How to bottom

[Morgan4]

Hi guys, how can I bottom for the first time? How do I prepare? Also, what are the cons after bottoming, like what will happen with my digestive track?

 

[6798491]

I'll give you a few tips that helped me:

1. Do not eat before you bottom.
2. Douche your hole - using an enema or another calonic aid.
3. Make sure your top starts you off by penetrating you slowly first; going too fast might irritate your anus or make you uncomfortable.
4. Have both of you discussed what turns the two of you on? Maybe you can dress up how he likes, buy the sex toys he loves, etc. - do whatever makes both of you more present & turned on.

 

[Morgan4]

I'll give you a few tips that helped me:

1. Do not eat before you bottom.
2. Douche your hole - using an enema or another calonic aid.
3. Make sure your top starts you off by penetrating you slowly first; going too fast might irritate your anus or make you uncomfortable.
4. Have both of you discussed what turns the two of you on? Maybe you can dress up how he likes, buy the sex toys he loves, etc. - do whatever makes both of you more present & turned on.

Do you bottom? If yes, what do you eat the day you're gonna bottom? Do you have to prepare your food meals like a day before or you don't have to eat for a certain amount of time before having sex?

Furthermore, after bottoming, how's your "trip" to the toilet after sex/the following days? For me, as my first time, will i hurt the following days? Will I have the urge to go to the bathroom?

 

[Morgan4]

Bump

 

[lance-ryder]

Buy a dildo and some solid lune (like Swiss navy, avoid cheap Amazon garbage)

more practice = less anxiety cuz you know how things will be with your body

fiber pills (psyllium husk) are great too

 

[deleted18388141]

Following this
I generally just clean (not inside)
And relax myself and ask my partner to make me excited … sucking and bum eating that prepares me with some fingering

 

[deleted1074483]

2. Douche your hole - using an enema or another calonic aid.

if you have a good diet with lots of water then you don't necessarily need to douche - my bf never does and most of my exes never did either.

Douching can cause you issues such as drying out your anus which can lead to tears, so you need to use enough lube so that doesn't happen.

 

[Johnjingles]

Douche but not more than 15 minutes. Add more fiber to your diet but out the soda and junk. It doesnt matter whst you eat that day unless you have an upset stomach. What matters is your diet 36-48 hours before.

when douching do not stick the bulb all the way in only the tip and spray a little water in. Then hold it until you physically cannot anymore. Maybe like a few minutes i just clean up my place a little while i wait. Then release the water. Wipe and do it again. It’s important that you do not stick the bulb all all the way in because you can hit you intenstines then douching would take hours. If youre not clean withon 15 minutes just call him and apologize. Youll shoold finger yourself just to make sure youre really to go, could be pleasure but youre likely to end up with a poppy finger if there is still work.

Stay hydrated and use a condom and only douche once a week