How often do you suspect being hit on

[Growing123]

Please only 100% straight men answer.

If you see a guy glancing at you do you immediately suspect that he's checking you out? How do you typically react?

For example, if you're sitting in a coffee shop or training at the gym and a guy glances your way would you feel suspicious and presume he's fantasizing about you?

I'm just wondering how often straight guys suspect that a guy is checking them out - every day, once a week, rarely ever.
Today I glanced at a guy and I wondered if he was suspecting that I was checking him out. Are most straight guys expecting guys to feel attracted to them or is it a shock to imagine that a guy is having lustful thoughts about you?

 

[cofrader]

Being straight I'm used to make the things happen with woman, I'm pretty sure that a woman should step on my feet to realize of something.
About men when I was younger I had a situation where a man was staring so hard that i realized about it and got angry, lucky he didn't move forward but it was a disturbing situation.

 

[Mike hung]

I don't take much notice unless someone is being ridiculously obvious, I'm straight, it's all about the women in my radar.

 

[Rooker]

Please only 100% straight men answer.

If you see a guy glancing at you do you immediately suspect that he's checking you out?

Not really. It depends on the type of looks and overall scenario.

How do you typically react?

Usually give them a nod to acknowledge unless I think they are being creepy from the beginning.

For example, if you're sitting in a coffee shop or training at the gym and a guy glances your way would you feel suspicious and presume he's fantasizing about you?

No, but I have broad shoulders and what is considered a pleasant face. It sounds arrogant, but I’m used to people taking a second glance.

I'm just wondering how often straight guys suspect that a guy is checking them out - every day, once a week, rarely ever.
Today I glanced at a guy and I wondered if he was suspecting that I was checking him out. Are most straight guys expecting guys to feel attracted to them or is it a shock to imagine that a guy is having lustful thoughts about you?

I don’t think everyone wants me to fuck them, even if they look at me a few times. Even if I think they think I’m attractive, I don’t think they are fantasizing. People watch people, in a non weird way, and that’s fine.

 

[lapdog2001]

f you see a guy glancing at you do you immediately suspect that he's checking you out? How do you typically react?

I don't know (or remember) a guy that was obviously checking me out. Since I'm not interested in men that way, maybe some have and I'm oblivious to it? No reaction, as I'm totally unaware.

For example, if you're sitting in a coffee shop or training at the gym and a guy glances your way would you feel suspicious and presume he's fantasizing about you?

If some guy looked at me, my first thought would be "Do we know each other somehow? Have we met before?" I have never presumed anyone (man or woman) is fantasizing about me.

I'm just wondering how often straight guys suspect that a guy is checking them out - every day, once a week, rarely ever.

In my case, practically never, as I don't think it has ever happened to me

Today I glanced at a guy and I wondered if he was suspecting that I was checking him out. Are most straight guys expecting guys to feel attracted to them or is it a shock to imagine that a guy is having lustful thoughts about you?

I'm not expecting anyone, man or woman to be attracted towards me, but have only noticed when women have expressed interest. Even then, I know I have had missed opportunities when I've been oblivious to flirting by women in my past.

 

[newfam]

If you see a guy glancing at you do you immediately suspect that he's checking you out? How do you typically react?

For example, if you're sitting in a coffee shop or training at the gym and a guy glances your way would you feel suspicious and presume he's fantasizing about you?

I'm just wondering how often straight guys suspect that a guy is checking them out - every day, once a week, rarely ever.

I'd say literally never. If I saw a random guy looking at me, my thoughts would be more like "Do I know that guy?" "Did I just bump into him?" "What's his problem?" "Did my airpod fall out?" etc. lol

Today I glanced at a guy and I wondered if he was suspecting that I was checking him out. Are most straight guys expecting guys to feel attracted to them or is it a shock to imagine that a guy is having lustful thoughts about you?

Not a shock, it's just nowhere near my first instincts when I ask myself "Why is that guy looking at me?"

 

[techpump]

Every gay man I've ever known has wanted me. Or they tell me I'm cute or hot to my face. So when I see guys looking at me the way I check out girls, I know they are interested in me. You just know. There's the "looking around to see who's there" looking, that's usually what I do, I just like to see what people are doing and what they look like, any and all people. Then there's the "this guy has looked at me and only me like 5 times now in the last couple minutes no matter where I'm at or what we're doing" and that's when I know they are checking me out.

To quote Tony Montana: "the eyes, Chico...they never lie."

 

[bigvince]

Most of the time, I'm not thinking in that way. Especially if it's just a glance. There have been a lot of times when a guy is obviously checking me out or trying to get my attention. It feels the same way with women too.

I'm sure there are gay dudes who have had women check them out. Some are subtle, some aren't.