Here is a question I have to ask gay guys as a straight man.

Women if they do discuss mens genetalia with other women, I believe that discuss in generalities instead of specifics. All men are more attentive to their own cocks than women will ever be. Our cocks are just about only physical attributes we really have. And we seem to be very focused on our cocks at a very young age in life.
 
I love it when men send me pictures of their cocks. I enjoy beating off to the pictures too knowing they are from a real man . I love to suck cocks - love the feel in my mouth, the taste of the cock, the texture of the cock, the smell as long as it is clean, the feel of it pulsing in my mouth and down my throat too. I also love to take it all the way down my throat when they cum even if using a condom. I just love to feel it pulse in my mouth and throat. I enjoy rubbing my tongue against the shaft while it is in my mouth too.

Totally agree with the above comments.
 
Just like str8 guys tal about woman's breast . They like to suck on and handle them just like gay guys like to suck and handle cock and balls.
 
Gay men love cock. Lick it, suck it, play with it, we love it. It's what we like and what we do.
 
a lot of gay guys are detail oriented as I am. Visuals and details can be a big stimulator or lack of for some I believe.

I can see a guy that has some other physical trait that is a big turn on and it makes me not care less about his cock size.

And yes, I believe gay guys care more about looks, specific or not, on a guy than some women do.





duplicate response, sorry.
 
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I've heard (str8) women talk about mens 'dangly bits' in a quite disparaging way.

And yet presumably they like them at the right time!

As others have said all men place a alot of value on their cock and balls, perhaps as women are likely to do with their breasts. I suppose they are the outward (and obvious) signs of ones sex.
 
Plenty of chicks obsess over dicks and have no qualm letting you know in private. I think it has less to do with straight chicks/gay men as it does hornier women/modest women. If you talk to the right woman, they'll tell you any perverted thing you'd expect to hear from guys. Other women are modest as a result of social convention (perhaps they're just as horny but are quiet about it).
 
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I noticed that alot of gay guys will talk about how a guys balls look or if he is cut or uncut alot more than I noticed females talk about this. What do you believe the reason for this? Do you believe gay guys just care more about looks than females?
I believe so. I love huge cut cocks with big balls and I tend to worship guys who have them.
 
I don't think gay men are more concerned about appearance than women.

What I believe happens is that, since gay men are also men, they have the possibility of comparing themselves to the men they are looking at.
 
I can't speak for all women, but the ones I've known sure as shit talk about that stuff. They just have more tact than to do it in front of (straight) guys. Once they know you're gay, though, you get invited into those conversations.
This. Every conversation I've had with women about dick didn't start until they knew I was a fan of it. The conversations though tend to be different than what gay guys discuss.

Gay guys tend to talk about taste, loads, size, girth, balls, and some other aspects. The women I've known tended to talk about size and girth but only in relation to how it made them feel. Taste, but only if it was bad (queue Samantha from SATC line "He had the funkiest tasting spunk.") or they didn't like it. Balls have been talked about more than the actual cock and a guy's load is almost never talked about unless it was someplace it shouldn't have been.

But these have been my experiences and your milage may vary.
 
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Simple. That's easy.

Straight men like, no scratch that, love pussy. That I will agree with. This isn't Confucius level puzzling to understand or realize.

However, it's not like that the other way around necessarily. Straight girls typically like getting eaten/her pussy licked, and she likes getting fucked. There are women who like giving head/dick, but it's mostly to please her man. You be surprised at the amount of girls who are whatever about looking at dicks. But women are size queens because she wants to ride/get fucked by a huge donkey hung man etc.

Us gay men however, love dick. We just can't explain it. It's how our brains are wired. It could be a clean cut swimmers build guy with an average one. A chubby construction worker guy with a thick one, with bush/pubes, and with saggy balls. We don't care. We like dick in general. So yeah. lol.
 
I would say men are more visual and have more opportunities to see the differences in change rooms etc.

Women usually only see in porn or the partners they have. For some women, that may not be many.

Due to slut shaming by others, women may not wish to reveal what they know.

Generally speaking, I would say gay men are more obsessed with sex than most women. Especially oral sex where a person can get a really good look at the different penis characteristics.
 
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Studies show that about 30 percent of women are into sex more than other women which is the 70 percent that either will just have sex to make their man happy or not even have sex at all..


Men think of sex more often than women

Gay men( and even straight men) will see a guys cock balls cut or uncut— seeing if bigger smaller or whatever ..

A lot of straight men won’t admit to it because they think people will think they are gay..

Just like men with reach down in their pants adjust themselves and then smell their fingers .. they don’t know why they do it. But they just do
 
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