People have to remember that men with 11 inches are not always confident, they are often embarrassed because they have back breaking cocks like that! For a man taking it, it is a monster and they know it, which can often leave them so shy about it, that their frightened to get to that point of saying "by the way, my dick is really huge" and I know when he said that to me, I was like, oh ok , yea! Like yea yea, but when he lobs it out ut changes to fuck that, I cannot take that fker! Then he has to go through I'll be gentle!! So your wrong to think all lads with huge cocks love themselves!