How do ftms fuck

[deleted1074483]

hi, a serious question for FTMs that still have their fannies.

on a dating website a really gorgeous guy (FTM) contacted me just and on his profile had a link to a pornhub vid with the caption 'how FTMs fuck' but the guy was being fucked in the fanny? If a guy is FTM and hasn't had all the surgery why does he still want to be fucked in the fanny and not in his ass like guys born as guys?

 

[softdrink666]

Like any other person ? We can use our dick or a prosthetic it depends on the person.

 

[salemmoon]

When you're FTM you don't have a prostate, so for some anal isn't preferable. Some like it, some don't. It depends on your mood, your preferences, and how much dysphoria you feel.

Wanting to feel sexual pleasure in the best way possible for you is a normal thing regardless of gender identity - like some cis straight men liking to be pegged by their girlfriends/wives, because they get the most pleasure out of their prostate.

 

[cherryboom66]

hi, a serious question for FTMs that still have their fannies.

on a dating website a really gorgeous guy (FTM) contacted me just and on his profile had a link to a pornhub vid with the caption 'how FTMs fuck' but the guy was being fucked in the fanny? If a guy is FTM and hasn't had all the surgery why does he still want to be fucked in the fanny and not in his ass like guys born as guys?

Honestly a really stupid and offensive question. But at least you said fanny and not pussy like someone else here.

 

[cherryboom66]

“But the guy was still being fucked in the fanny?! If it’s a guy WHY does he want to be fucked in the fanny?!” The OP is wasn’t asking a question. This is fucking offensive and judgemental. If you can’t see that - learn to read.

 

[StewartW]

Honestly a really stupid and offensive question. But at least you said fanny and not pussy like someone else here.

It’s not offensive it and honest an genuine question

 

[cherryboom66]

It’s not offensive it and honest an genuine question

The question assumes that being male and female revolves around what’s in your pants. And when you’re trans, what’s in your pants is open to world debate which is so soul destroying. Strangers on the street think it’s OK so ask you such personal questions.... so, on many levels it is indeed offensive. The thought process is “but you say you’re a MAN, so why on earth would you use your VAGINA”. Have a think and explain how this isn’t offensive.

 

[jpk338]

Confused.. for years I have heard my older family members refer to your behind as the fanny. So now has it changed to vagina?' I have had some FTM's locally refer to their parts as front hole and rear hole. Also my cousin in L.A. gave me names they use out there that are completely different.
The ones here get very upset if you refer to their vagina, it's like it doesn't exist anymore. The more I read to educate myself the more confused I get. Or maybe they are the ones confused.......

 

[cherryboom66]

Confused.. for years I have heard my older family members refer to your behind as the fanny. So now has it changed to vagina?' I have had some FTM's locally refer to their parts as front hole and rear hole. Also my cousin in L.A. gave me names they use out there that are completely different.
The ones here get very upset if you refer to their vagina, it's like it doesn't exist anymore. The more I read to educate myself the more confused I get. Or maybe they are the ones confused.......

Haha yes.. Americans use it as the rear, Fanny pack. In the uk we call it a bum bag. In the uk, it’s a word for lady bits.

 

[deleted484273]

Honestly if you can’t ask a question like this here then where can you ask it?

 

[StewartW]

Honestly a really stupid and offensive question. But at least you said fanny and not pussy like someone else here.

Can’t see what’s offensive .. it’s a genuine question

 

[StewartW]

The question assumes that being male and female revolves around what’s in your pants. And when you’re trans, what’s in your pants is open to world debate which is so soul destroying. Strangers on the street think it’s OK so ask you such personal questions.... so, on many levels it is indeed offensive. The thought process is “but you say you’re a MAN, so why on earth would you use your VAGINA”. Have a think and explain how this isn’t offensive.

