So I need help with my Grindr game. I’m fairly attractive and young (24 yrs old). For some reason I can’t get any guys on Grindr. I always have plenty of face pics in my profile and usually have a completed bio. When I message guys I usually start with “hey” or “sup sexy” but I usually get left on read. I really want to start meeting other attractive gay and bi men and make friends or fwb at the least. Please help I need tips. I’m a vers top btw.
Help On Grindr
- Thread starter KingOfGames
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The question I have is what are you looking for?
Your bio may be too complete. There’s no mystery and no questions left to ask. Perhaps your bio says, I want a husband instead of I want to fuck?
If face pics aren’t doing it look at other profiles. Emulate what catches your attention on other profiles.
Come up with something better than “sup”. That’s not me being picky, it’s clearly not working.
Good luck and feel free to give us more information to go on.
Your bio may be too complete. There’s no mystery and no questions left to ask. Perhaps your bio says, I want a husband instead of I want to fuck?
If face pics aren’t doing it look at other profiles. Emulate what catches your attention on other profiles.
Come up with something better than “sup”. That’s not me being picky, it’s clearly not working.
Good luck and feel free to give us more information to go on.
I know this will think I’m being shallow but maybe guys don’t want the “commitment” of being a friend. If you hook up with a guy and there’s a connection, you’ll probably hook up again. However, you may never make a friend on Grindr.
So I’m sort of back to my first comment. What are you looking for....really? If it’s a friend, then Doublelist, as previously suggested is a better venue.
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I think I know what your problem is, being so modest about yourself
fairly attractive and young - leave that out
(24 yrs old).
I always have plenty of face pics in my profile - 2 is more than enough
and usually have a completed bio. - leave it blank and let them ask questions, if they read everything about you, they already know you and might not like what they read, or maybe they feel inadequate
When I message guys I usually start with “hey” or “sup sexy” but I usually get left on read. - If they've read your profile and feel inadequate or bored by your profile, they won't answer or if they think you're a bit jumped up
I really want to start meeting other attractive gay and bi men - there's the problem - other attractive - if you have that in your profile you'll be seen as a narcissist
I’m a vers top btw.
24, vers top looking for similar or ver bottom
Two pics and not all touched up and filtered especially with those ridiculous Snapchat glasses or pic turned into a cartoon - both pathetic
fairly attractive and young - leave that out
(24 yrs old).
I always have plenty of face pics in my profile - 2 is more than enough
and usually have a completed bio. - leave it blank and let them ask questions, if they read everything about you, they already know you and might not like what they read, or maybe they feel inadequate
When I message guys I usually start with “hey” or “sup sexy” but I usually get left on read. - If they've read your profile and feel inadequate or bored by your profile, they won't answer or if they think you're a bit jumped up
I really want to start meeting other attractive gay and bi men - there's the problem - other attractive - if you have that in your profile you'll be seen as a narcissist
I’m a vers top btw.
24, vers top looking for similar or ver bottom
Two pics and not all touched up and filtered especially with those ridiculous Snapchat glasses or pic turned into a cartoon - both pathetic
