How Big is Too Big?

[D_Eddie Withagun]

I'm gay, 9 inches, thick, and uncut. I've been sexually active for a year and in that time, for the life of me, I could not get my cock into a hole.

I rubber up, lube up, and push against an impossible entrance.

I usually give up and leave them disappointed, cuddle or bottom myself.
But now I'm seeing a guy who is 100% bottom and it happened again!

He used poppers, I used a cock ring. Both of us horny and... u know.


Has this happened to you? Did it when you started out and you learned how to get passed it? I really need help. thanks.

 

[Box_Man]

too big? that depends on the person, and at 9 inches, don't expect to always get it all in

 

[D_Andreas Sukov]

i guess massive amounts of rimming and fingering are needed, alongside massive amounts of lube and poppers?

what do i know im a straight guy

 

[davekcmo]

I rarely post, but here are my thoughts. First, it's a marathon not a sprint. Expect that the first time is going take time to make entry. Second, you lay down, and have him sit on it....he'll have to go slow for both your sakes, but if the flesh is willing, then he will let you in. then as he gets comfortable, then you can move in and out a bit... might take practice, but that's what it's all about...the other suggestion is get a good size dildo, and work with him using that before trying the sitting down maneuver.

 

[Axcess]

Dude if you really pack 9 legit inches you are massive. Legit 9 inches is way to big . I'm afraid most guys can't take that size.

 

[curioussusan]

I know a 53 year old woman that would love it!!

 

[D_Andreas Sukov]

I rarely post, but here are my thoughts. First, it's a marathon not a sprint. Expect that the first time is going take time to make entry. Second, you lay down, and have him sit on it....he'll have to go slow for both your sakes, but if the flesh is willing, then he will let you in. then as he gets comfortable, then you can move in and out a bit... might take practice, but that's what it's all about...the other suggestion is get a good size dildo, and work with him using that before trying the sitting down maneuver.

rarely is the wrong word i think!:biggrin1:

 

[Typicaltool]

i've heard for men and women for the most part anything over or equal to 7" long and 5.5" girth is big, 8 inches is where it starts to get a little long for most people and 6" girth can be too big for a lot of people as well

 

[D_Eddie Withagun]

Dude if you really pack 9 legit inches you are massive. Legit 9 inches is way to big . I'm afraid most guys can't take that size.

I'm 8 and a half, but 9 with the cock ring.

have him sit on it....

Worth a stab. :tongue22pun)

 

[finsuptx]

Lube up! Enuff Anal-Ease and you can shove a battleship through a cheerio! ;-) Also, since you're that big, you need to make sure you're fully hard. Go with cockrings if you need to.

 

[inwait8]

My ex is very large easily 9x6 and the first time we had sex I tried sitting on him and that worked, but it still was rather painful. The next time I used poppers just to get over the initial pain. Once we started having sex regularly I got used to him and was able to handle him without much difficulty.

If the guys that you are hooking up with don't have much experience in general, then they definitely wouldn't have had any with a guy of your size. I'd say find a guy that is into your size... a fuck buddy that over time won't have a problem taking you.

 

[D_Armoniel Dirtydong]

Just take your time. Try using different things to stretch your partner a bit. It'll take some time but it'll be worth it in the end. Pun intended.

 

[docilej]

Have your guy wear a butt plug for a few hours before the date.

 

[Absolutfun]

Just come to me. I'll take any size cock!

 

[MYDEEPTHROAT]

Yes ... just find someone with a little experience ... :wink:
There are a lot of gay guys who would LOVE to take car of it for you ... :smile:

I know I would ...

 

[power.pac]

Yeah, 9 inches isn't a challenge for me ...

 

[dombear]

It all depends on the person, the amount of foreplay, relaxation and a multitude of other factors. Unlike porn movies, you can't just slam it in first time, and pound away. It takes time and patience to loosen up. Remember it's not your ass it's going into, and an inch feels like a mile at times. Let the bottom dictate when he's ready.

 

[badinfluence]

If you are ever in So Cal let me know I will give you personal instructions on how to make it happen. Big dicks are me specialty.

 

[avg_joe]

Real 9" dick, measured from the top of your penis, is such a rarity. I would say one in a million. Porn stars like Mandingo, and Shane Diesel don't measure up to the mark.

 

[MuscledHorse]

I hear this complaint from big cocked guys all the time. It depends on the guy (ofr gal) you ar efuking. For me, there is no such thing as too big and that has landed me a lot of hung guys needing someone who can accommodate them. The only thing you can really do is try to find a guy like me and then keep him around at least as a fuvk bud.