Being pathetic and picky

 

[pansytwisst]

because we can do both

 

[WadWorshipper]

I admit that I've been curious about this because about three years ago, my niece became my nephew. I had no idea he had been struggling with it but so happy that he's his true self now. I helped pay for top surgery and he's now thrilled he can swim shirtless with his boyfriend and his buds. His boyfriend has been with him for many years. I assume it's still PIV sex but I've wondered if my nephew views his vagina with distaste as a female part and prefers it in his ass, even if he has no prostate? A minor curiosity: I would never ask. I can see that he's SO happy with his life and that's all that really matters.

 

[thewatcherlol]

Honestly I think that its because men born men have the G spot in their ass, and trans men were obviously born women so their G spot still remains in their vagina if they have it, so to still have sex with their vagina is what would feel best for them. Besides that its also largely about preference of the trans person tho, some trans men dont like to get fucked at all and are purely tops (with strap ons, surgery etc)

 

[ThreeHFY]

If an transman wants to receive penetrative sex (not all do) which portal they like to use, vag or ass, is dependent on the person and their own physiology and preference. Biology is not the driver. And yes, some ftms are averse to using their vag for reasons of gender dysphoria. The location of the G spot in the vag is not the driver. For some, the ass is more sensitive, or the G spot is not adequately stimulated by a cock or dildo, but may be by a hand, for example. Even without a prostate, there are plenty of shared nerve beds between the vag and ass, enough to enable anal orgasms. And, which stimulation feels best may depend on the cock of your partner, or the dildo used. The right cock or dildo might indeed be good or good enough for G spot stimulation. So unfortunately, there are NO clear answers. Good communication and flexibility is key.

 

[michael_3165]

The question assumes that being male and female revolves around what’s in your pants. And when you’re trans, what’s in your pants is open to world debate which is so soul destroying. Strangers on the street think it’s OK so ask you such personal questions.... so, on many levels it is indeed offensive. The thought process is “but you say you’re a MAN, so why on earth would you use your VAGINA”. Have a think and explain how this isn’t offensive.

Whilst I get it comes off as offensive, let's not be naive. The average person on the street doesn't know this games rules. The rules are so new that it would be unreasonable to expect them to get it, and if you change the rules you need to expect some rather insensitive questions. I mean we have gone from millenia of male and female only to a plethora (great word!) of gender terms that many have no clue what they are.

Also the poster above use of the word portal is interesting. Like a robot or gaming device!

 

[cherryboom66]

Whilst I get it comes off as offensive, let's not be naive. The average person on the street doesn't know this games rules. The rules are so new that it would be unreasonable to expect them to get it, and if you change the rules you need to expect some rather insensitive questions. I mean we have gone from millenia of male and female only to a plethora (great word!) of gender terms that many have no clue what they are.

Also the poster above use of the word portal is interesting. Like a robot or gaming device!

Hiya. My life isn’t a game.

 

[michael_3165]

Hiya. My life isn’t a game.

I'll try again. It is ironic that you appear yo view societal norms as something that doesn't apply to you and your life. A rather illuminating sentence, though I suspect you won't be able to reflect on that at all as it may be beyond your ability and self concept.

Society has rules, the rules of the social game. We have to comply by a set of unwritten rules if we are going to get by in the social game. You cannot change the rules without consensus from society or you will inevitably get into difficulties (not you specifically, obviously).

If you cannot see that then I suspect you have a fair few problems both in life but also in terms of your relation to others. It is interesting because your starting position is one of opposition to being asked fairly straight forward questions, so either it hits a little too painfully to be asked (curious what THAT is about?) or you are generally rather disagreeable as a personality (ditto).

I'd politely ask you to actually engage in the conversation with a bit of maturity and reflection, though I think that's simply asking too much.

Good luck

 

[Electric blue]

It seems there will always be some one to ask a question before actually reading it first or thinking it through , weather a MTF or FTM is engaging in a sexual relationship is only their business. Asking how they do it's like asking" what happens when you jump in the lake " I lived with a Gurl for 6 wonderful years , sadly she died and left a empty spot on my heart .
I would and will support ANY transgender person any way I can. I would never ask any personal questions unless they feel some sort of comfort with me , they go through more hell than you could imagine from society, from family, friends , always having fingers pointed at them .They have much more courage than I do