How many times have you impregnated a women?

[guywithbigballs]

And how did you find out about the donation babies, did they tell you, found out when they reached out to you?

with each of them I ask them to tell me when they find out they're pregnant, and also let me know about the birth. After that my job is done.

 

[double_cream]

One pregnancy, two kids.

 

[yohan238]

with each of them I ask them to tell me when they find out they're pregnant, and also let me know about the birth. After that my job is done.

That's an incredibly selfless thing to do, I'm sure you've helped bring a lot of joy to those families.

I am fascinated by the mindset though, if you don't mind my asking? Are those children able to track you down when they become adults? Do you ever wonder what they're up to, what kind of lives they have? Zero judgement here, and given that you've done this multiple times, you've obviously made your peace with those kinds of feelings or questions, I'm genuinely interested in how someone approaches a situation like this.

 

[deleted2604161]

Is this some kind of weird fetish?

 

[texasman469]

I have 3 kids with my ex. The 2 youngest both over 21 live with me. Oldest son is married. Love 'em!

 

[palakaorion]

Voted zero. But there were a couple times she was late; we went so far as planning to get a pregnancy test, before she got her period.

 

[17264491]

Once with my late-ex, and that's all I am aware, full term. She's now in her 30's.

 

[hotguy88]

Only once that I know of. Miscarriage not long after we found out

 

[9184461]

40+​

Votes: 5 6.6%

Holy fuck. No, no, no. I fixed that shit at 4.

 

[Cut9801]

I'm a sperm donor (natural and artificial way)... actually i'm at 12

 

[Acratopotes]

A girlfriend claimed that I had, but she was too stupid to even put together a good lie.

Let me guess, the date when the baby had to have been conceived didn't match when you'd had sex?

Anyway to answer the original question, one woman (my wife), three times, all planned.

 

[Acratopotes]

Once for certain with my ex-wife, and possibly 2 more with her. Not for certain if they were just late periods or if they just didn't take since she did have a miscarriage a couple of years before we got together.

It's actually reasonably common that a blastocyst fails to implant or that something goes wrong in the very early stages of development such that the embryo dies. If the blastocyst did implant and the developing embryo started secreting hCG that would have the effect of holding off the next period to maintain the pregnancy then, when it died, the period would resume. So, technically, a late period after unprotected sex which doesn't result in a noticeable pregnancy may actually be a miscarriage but if there isn't anything big enough to see the woman may not think of it as such.

So to revise my previous answer, I think that happened for me and my wife on one occasion to add that to the three above.

 

[Infernal]

Let me guess, the date when the baby had to have been conceived didn't match when you'd had sex?

Anyway to answer the original question, one woman (my wife), three times, all planned.

Not even close. She was a mess. She told me she was pregnant and I said "and?" then she wanted to know what I was going to do about it. I asked how far along she was and she said about 6 weeks. I reminded her that I hadn't seen her in almost a year so I hoped she could figure out who the father was because it certainly wasn't me. She hung up. I came across her years later on Facebook and when she saw that I was married to a man she immediately unfriended and blocked me.

 

[Acratopotes]

Not even close. She was a mess. She told me she was pregnant and I said "and?" then she wanted to know what I was going to do about it. I asked how far along she was and she said about 6 weeks. I reminded her that I hadn't seen her in almost a year so I hoped she could figure out who the father was because it certainly wasn't me. She hung up. I came across her years later on Facebook and when she saw that I was married to a man she immediately unfriended and blocked me.

But what you have described there matches exactly what I said. When must the baby have been conceived? Six weeks ago at the time of the phone call. When did you last have sex with her? Not within the last year so certainly not around the time the baby was conceived.

Ok this one was more blatant than some, i.e. the timing isn't off by just a few days but by nearly a year, so she has to have either had a very poor understanding of how conception and pregnancy works or she assumed you had a poor understanding. There can't be many people of either sex whose understanding is so poor they imagine sperm can swim around inside her for 10.5 months and then finally do the deed.

 

[Infernal]

But what you have described there matches exactly what I said. When must the baby have been conceived? Six weeks ago at the time of the phone call. When did you last have sex with her? Not within the last year so certainly not around the time the baby was conceived.

Ok this one was more blatant than some, i.e. the timing isn't off by just a few days but by nearly a year, so she has to have either had a very poor understanding of how conception and pregnancy works or she assumed you had a poor understanding. There can't be many people of either sex whose understanding is so poor they imagine sperm can swim around inside her for 10.5 months and then finally do the deed.

She was a mess. We worked together at a retail store and she fucked her way through all the guys that worked there. Very manipulative and did not really understand that the things she did or said wouldn't facilitate a healthy long-term relationship. I don't believe she was ever pregnant. It was a manipulative attempt to see if I would date her again.

 

[Acratopotes]

She was a mess. We worked together at a retail store and she fucked her way through all the guys that worked there. Very manipulative and did not really understand that the things she did or said wouldn't facilitate a healthy long-term relationship. I don't believe she was ever pregnant. It was a manipulative attempt to see if I would date her again.

Ok, fair enough. I know a woman who faked a pregnancy and then claimed to have had a miscarriage. When she was asked, by another woman, how it was going she flippantly said "Oh, I lost it" and then carried on talking about something else with about as much emotional investment in the supposedly lost pregnancy as you'd expect if she had knocked over a pint of beer.

On another occasion, she offered a more elaborate explanation, still dispassionately, and when I had occasion to visit her flat (not for sex) I found a women's magazine with the pages open at a story that matched the same one she herself had told.

 

[Infernal]

Ok, fair enough. I know a woman who faked a pregnancy and then claimed to have had a miscarriage. When she was asked, by another woman, how it was going she flippantly said "Oh, I lost it" and then carried on talking about something else with about as much emotional investment in the supposedly lost pregnancy as you'd expect if she had knocked over a pint of beer.

On another occasion, she offered a more elaborate explanation, still dispassionately, and when I had occasion to visit her flat (not for sex) I found a women's magazine with the pages open at a story that matched the same one she herself had told.

It's sad that some people turn to fabrications like that. Isn't it easier to ask for a hookup or a fuck instead of dragging all that baggage with you?

 

[londonlad1990]

One, a month after we started trying. Got lucky, will likely start trying for another soon and know it's normally a long an uncertain process.

 

[jay-c]

2 two times (both planned) with my wife. On the second one, she had a combo c-section/tubal ligation. We're done.

 

[sprinter78]

2 two times (both planned) with my wife. On the second one, she had a combo c-section/tubal ligation. We're done.

I wish we had done the tubal at the same time as the last section. Especially after 3 kids but she wasn't sure at the time.