How to be a better lover?

scarymovie3

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This post is coming from a guy with poor bed skills ( i think ) i have very little experience, i am 36, lost virginity at 25 with my first GF, then had a couple one night stands and then got married, i think im one of those that learned sex from porn and obviously cannot compete but... anyway

sex life is gone after 10 years of marriage. for a guy with poor skills, on a realistic world what would you suggest to light up the flame in bed again?, wife is not interested in sex whatsoever, apparently shes got some hormonal issues, doc said shes young but about to enter menopause and that she will never get pregnant. so doctor said that low libido is expected on her condition, she got some prescribed drugs that supposed to help her but i see no changes. Im trying to be supportive and not blaming it all on her, im just opening this post for suggestions. not to judge or be judged.
 
Sex starts long before bed, so my best advice would be to work on the romance and attraction.
How can you make her feel attractive, loved and important? What could strengthen the bond between you? Do something romantic? Or something adventurous?
Focus on her needs and her pleasure (when you eventually end up in bed). :)