Say 80% of the time I like to cum balls deep inside them. I particularly like it face to face, with them lying on their backs and me standing. Although a more missionary style for the ladies- with their legs wrapped round my back- can be really sweet if we get the right angle and she's got the right feeling punani because then it feels like my whole torso is funnelled into her cunt.
The other 20% I'd say pull it out and jizz allover their chests. This is especially hot if it's a guy with sexy chest hair as this is a bit of a fetish for me. When I was a young man I ALWAYS pulled it out and whacked off at the last minute, influenced by porn I guess
. I didn't cum inside someone until I was about thirty and it made my orgasm incredible. I'd no experience of Fleshlight type toys either, so until then I'd got no idea how the orgasm you get from cumming in arse or pussy feels so different to the ones you get from wanking or the different again ones from being sucked.
The other thing I love about facing each other is the eye contact and being able to see each others orgasm faces.