're willing to accept in a relationship. Honesty is a big one for me. Did he bring up this site? or did you find out? There's a difference between judging and saying what we're ok and not ok with for ourselves when we're in a relationship. Ask him how he 'gets the attention that he craves'? Is it just from posting comments? From posting pics and gettin comments on them? Is it showing off in the webcam chat? Which of these are acceptable to you? Have a frank discussion about it and then decide what you're doing from there. And trust that little voice.....Good Luck !
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The likelihood of him pairing up with a female here is about 0.00056%.
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He had all kinds of girls sending him messages and pics and asking to chat unfortunately.
I really appreciate everyone's comments and advice... I am taking it to heart and putting my own profile up and adding the pics made him jealous and I learned a lot.
He made the decision to submit his profile to be deleted so as soon as I see it gone I'll be deleting mine as well. I am hoping for the best but not following blindly. Good luck to all, have a great weekend!
I really appreciate everyone's comments and advice... I am taking it to heart and putting my own profile up and adding the pics made him jealous and I learned a lot.
He made the decision to submit his profile to be deleted so as soon as I see it gone I'll be deleting mine as well. I am hoping for the best but not following blindly. Good luck to all, have a great weekend!
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Welcome, this being LPSG and your BF being straight, he will probably get more attention from; and be asked to chat from guys, so do not worry
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There are plenty of men who pretend to be women to lure in a straight guy here. There's a sucker born everyday.
If you really just wanted the attention on yourself then you could just say so.
If you really just wanted the attention on yourself then you could just say so.
That sounds like a healthy resolution.........
Further, while I am in zero way calling out anyone specific, there are plenty of deceitful individuals on here and elsewhere who like to pretend to be what they are not. Speaking for myself, the amount of genuine females I personally know on here who chase after men on LPSG is in the extreme minority. It certainly does happen, but it is exceedingly rare.
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If my opinion counts for anything, I certify that @Fade and @Tattooed Goddess are 101% Grade A+ Females
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I am sure dudes are hooking up with dudes on here all the time. But there aren't a lot of women hooking up with dudes. Having been a female here for 10 years, I can count on one hand how many real women here have hooked up with a man on here from lpsg.
I am willing to bet all or nearly all of them really came from dudes.
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Your bf deleting his profile may seem like a step forward, but if he doesn't also take steps to address the underlying motivation, it will be tempting to relapse at some point! (I'm not saying there is anything wrong with your bf having interactions on lpsg. Just that it may be useful to explore, as others have mentioned, what's behind it. I know several couples, FWBs etc who seem to share a healthy dose of lpsg.)
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This whole thing sounded like middle school immaturity. Like an episode of DE Grassi.
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