Hi Men

[ericats]

Hugs men I appreciate all your postings.

 

[MilkDaddy]

A few things..
I have to agree about the 2 sets of rules pet pieve. AKA double standards. I've come across that more than I care to admit. It is poison in a relationship.
Related to that is the issue most/many women seem to have with bisexual men < even if the woman is bi too>

 

[7x525]

what i mean by manipulation..... you must do a b c then well have sex. oh yeah x y and z too. the pussy holds all the power. some women abuse it. when that happens the relationship will eventually end

 

[surecumalot]

what i mean by manipulation..... you must do a b c then well have sex. oh yeah x y and z too. the pussy holds all the power. some women abuse it. when that happens the relationship will eventually end

Man..... you can reverse that on her. It's risky but it can be done. I've successfully pulled it off a few times..... but it is at your own risk. If it works you'll have her hook line and sinker...... if it fails, well you'll S.O.L!!!!

 

[ericats]

I usually think of men manipulating women to get her into bed

 

[Brisler]

Of course there are things I wouldn't mind being different about my girlfriend. I'm sure nearly everyone who's in a long term relationship notice small things that annoy them about their partners. None of those small things measure up to all the amazing things that make her a fucking miracle, but of course there are small stupid things that could change. I'm gonna divide the tings I can think of right now into three different categories.

Things that I know she would like to change about herself:
- Social anxiety. Go to hell with you. I cannot stand when that shit takes its toll on her. It ruins me.

Things that could stand to change about all people, her as well:
- I wish her shit didn't smell so much like shit.
- Please don't chew with your mouth open. I can stand most things, I don't even notice most things, but that shit just drives me insane. And she's not even that bad at all.
- I would very much prefer if, when she wakes up, it didn't smell like a rat had defecated and afterwards died in her mouth during the night.

Things about her in particular:
- Please do not try to have a conversation with me while I'm taking a dump. And don't try to have a conversation with me while you're taking a dump.
- Shut the freaking bathroom door when you're taking a dump! Seriously!
- Do not try to have a conversation with me while you're brushing your teeth. I can't understand a word.
- You don't have to cook, and I don't mind that you're a horrible cook, but please keep me company while I'm cooking. At least once in a while. It gets kinda lonely. And chopping onions, carrots and celery into neat little a square-shaped pieces isn't as exciting as one would think.

 

[Mister2101]

Women are soooo emotional. Which can be both good and bad!! In my opinion, women are just wired differently then men. How they think and how they make decisions are very different. Its emotions based, vice logic based. Sometime they can just drive a man crazy!! But we still love them.....

 

[ericats]

I can't imagine not thinking about others emotions and feelings before acting is seems so selfish not to

 

[Mister2101]

I can't imagine not thinking about others emotions and feelings before acting is seems so selfish not to

For me, that is a different question or scenario. Just because men may be more logical than emotional, does not necessarily mean that men are not considerate of others feelings or emotions. Conversely--I think there are some women who are very emotional, and also very selfish and inconsiderate of others feelings. Hope that makes sense.

If you are simply trying to say that men can often be selfish or inconsiderate of others, I would not disagree with that statement. Peace.

 

[nedley]

Well. The double standard thing is a bummer. Not every woman is the same. But the problems I run into with woman usually stem from insecurity. And they react to it. Just be you. And be happy to you. I hate the whole. " she's a whore" thing as way to justify her own problems.

 

[InsaneJester]

Men what are your biggest complaints about women? How would you change women if you could? What can women do to make your relationship better?

My biggest complaints with women are that for the most part they don't say what they mean and mean what they say.

And I have to work on my compliments because saying "That dress makes your butt look big" is mean apparently. (She knows I like big butts though)

 

[NC_BBC]

I like women as is. There's an infinite variety of women, no need to change any one thing about them as a whole.

 

[NC_BBC]

My biggest complaints with women are that for the most part they don't say what they mean and mean what they say.

And I have to work on my compliments because saying "That dress makes your butt look big" is mean apparently. (She knows I like big butts though)

It's a fun game of cat and mouse... just enjoy the banter between moves and you'll see....

 

[InsaneJester]

It's a fun game of cat and mouse... just enjoy the banter between moves and you'll see....

I don't mind the game, as long as the girl isn't too dramatic about it, schoolgirl drama is not my style. Adult play "drama" is though.

Banter > Bitching

 

[Infernal]

It was little things that drove me crazy. Totally minor things that became emotional meltdowns. I got a phone call from some girl I was dating and she asked what day it was.... Fuck, I don't know, Thursday ? NO ! It's our 3 month and 16 day anniversary ! How dare you not know that !!! Seriously, 3 months and 16 days is a major life anniversary, and you're gonna have a meltdown over it ?

We worked together and I didn't smile at her on the way out the door one day. I had just unpacked a truck full of freight. I was tired, covered with dust, smelled bad, and had a few cardboard cuts that hurt like hell. Putting a cheerful smile on my face was the last thing on my mind. I wanted to get home and take a shower so I could feel human again. I get home and there are 3 phone calls, each slightly more hysterical than the last... Are you mad at me ? What did I do to make you mad ? PLEASE DON'T DUMP ME !!!!

There was a public explosion in a record store over some song she insisted I had heard. It was some popular bit of 80's trash music that went around when I was in high school. I knew of the song, but had never heard it before. She loudly insisted that I knew the song. I have a passion for music and I know what I've heard and what I haven't. When she played the song, indeed, I had not ever heard the song in my life and yet it was a huge issue.

The sex was good, but I just couldn't deal with this kind of nonsense. I don't understand it, it's totally irrational behavior over inconsequential things.

 

[sizehungry]

Given that i both love women , and ,am fascinated by them , i would't change them as such . However , if i were God for a day , i would spare women the hassle and discomfort of periods , reduce the pain of child birth , and spare them men of cruelty and violence , but only after i'd asked them first .