He undoubtedly has a toxic personality, but the blame also largely lies with those who support him financially.
On one side, we have him, who knows he's attractive and well-endowed, and uses this (like most of humanity) to make money. On the other side, we have a paying audience who pays for nudity, sex, and ejaculation, and then demands a close relationship with him.
Who's wrong, and about what, really?
I understand the need of certain people who live more or less shitty lives (I speak for myself, too) to pursue such individuals, but demanding human contact from them is frankly absurd.