So this is half a rant and half advice seeking. I'm a 25 year old hideous half-cripple. Today I feel more down than usual and I'm curious as to how people in similar situations manage it. My usual "keep it pent up until you get sick" works less and less over the years.
How to deal with being ugly an unlovable?
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Hi ! I was in the exact same situation until I realised thanks to my friends and by observing a little bit that looks only matter if you want to be famous and appreciated by the first look. What matters most is what we call here in France '' le charme ''. I believe it's called '' charm '' in English too, as when you call someone charming. Anyway looks really aren't really important, as long as you emanate something different. Plus, you don't have to be pretty since you will without a doubt attract the person you are meant to attract. '' you don't have to attract everybody since you will attract the right one eventually '' is what I tell myself usually. And if that doesn't help, I recommend maybe changing clothes, maybe haircut if you want to feel better about the way you look, I'm sure you'll manage to find what is best for you. I hope you'll feel better soon, keep us updated :')
Don’t put any stock into what you’ve been conditioned into believing about looks. It’s all EGO. No matter what you look like all this flesh and shit will one day either rot or be reduced to ashes…Avoid anything and anyone that triggers you to feel less about yourself. We all talk shit and judge each other. Those are opinions not facts. and there’s someone for everyone. You must refuse to let it taint how you feel about yourself or you will literally waste the finite time that you have left. Remember this is up to you and no one else to live your best life. If you so choose to you will literally die feeling bad for yourself NO ONE is going to change that but you…Cheer up, get your mind together, and vibe to whatever brings you joy.
As a gay Black man, who feels the same way at times.
Not caring what other people think. Embracing your own style. If there are things you really want to change about yourself (not because others told you to) like your hair, clothes, hobbies etc. do that.
It's also okay to conform to boost your confidence. If you feel you need to change your style/how you present yourself, you can do that. But yeah. Hope that helps
Not caring what other people think. Embracing your own style. If there are things you really want to change about yourself (not because others told you to) like your hair, clothes, hobbies etc. do that.
It's also okay to conform to boost your confidence. If you feel you need to change your style/how you present yourself, you can do that. But yeah. Hope that helps
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