Being a bull for many couples over the years one situation that comes to mind about this is one couple I met with. He was pretty average but my size being over six times larger than his at the time was quite an interesting interaction. At first, he’s kinda freaking out. You can tell he’s eyeballing me like he's thinking about calling it off. He get very tense, hands hovering like he’s not sure what to do.
Then she sees me and everything changes. Her eyes widen, starts breathing fast, reaching out without saying a word. That’s when he switches gears. He’s not backing off anymore and then gets behind her, hands on her hips, and he’s like, “This good?” She nods, and he’s nudging her my way, real careful. He’s helping her line it up, taking it slow. She’d tense up, and he’d chill for a sec, muttering something sweet to her, then look at me like, “Alright, let’s do this right.” At one point, he even grabs me making sure she’s set, guiding her down bit by bit. He's all in at this point.
The size difference is really messing with him. He’s staring sometimes, and I heard him mumble quite a few things under his breath. When she starts making these noises—ones he’s probably never heard—it’s like he’s torn between being excited and nervous but he rolls with it. He kept telling her things like “Easy, easy—okay, go for it.” Helping her take it, hands on her thighs, keeping her steady, and you can see he’s getting off on how wild she’s getting. My size isn’t just freaking him out—it’s turning him on, too, once he sees her lose it.