Hook-up Etiquette

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A couple of questions on hook-up etiquette.

Say you are staying at a hotel, and invite a guy off of Grindr to come over. What is appropriate attire? You can't answer the door naked, so you need something on. Should you put on exercise shorts and a t shirt? Go all teh way and get dressed, or is just a towel appropriate?
 

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Forgot question #.

At a hookup place, say bathhouse, who is responsible for supplying lube. Is it the bottoms responsibility or the tops?
 
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A couple of questions on hook-up etiquette.

Say you are staying at a hotel, and invite a guy off of Grindr to come over. What is appropriate attire? You can't answer the door naked, so you need something on. Should you put on exercise shorts and a t shirt? Go all teh way and get dressed, or is just a towel appropriate?
you're at a hotel. Why can't you answer door naked? Its a private room.
 
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Forgot question #.

At a hookup place, say bathhouse, who is responsible for supplying lube. Is it the bottoms responsibility or the tops?
either/or. But I'd think if you're the bottom and don't want to take it dry, you better be sure to have lube with you...
 

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When I meet for hook ups, we meet somewhere public first. Then if I'm ok with them we go to their place or mine. The usually have on something casual. I don't bottom for many guys so it's pretty much a guarantee I'll be on my knees.
 
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I agree with the others. Meet publicly first then go to your room. Sometimes people are overly flattering in photos they send you. They turn up and they probably haven't looked that good in years, if ever.

I'd always bring my own lube. Firstly you don't know if you are allergic to theirs and in bathhouses there is no guarantee the lube supplied hasn't been tampered with.

I've heard of a case where some sicko has tried to put acid in the house lube.
 

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What is appropriate attire? You can't answer the door naked, so you need something on.

I think really that depends on your personal vibe, how you want to appear, and how the two of you are vibing together.

At a hookup place, say bathhouse, who is responsible for supplying lube. Is it the bottoms responsibility or the tops?

My view is this: if you want to be having sex, it's your responsibility to make sure you're ready to have sex. That means maintaining a regular testing regimen for STIs, having whatever safer sex items are necessary for you ready to go, and lube.
 
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you can do what ever you like its your choice, I have had a top that wanted me bent over the bed in my jock. He walked in and instantly ate my ass for an hour. One of the hottest was a top that had his cock out at the door and put me on my knees. I actually started to suck it with the door still open lol
 
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You’re overthinking this. Trust me. The guy doesn’t care.

As far as lube I don’t think it matters, but logically the person who’s ass is about to get torn up should probably have some lube in their hobag.