How Common Is It?

[Magnus_Phallus]

Hello ladies,
long time listener first time caller.

My question pertains to crying while
and/or immediately after sex.

As you can imagine this subject came up
around social circles in which I roam.
The outcomes were... inconclusive.

From your perspective,
how common is crying or tearing up
for women during or just after sex?

Also, is it invariably negative,
can it be reasonably acceptable
or perhaps positive in some occurrences?

Ok I had two questions, managed to
sneak a second one in there.
Hope you don’t mind.

 

[ArtAppreciation]

If you mean all-out sobbing, crying...probably not good.

I’ve given some ... hmmm, I’d say incredibly eager blowjobs, and they made my eyes water. Hard. So it may have looked like I was crying during them, and I would blow my nose and all that.

But I mean, if I’m gagging on a guy’s cock and it’s making my eyes water and nose run, I feel that’s pretty obviously a great thing.

 

[286798]

Sobbing, not good. If a dude is hitting all the right spots, my eye water. It only seems to happen when I'm on my back, though, so it may look like crying. So tearing up... that means it's amazing.

 

[Holly Doors]

I can get tearful in a good way during climax sure, the body can do a lot of strange things when overwhelmed.

 

[MickeyLee]

Me personally? Not so much. I'm more of an unexpected laughter person. Usually cuz a good romp is quite the tension cutter. Plus endorphins and other happy brain chemicals.

I have seen women tear up, more akin to eyes watering before or after sneezing.

I've seen happy/schmoopy tears from pure affection to partner.

A two breakdown sobbing moments. Same partner, ummm very intense times and energy leading up to the tears. We started out hoping to trigger a huge physical and emotional release. After a good cry, a co-bath and snuggling with Netflix my lady friend was very pleased with her after glow.

 

[Magnus_Phallus]

Very interesting,
Thank you all for your candeur.

I was not referring to all out sobbing.
More like subtle weeping, tearing up
or, as some of you said, eye watering.
You know, like one is likely to
encounter in that context.
Sometimes oddly accompanied
with nervous giggling.

You’ve all given insightful responses.
It helps with better understanding.

much appreciated

 

[Enid]

It's definitely not at all common for me. I've never cried after sex.

 

[LaFemme]

I’ve definitely cried after sex. I’m an emotional person. Not sobbing crying, but just welling up with emotion.

Thinking back, there are times when I should have cried. Sex wasn’t all that good!

 

[4388301]

I do not think I have, other than after being sexually assaulted.

I have had my eyes water, nose run, etc after extremely vigorous giving of oral sex, though.

 

[TinyPrincess]

I'm more of an unexpected laughter person.

+1

Can't recall ever crying over sex.

 

[Magnus_Phallus]

I'm more of an unexpected laughter person.

+1

that’s also something I’m curious about.

the after or sometimes during sex nervous laughter some women get.

what triggers that?

 

[MickeyLee]

that’s also something I’m curious about.

the after or sometimes during sex nervous laughter some women get.

what triggers that?

Mine is not a nervous laughter. I am straight up stimulation drunk and happy. Chuckling. Gaffaws.

Conspiratorial snickering. Usually proceeds consensual biting on fleshy parts.

 

[TinyPrincess]

It's not a nervous laughter. I'm very vocal, talking, yelling, commenting, making jokes - in general and during sex. Been told numerous times I even talk when sleeping.

Think me laughing is just another way of interacting. If the guy tries (too) hard I might laugh, if there's funny sex sounds or something else get my attention I might laugh. Simply enjoying the sex can make me laugh.

 

[Magnus_Phallus]

Right, perhaps a reflection of the overall
happy mood you’re in at that moment.
Laughter is just a natural extension of that;
Different from the type understood
as “nervous”.

 

[286798]

that’s also something I’m curious about.

the after or sometimes during sex nervous laughter some women get.

what triggers that?

OMG, everything about good sex is so ridiculous. The body parts, the various fluids, the crazy sounds, the feelings. I sometimes say the most random things in the moment... see 4:13 of

(I loved this show... I'm a more reserved version of this.)

But at the topic at hand... if you're not having fun and laughing during getting bizzay, you're doing something wrong. It's not like porn. It's not all falsetto "oh mi god" and "mmm... feels so good" and "you're soooo biiiiiig".

 

[EllieP]

I can well up after the dam has burst, especially after a long dry spell. Yeah, the analogy is not working well with that one. Anyway.

Sobbing? No, that doesn't sound good. Sounds like regret or unhappiness, neither of what you want after intimacy.

Laughing? Boy howdy, talk about! I've always said that if you can't laugh during sex then you're not doing it with the right person.