Women are programmed to seek stability and security. Men who have more risks attatched to them I will instantly dry out for. I just can't find that desire in me to be attracted to them. They may be good-looking still, but that unique fire that women have that goes beyond physical attraction is not there.
If he's having sex with men due to him feeling as though he is missing something, then it's just BS. I understand that not everyone can fulfil their other half needs in certain areas that involve emotions. BUT with the physical stuff, SEX IS SEX. What is it that they need from men? Why doesn't that woman fulfil that need? Can't they make that one sacrifice for their partners if they aren't going without sex any other way with a woman? The human mind is the most adaptable. Do something pleasurable for long enough, and it soon becomes a part of you, and eventually, it normalises into now being something that you need. When would this need for sex with men end? What happens when kids come along or we retire? They won't stop after years of being allowed to. It's just so messy.
I don't need more complications in life.
I want a man who's every need I can fulfil and same with me. I'm just not desperate enough for a relationship or for sex to lower my standards of what I want in a sexual and romantic relationship.
Women are also reliant on social status through evolution. We have survived by bonding with women in groups. I wouldn't want to be the odd one out from all my friends and be the new joke that they all pity.
There's just some reasons men won't ever be able to understand. I hate that the women become the bad guys, though. I'm sure the men wouldn't prefer a woman who isn't interested in them anymore to then be pushed on to them. A friends BF cheated on her one drunken night after an argument with his gay friend, and she tried to take her own life. It affected our friend group and any other woman who heard the story a lot. I have gay friends, and I've heard too many stories of those bi boys cheating and their partners never suspecting a thing. They go to their graves, never fully knowing what their partners do. This all impacts us, too.
Some things you can't change just because you think your feelings are the most valid. Women may be wrong with this, but you can't change how you feel about what you think is attractive. If it was a thing back in the big bang days, then it would still be now. There's a reason that 80% of straight women feel this way. There's still the 20% left and men.
Although I do laugh at this site where a "straight man" doesn't really exist anyway if you were to look at their history. Maybe straight men don't exist and the jokes on us once again.
